Greetings xhamster friends, The time came yesterday December 8 2020 when my wife said she canāt abide being married to a guy who looks at porn and gave me an ultimatum. I donāt mean to paint her badly, but I donāt see how not to in this case, because I think she is just being silly, except sheās dead serious. My closest xhamster friends all know I had a huge affair for a long time ā hell, anybody who cares and can read may have seen the multiple posts I have written about it. When I told my wife about my lover in 2016, she was more upset than I was expecting (yes, Iām an idiot, what was I t Read more
Happy October
I am not making this up. Such a lovely chat with a fellow xhamster traveler to start to my day. I should set the scene: I am a straight old man. She is a lesbian young woman. I am old enough to be her dad or maybe even her grandfather. Because of my interesting life experience, I am keen on the plight of those communities of alternatives that go by all those monikers that make your head spin any more. Straight, gay, queer, LBGT, non-binary ... I can't even remember all the acronyms any more. For God's sake, can't we all just Read more
A Taper in a Rushing Wind - Part One
I had said I would tell the story of how we got together some day. A friend asked, and I am inspired. Bear with me as I try not to encumber this story with too many details. I donāt want to accidentally divulge the identity of anyone Iām writing about. Iāll start by confessing how I am overwhelmingly visually-oriented, so for me visual attraction is a key to my own stimulation. Try as I might to keep it in check, sometimes I objectify women. Of course a clue to the things that personally titillate me would be found in my gal Read more
The Barcelona Glass
It is 6 o'clock in the morning, and I already know I am going to be blue today. Really I've been nursing the perfect 'blue' for a couple weeks in anticipation, knowing that every September 16th is the anniversary of the last time I saw my lover. You'll remember her as the one that sucked my seed in the tea house in Paris oh-so-long ago (go read the post called "Reminisces from my trip to meet my lover in Paris" for those wonderful details). The last time we saw each other, we were lost together by choice, mee Read more
Christmas 2019
I shopped for some last minute Christmas gifts for my beautiful wife. However, they are the kinds of gifts that are more reasonably described as more for me than they are for her. It amused me to find the word anime included in the description of the socks and the word cosplay included in the description of the underwear. Not surprisingly, the word schoolgirl also made an appearance. I am truly in denial about my age, and I would not have it any other way. I hope she humors me kindly. [This was originally po Read more
In Praise of Panty Bridges
You might recall that my wife had put on, well, so much extra non-muscle that looking at her did not make my cock swell like it did back when I decided to scramble up the entire rest of my life (including leaving my first wife) so I could fuck her all I wanted (sorry ladies). Ultimately I solved that issue by taking up with another woman ("the other woman") who was as stimulating to look at as anyone I had ever seen. Problem solved. Mission accomplished. Except it wasn't. Long story. Anyway, I came clean with Read more
Artistic Photos
To commemorate my first "Artistic Photo" gallery, I found this lovely bit of humor: As I make my way though xhamster (is it possible a journey like this ever has a destination? I mean, with over 5 million movies and over 5 million photos?), I find myself drawn to photos more more likely described as artistic rather than dirty, or pornographic or raunchy. So I found myself collecting those and setting them aside in a separate directory. Most of what I have comes from other users (although I started out with one hell o Read more
The White Panties
This morning I was working around the house, and had occasion to do a load of "whites." So I dug into the hamper for white things, and found my wife's lacy white panties all the way at the bottom. Now, there are a lot of things any number of xhamster readers could be thinking about my happiness to find my wife's underpants. Some of you guys have some dirty minds! But let me explain that in the big scheme, where I agreed to end my affair if she would agree to return sex in our marriage back to pre-we-got-off-track levels, findi Read more
First Time for Everything
This will be interesting. At the urging of a couple xhamster friends, I have written an account of what is probably my favorite sexual experience. At 60 years old, how does one measure that, though, really? It's certainly in the top ...3? 5? Though married, at the time for 17 years, I had taken up a love affair with a professional colleague who lived 5000 miles away - an easy and self-limiting way to manage any mischief. She was also married and we both had young c***dren. Both of us had spouses we didn't think were particularly interested in keeping us happy, and both of us felt we had give Read more