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If you intend to attack my reputation in a public comment please have the balls to allow me the right to reply. I am tired of this whole topic. I am only posting it as a blog to clarify the issue so it can be dropped. I do hope you agree with my sentiment that all three of these people are harassing me and it isn't right. I had no intentions of discussing the matter further. I will only say dave set up a new account and proclaimed he fabricated the whole story about the curiouscouple. The irony is they threaten to report me when I withheld their true name yet they have the balls to harm my reputation with a public comment when the wise move would've been to discuss the topic in private. I don't know what happened. Dave's story was a plea to be back in my life with the alarming confession he thought I had feelings for him that were to strong. Rather than be a gentleman and simply tell me this relationship must end he decided to fabricate his encounter with the couple knowing I would do the research and be so harmed I would reject him. Yet he begged to continue engaging in conversations with me. He taunted me that he has already been included on my friends list and has every intention to keep reading my work. I can't block him because I don't know who he is. However, I am quite prepared to report the curious couple for the negative comment they chose to post in public on my page. I was blocked from a reply. I posted as a comment on my page. I sent it to their skype account and now I'm posting it in a blog. If you have an issue with me I will highly warn you to discuss the issue in private and not attempt to blast me in a comment and block me from replying. That is total bullshit. If you have the nerve to post personal attacks you should have the balls to allow me to reply.
I have been conned and manipulated beyond your comprehension. If you have had chats with dave it is further proof that I am being stalked and tormented for his amusement. I quoted his confession word for word for a reason. I have the right to blog about personal conflict. I DID NOT USE YOUR TRUE XHAMSTER NAME. your identity was withheld and it was not affected. His allegations were serious. If you were told two people engaged your closest friend and engaged in sexual activity you would also be pissed. I would respect your right to discuss the issue. Dave is a pathological liar his story has shifted with such frequency I do not know what truly occurred. all I can say was he concocted a story that shared details about your life I hadn't told him. That is quite compelling evidence to believe what he said was true. My blog is a place to vent frustration about abuse and misconduct. I DID NOT USE YOUR REAL XHAMSTER NAME. His allegations could be complete fabrications or inappropriate activity occurred behind my back. The freedom of speech gives me the right to discuss events in my life when I do not use real names that could inflict harm. I didn't post a comment on your page. I asked you about the incident and your response would lead anyone to believe your wife and dave were acting inappropriately behind my back. I have moved on even though dave intends to stalk me. I can imagine he probably told your horrible things about me because he is quite angry I will no longer take his abuse. I ask you again to read what he said about you. Those were allegations that harmed my emotions. To discuss the event was perfectly logical. I do not know what occurred. I'll even apologize if a lunatic made up some story that discredits you both for his amusement. However, I am totally prepared to defend myself if you report me because I NEVER USED YOUR ACTUAL XHAMSTER NAME. I will also point out that I didn't post negative allegations for the public to view on your page. I WILL REPORT YOU. If you wanted to discuss what dave told you you could've contacted me through pm or skype. YOU POSTED ALLEGATIONS AGAINST ME IN A PUBLIC COMMENT ON MY PAGE. That is inappropriate. Considering I protected your identity and you chose to make public allegations against me I think I made the wiser decision. What I was told regarding inappropriate activity was my right to discuss. It was very harmful to be lead to believe a couple I trusted would target my friend an exchange in a relationship that was sexual. However, I did not harm you in anyway. You harmed me with a page comment accusing me of lies. I only respond to what I am told an I assure you he was quite convincing. I will apologize if it was all lies that make no sense. Dave is pissed at me because I won't continue a relationship with a man who can't keep his story straight. I can't overemphasize your reputation was not in jeopardy yet you made a post on my page that harms mine. The mature decision would be to contact me in private. That is how I respected your privacy. My blog was an honest reflection of allegations made against all three of us. I'm sorry your not tickled pink by my tale of abuse. You were not harmed or identified. I don't tell lies about good people. I simply discuss things I am told and how they affect me that is the purpose of a blog. you had no right to make allegations against me in a public comment since your identity was withheld. I do not know what happened. I do not care. I have simply moved on. Please leave me alone. You could've contacted me privately and we could have gotten to the bottom of the situation. Dave is the one at fault. He made serious allegations about you both. I recommend you think carefully about what stories he chooses to tell you. I had to warn all my friend he intended to stalk me and they could also be victimized. He is a very sick man. I apologize if he fabricated the story. However, it is quite suspicious how many details he knew about you both if contact never occurred. I am simply done dealing with harassment. Please leave me alone. If you intend to attack me more I highly suggest you do it in private. Your public comment was uncalled for. I did not reveal your identity or affect your lives. You did not show me the same respect. I have been victimized by all three of you. Please leave me alone. For the love of God I can't take any more lies and abuse. Whatever happened was wrong. It is my right to discuss the issue with your identity withheld and his account rendered retired. So please understand I deserve to be left alone so I can engage in less destructive conversations with people like you and your new buddy dave.
I have been conned and manipulated beyond your comprehension. If you have had chats with dave it is further proof that I am being stalked and tormented for his amusement. I quoted his confession word for word for a reason. I have the right to blog about personal conflict. I DID NOT USE YOUR TRUE XHAMSTER NAME. your identity was withheld and it was not affected. His allegations were serious. If you were told two people engaged your closest friend and engaged in sexual activity you would also be pissed. I would respect your right to discuss the issue. Dave is a pathological liar his story has shifted with such frequency I do not know what truly occurred. all I can say was he concocted a story that shared details about your life I hadn't told him. That is quite compelling evidence to believe what he said was true. My blog is a place to vent frustration about abuse and misconduct. I DID NOT USE YOUR REAL XHAMSTER NAME. His allegations could be complete fabrications or inappropriate activity occurred behind my back. The freedom of speech gives me the right to discuss events in my life when I do not use real names that could inflict harm. I didn't post a comment on your page. I asked you about the incident and your response would lead anyone to believe your wife and dave were acting inappropriately behind my back. I have moved on even though dave intends to stalk me. I can imagine he probably told your horrible things about me because he is quite angry I will no longer take his abuse. I ask you again to read what he said about you. Those were allegations that harmed my emotions. To discuss the event was perfectly logical. I do not know what occurred. I'll even apologize if a lunatic made up some story that discredits you both for his amusement. However, I am totally prepared to defend myself if you report me because I NEVER USED YOUR ACTUAL XHAMSTER NAME. I will also point out that I didn't post negative allegations for the public to view on your page. I WILL REPORT YOU. If you wanted to discuss what dave told you you could've contacted me through pm or skype. YOU POSTED ALLEGATIONS AGAINST ME IN A PUBLIC COMMENT ON MY PAGE. That is inappropriate. Considering I protected your identity and you chose to make public allegations against me I think I made the wiser decision. What I was told regarding inappropriate activity was my right to discuss. It was very harmful to be lead to believe a couple I trusted would target my friend an exchange in a relationship that was sexual. However, I did not harm you in anyway. You harmed me with a page comment accusing me of lies. I only respond to what I am told an I assure you he was quite convincing. I will apologize if it was all lies that make no sense. Dave is pissed at me because I won't continue a relationship with a man who can't keep his story straight. I can't overemphasize your reputation was not in jeopardy yet you made a post on my page that harms mine. The mature decision would be to contact me in private. That is how I respected your privacy. My blog was an honest reflection of allegations made against all three of us. I'm sorry your not tickled pink by my tale of abuse. You were not harmed or identified. I don't tell lies about good people. I simply discuss things I am told and how they affect me that is the purpose of a blog. you had no right to make allegations against me in a public comment since your identity was withheld. I do not know what happened. I do not care. I have simply moved on. Please leave me alone. You could've contacted me privately and we could have gotten to the bottom of the situation. Dave is the one at fault. He made serious allegations about you both. I recommend you think carefully about what stories he chooses to tell you. I had to warn all my friend he intended to stalk me and they could also be victimized. He is a very sick man. I apologize if he fabricated the story. However, it is quite suspicious how many details he knew about you both if contact never occurred. I am simply done dealing with harassment. Please leave me alone. If you intend to attack me more I highly suggest you do it in private. Your public comment was uncalled for. I did not reveal your identity or affect your lives. You did not show me the same respect. I have been victimized by all three of you. Please leave me alone. For the love of God I can't take any more lies and abuse. Whatever happened was wrong. It is my right to discuss the issue with your identity withheld and his account rendered retired. So please understand I deserve to be left alone so I can engage in less destructive conversations with people like you and your new buddy dave.
10 years ago
Not sure where you're from, but I'm from Texas. And around here we don't put up with the kind of bullshit you're describing. It was above and beyond you in utter kindness to protect their identity. I would not have been so uhhh... obliging. If a motherfucking troll posts an attack on MY page (and I get it quite often, being a woman. We are targets)I will fire back with just enough to make them wish they would have passed this one (me) by. If they persist... and often they do. I will make them want to crawl back into whatever hole they crept out of. No holds bar. No "I was polite enough not to mention your screen name" tactic, however well meaning.
The assholes need public flogging. Some trolls actually enjoy this. Yet it is necessary to stand up to these bullies for all the other women out here who are not as strong as you or I and end up retiring their pro just because an idiot fucked with them. It is rampant here at XHAMSTER. Some men just don't like us treading on their territory, some women get jealous. I've seen catfights you would cringe over. Been in a few myself.
Please continue to do what you do. I just wanted to give you my opinion on keeping these kinds of issues private. They need all the light of day so as to warn and protect other potential victims. We NEED to know who they are and how they strike so we can be prepared to fight back.
If you get a chance read my blog on BEWARE: The Troll, and RETIRED The Big Red X. I'd like to know your thoughts.
Good luck,
SassyBri ~
http://xhamster.com/user/SassyBri/posts/259717.html
http://xhamster.com/user/SassyBri/posts/255621.html
I hope you don't mind but I am going to post this to my page as well, it is a challenge I've been up against time and time again, and an important issue for everyone in our community. Thank you.
Mark