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This is a wonderful, heart warming story about a woman, Joanne, who had divorced and then rediscovered the pleasures of masturbation. She loved it so much, in fact, she embraced the 'goonette lifestyle', as it's now called. She prides herself on her lengthy masturbation sessions, during which she consumes as much adult content as possible, edging near orgasm for hours at a time. It's an infatuation really. Being online as she masturbates allows her to share her experience, amplify it, and help others like herself keep going and have mind blowing orgasms over and over. It's her primary socia… Read more

The "Sexy Sex Ed" camp in Appalachia has been operating several years. It is LGBTQ+ friendly, catering mostly to teens, fills the needs of such persons for accurate, supportive sex education. Such sex-positive efforts should be rewarded. But it has come under fire lately for its openess about masturbation. Specifically, teaching and encouraging masturbation and mutual masturbation. Here are some references... https://gazette.com/news/kentucky-summer-camp-teaches-c***dren-to-masturbate-and-have-sex-on-d**gs/image_d54259ab-4466-5d24-aaf0-7e108858a6d7.html https://www.krnlmagazine.com/post/se… Read more

This is a touching, personal story of transformation after 27 years of straight marriage. It's the journey of a couple where the husband discovered he is bisexual and how the wife came to terms with that, embraced it and eventually supported and encouraged his other side. They opened up their relationship so he could masturbate and have sex with other men as he needed to explore and develop his bi side, while still loving each other and enjoying their own sex together as he truely needed that as well. Each day brought something new for him and for her. She soon opened up to the idea for he… Read more

Kazumi, a 24 year old model tells of her liberating experience stumbeling into an orgy and then fucking 50 men. "It was something I've always fantasized about and when the opportunity came, so did I." It was entirely consensual. Her boyfriendvsupported it and made sure she was in control the entire time, which went on for six hours. "It was exhausting but so empowering and worth it" she said. Kazumi didn't know what she was getting herself into when she accidentally wound up at a swingers party her boyfriend had taken her to. The 24-year-old enjoyed group sex but never more than a couple me… Read more

Yes, we are moving towards a society where everyone is polyamorous or in open relationships, and that's not such a bad thing. Over the past 40 years, pure monogomous couple relationships have shrunk from the majority to a small minority, to under 20% now. The majority of relationships now report either open, polyamorous, or swinging on a regular basis. So for every couple we see out at the store or restaurant, the odds are they are regularly screwing others beyond just themselves and support each other in that. This together with a sharp increase in masturbation, overall, might explain the ris… Read more

In-the-News- More women are realized the value of masturbating to orgasm to avoid menstrual cramping and pain. More preferable and effective than medication. Somewhat humorously being called "Menstrubation", a growing proportion of women have embraced it and come off of medication. Upon doing so, they've learned to enjoy masturbation for its pleasure as well and significantly enhance their orgasmic ability and desire which, many report, is not a bad thing. Sex or intercourse is nice but does not quite stimulate the type of orgasm one gets from masturbation and enable to orgasm as often as… Read more

Here is a great read a friend found and sent to me. Discusses how mutual masturbation has been rising even among straight men and is not so much a gay thing as a simple a reflection of shared interest in cock pleasure and ejaculation. Just as with sports, working out, climbing, book clubs and other hobbies, guys are finding benefits in getting together with other guys to support each other and help take their masturbation to the next level. Nothing gay about it. https://www.pinknews.co.uk/2018/12/20/mutual-masturbation-isnt-gay-straight-men/ Batorguy… Read more

The ArcWave Ion is a new approach to male masturbation devices. I focuses on the cock head and applies pulsing air jets to stimulate nerves that are not normally reached during masturbation buy help intensify the orgasm. Is predicted to revolutionize masturbation. Has anyone tried it? What's your opinion… Read more

I wrote earlier about how porn sites were seeing a spike in concurrent logins and had to incease their capacity to handle it. This during work hours! Although off-work hours usage has not declined.... According to one large site, "More than 75% of US users are now logging in to watch its X-rated content between the hours of 10 a.m. and 6 p.m., the site has revealed to The Post. Remote workers are exploring mid-afternoon pick-me-ups [since] another cup of coffee isn’t cutting it anymore,” says Stripchat’s communications director Max Bennett in a statement. “Data shows that with more people wo… Read more

Sex-tech startup MysteryVibe introduces wearable vibrator for men As masturbation and sexual pleasure becomes more and more accepted and enjoyed at all hours, companies are responding. Penile stimulation and ejaculation is something a growing sector of men enjoy end desire throughout the day. Having convenient wearable devices can aid that lifestyle ensuring continuous mild stimulation all day and then extremely intense stimulation when it's desired. https://www.independent.co.uk/news/business/indyventure/sextech-startup-mysteryvibe-vibrator-crescendo-tenuto-a8422706.html… Read more

There has been a dramatic surge in "chemsex" parties, multi-day, d**g-fuelled orgies, where people spend several days having sex with scores of partners with the help of stimulants and erectile enhancement d**gs. They have grown in popularity worldwide. https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/chemsex-comedown-the-rise-in-people-seeking-therapy-for-sober-sex_uk_5c5c3c36e4b08710475b7539 Unfortunately, it is re-fueling epidemics of HIV in European town. One doctor stated, "There is absolutely nothing wrong with recreational sex as long as it is consensual and safe. Some people simply enjoy sex… Read more

Carlin Ross's journey embracing masturbation, putting it at her center, and then giving up her traditional career to dedicate her life to helping others masturbate better is inspirational. She is one of dozens of women that Betty Dodson has mentored to become certified masturbation coaches. She regularly gives bodysex workshop retreats to groups of women old and young to help them attain their orgasmic potential through effective masturbation. The retreats are over a weekend week long and focus on many aspects of self exploration and group sharing activities. She was hired as a part-time att… Read more

I've mentioned before how masturbation has become more accepted and promoted and how various practices that used to seem extreme are becoming mainstream. Edging, tantric masturbation, masturbation workshops, group masturbation. Here is a recent article on Orgasmic Meditation in the mainstream press. It has grown in popularity in the U.S. (sew youtube ted talk) and now Canada. https://torontosun.com/life/sex-files/sex-files-orgasmic-meditation-its-a-real-thing?mc_cid=bdfd54e2b1&mc_eid=48b693e72a Batorguy… Read more

As masturbation has become better undestood, it has increased and become as healthy and necessary. What used to be considered frequent, even compulsive, has become the norm and even expected and healthy. Along with this rise in masturbation, mutual masturbation has grown in popularity as a regular and casual practice even among hetero men and women. Although solo and mutual masturbation is still more frequent among the LGBTQ community, heteros are fast catching up. Great TED talks on masturbation Teesha Morgan https://youtu.be/zRkPU1fKchI Keely Olivia https://youtu.be/BUOzUTXFlQA Jane La… Read more

Of course, Betty Dodson and Carlin Ross have been teaching and promoting masturbation to women for decades. But times have changed and masturbation is much more accepted and openly promoted now by a new generation of sex-positive women who have made it their life's work. Masturbation has grown and the orgasmic lifestyle has been embraced by the mainstream, more and more leaders and rolemodels have emerged. No longer relegated to hidden corners of our culture, they can be outspoken and public about it, hosting workshops, retreats, presenting on campuses and even giving inspiring TED Talks. Wh… Read more

Please don't judge me harshly cause Im still new to xham posting and the while masturbation lifestyle thing, but I enjoy keeping myself in this state for hours before finally ejaculating. Slowly stroking to keep my erection at its stiffest so my precum begins oozing out heavy and runs down my shaft. My tissues become totally saturated having absorbed so much semen for hours and then it begins surging and erupting in thick ropes ejaculating way up onto my chest. For me, it's very rewarding and feels especially good and right. I know not everyone will understand if they don't need that feeling a… Read more