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Hi, I"m just looking to meet some cool people and have some fun! Here is something I wrote a few years ago about oral sex.

What I have to offer. When you are going down on a woman, it helps to remember that sometimes women want to be touched the exact opposite way that men want to be touched. There are no hard and fast rules for oral sex. What works one time with one woman might not work with another female. The most important thing to do is to be aware of how her body is responding to you. That being said, here are some general guidelines.

Tearing her panties off and diving into her crotch, devouring her like she is the last thing you are ever going to eat, is what your normal first reaction would be. It makes sense to us because we want to show our great enthusiasm for going down on her. We know that we would love it if she would push us against a wall, pull our pants down, and start greedily eating up our cocks. Remember that men and women don't necessarily like to be touched in the same way. To show you are enthusiastic about going down on her, the best thing you can do is take your time, the way that she does when she starts going down on you. A person will generally touch you the way that they like to be touched (an important point to remember). When you watch your masturbate, she doesn"t just grab some lube, and a dildo, and start pumping away.

So, approach her slowly. Take your time, fight your urges to go fast and hard, and move with a frustrated patience. Kiss the insides of her thighs gently. Run your fingertips along her thighs from her knees towards her hips. Gently graze over her clit or the edge of her lips, but don't stop there. You only want to build up her excitement so that she NEEDS to feel you there. If she isn't grossed out by talking, tell her how pretty her pussy looks. Once will do it, you don't have to repeat it over and over and over to get your point across. When you finally do get to her pussy, start with some gentle kisses. Let her feel your lips pressed against that area between her leg and her pussy, the area above her clit, and the area on the other side of her pussy. Kiss [with lips and tongue] her outer lips, one at a time. Run your wet tongue from her hole, gently parting her lips and up to her clit. Long, slow strokes. Don't immediately start flicking your tongue porno-style on her clit. First, try gently kissing and sucking on her clit. If she likes that, slowly move away from that area, so that you can come back. You want her level of passion to build up steadily in the beginning. Try putting your tongue inside of her, using it to feel around that first inch of her insides. Take your time and explore all of her, and be sure and notice how she responds to different strokes and pressure. You can run your tongue back and forth across her clit, or up and down, or any number of other ways. As her excitement builds and you find yourself spending more time on her clit, don't forget that you have free hands. Use them to feel her legs, or stomach, or chest. Also, this is a good time to slip one finger inside of her. She will already be soaking wet and this additional stimulation will add even more excitement. Don't just start pounding away with your finger. You can still move slowly, looking for her G spot and gently rubbing and massaging that area. As she gets more turned on, you can start some tongue-flicking to see how she responds. This might be a delicious tease for her. If she moves your head to a certain position, let her. Moan a little, like you are eating something delicious. The sound is a turn-on, and the vibrations also feel good. When you really have her going, don't stop. If you feel her legs start to shake, good job. She will generally let you know when she wants you to stop, or when she needs you to stop so that she can breathe again. When you finish, don't just hop up and push your dick in her mouth. Let her enjoy how good you have just made her feel. If she wants to feel you inside of her, she will let you know, believe me.

Hi, are you still looking? I am (50), athletic, and attractive with pics to trade. White, clean, adorable, passionate, shaved, cut, non-smoker, not a user, have plenty of time, 5"11", black hair, brown eyes,180 pounds, 7" cock, love to eat pussy, I hope to hear from you soon.