Bi versus Gay Experiences

A lot of guys describe their first experience with another man as "Bi". To me, if there's a woman present, it's "Bi-sexual". If not, it's "Gay". Let's keep it straight!
Published by gezbo
7 years ago
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jojosmallone
jojosmallone 1 year ago
so many labels that don't mean much. 
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frozenfrog 2 years ago
Gay, Bi or Straight my darn dick likes, no loves, them all!
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iamagoodlicker
iamagoodlicker 3 years ago
That is very true.  Both men could be bi, but that experience the had together is a gay one...but who really cares about titles?  I know, I knw, many people do! Get over the title and enjoy what you enjoy
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gezbo
gezbo Publisher 5 years ago
to robnrob2 : Thanks for the comment and I'm glad you are reading my posts.
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gezbo
gezbo Publisher 5 years ago
Clarification of what I meant: if you are attracted to both men and women, you are bisexual. To have a bi-sexual experience, both sexes must participate. Otherwise, it's either straight or gay. This is just my opinion.
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robnrob2 5 years ago
We  did visit Camp David down in Inverness, which is a clothing optional campground for men only, 
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robnrob2 5 years ago
I had a married friend a few years ago, and we would meet together when I could get away from my wife, and we would jack off, and  do gay stuff, we tried anal but we never were able to penetrate. 
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smilinwillie2001 6 years ago
But for the record, I called my first male/male sex gay and my first tryst with a trans as bi.
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smilinwillie2001 6 years ago
What if one of those 2 guys is dressed as a woman; makeup, wig, dress. It that gay or bi? Not that I care either way, if it excites me I'm going after it!
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gezbo
gezbo Publisher 6 years ago
to jonny8884 : Very perceptive. I couldn't have said it better. 
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jonny8884
jonny8884 6 years ago
I luv women first and foremost and everything about them.  Guys on the other hand it's really about the cock and cum.  I don't want to kiss or hug, or date, there is no intimacy, it's more lust.  With women I feel passion, view them as sexy.  Guys it's a hard cock that I want to make cum.   I consider myself sexually bi for those reasons, but I've never considered myself gay, even if I've met 1:1 with a guy.   Hope that makes sense?  I think after we've all watched so many big cock porn stars shooting thick ropes of cum it makes many of us want to experience it.   Plus guys are easier to find when our wives are not playing at home.   Just my two cents, knowing everyone's experience can be different. 
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william2015AND
william2015AND 7 years ago
if you have cock and cum at hand...what else is there?
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gezbo
gezbo Publisher 7 years ago
Have come around to thinking this does not necessarily apply to real life experiences. 2 married guys getting it on without their wives is a bi-sexual experience. 
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ericocub
ericocub 7 years ago
Ohhh, gotcha. If it's a story and there's no mention of a woman, you're right, where's the bi? Lol, yea seems gay. Kinda anticlimactic too. Thanks for the response.
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gezbo
gezbo Publisher 7 years ago
to ericocub : Thanks for the comment. Blogs are just for random thoughts. I had just read a story titled "My First Bi Experience" which was completely mano y mano and I thought where's the Bi?
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ericocub
ericocub 7 years ago
I can't speak for anyone else but, as much as I hate labels, I identify as bi because I'm attracted to both sexes. But your argument is a man and a woman have to be in the same room simultaneously for it to be a bisexual experience? You've been watching too much porn.
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gezbo
gezbo Publisher 7 years ago
to windsurfer2 : I see your point.
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windsurfer2
windsurfer2 7 years ago
I personally didn't look at my first time or few times with men as Bi, I looked at it like trying it out to see if I liked it or not. And I did enjoy it, but I enjoy a woman's big soft tits and body too. I would say I prefer woman 75% and 25% men, now for me that's where the "bi" comes from. that's just my 2cents
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