Why does a straight guy get turned on by t-girls?
I was chatting with a young man recently on xHamster. I was telling him that despite being straight, pics or videos of young men dressed in women's clothing could be a real turn on for me.
He suggested that any man who would go for a crossdresser isn't really straight.
I disagreed with him then, and I still do. First, I don't like labels. But if you had to label me, I think most people would call me straight. I'm married, and I've never had any sort of sexual encounter with a male.
But I've long had an interest in t-girls and ladyboys, at least in videos and on the Internet. Does that make me gay? Or bi? Or pan-sexual? Or bi-curious? I don't think so.
Here's a photo that gets me especially hot:
http://xhamster.com/photos/view/2689897-44355850.html
So why does this turn me on? I got to thinking about it, and here's what I came up with.
Like millions of other teenagers, I used to dress up in my mother's clothes. Panties, bras, and especially slips, which still today I find an extremely erotic garment. Dresses and blouses too. No wig, no makeup, no jewelry, no perfume, just the basics. I could never come even close to being passable, but the feeling of those soft, lacy panties, the bra stuffed with socks, and that smooth, silky slip used to make me so hard!
So when I see a young man in stockings and a skirt, like in the photo, and when it gives me an erection, I think it brings back old memories, old sensations.
Now if I weren't happily married, and if I found myself in a bedroom with that young man, dressed in that skirt and those stockings, looking cute and feminine, would I want to have sex with him? Oral sex, yes I would, me on him and then him on me. I'm not into anal, but I think trading blowjobs would be amazing!
So what do you think? Does that make me gay, or bi, or what?
I think it just makes me, me!
He suggested that any man who would go for a crossdresser isn't really straight.
I disagreed with him then, and I still do. First, I don't like labels. But if you had to label me, I think most people would call me straight. I'm married, and I've never had any sort of sexual encounter with a male.
But I've long had an interest in t-girls and ladyboys, at least in videos and on the Internet. Does that make me gay? Or bi? Or pan-sexual? Or bi-curious? I don't think so.
Here's a photo that gets me especially hot:
http://xhamster.com/photos/view/2689897-44355850.html
So why does this turn me on? I got to thinking about it, and here's what I came up with.
Like millions of other teenagers, I used to dress up in my mother's clothes. Panties, bras, and especially slips, which still today I find an extremely erotic garment. Dresses and blouses too. No wig, no makeup, no jewelry, no perfume, just the basics. I could never come even close to being passable, but the feeling of those soft, lacy panties, the bra stuffed with socks, and that smooth, silky slip used to make me so hard!
So when I see a young man in stockings and a skirt, like in the photo, and when it gives me an erection, I think it brings back old memories, old sensations.
Now if I weren't happily married, and if I found myself in a bedroom with that young man, dressed in that skirt and those stockings, looking cute and feminine, would I want to have sex with him? Oral sex, yes I would, me on him and then him on me. I'm not into anal, but I think trading blowjobs would be amazing!
So what do you think? Does that make me gay, or bi, or what?
I think it just makes me, me!
11 years ago
I developed a fetish for small cocks as a child from going nude with other boys at a very early age, pre-teen if I can say that on here, but we all had tiny dicks back then and we would go to the woods and strip and skinny-dip, which eventually led to experimentation. We would touch each other, then we would try sucking each other's tiny dicks.
I'm married now and very attracted to mature women, but I still like to see other men with small dicks, not just because I have one myself, but I find them sexually attractive, especially on shemales and teenage boys who are completely shaven.
I hope that you can try soon and I think that you will not regret.
Doncha think?
Why I dress? Love the variety, weight, cuts, and colors that I get to play with that men's "fashion" never even comes close to. I get to embrace a feminine side that I have that most guys would never dare to even look into.
Frankly, it's made me a more honest and objective person, and I can really feel the change, as I'm only a few years new to this. Hit me like a ton of bricks. Never even plaayed around with it in earlier years.
What's odd about this is feminine gay men ("swishers") totally turn me off in "real life." Weird huh? And in real life dykish lesbians turn me off, yet I can sometimes get into some of the porn by mannish/manly/dykish lesbian actresses cavorting with a feminine lesbian. But I'm off topic now. Sorry.
As for me, I've always been "straight" (possible exceptions being childhood play), although I fantasize about being with both t-girls/trannys/etc. and other "straight" guys. Not sure what that "makes" me.
Also, for me personally, having watched porn for almost 30 years now I have always tried to shoot my own load when the guy in the the video does. I'm not entirely sure why but I've always done it that way. I think that I have made a subconscious connection between my own sexual pleasure and masturbation-orgasms with seeing another cock. When you combine that cock fetishization with the beauty and form of a gorgeous shemale, it stands to reason that guys will love it.
Being straight (for the most part), I think it's two things:
1) An aesthetically pleasing female form, or the illusion thereof. A crossdresser or transsexual that looks and acts feminine and carries them self in a sensual way turns me on. The same would ring true for someone who is genetically female.
2) The idea of someone altering their physical appearance to please me as a man. Again, whether a genetic female or not, if someone is making a concerted effort to please me sexually, it's arousing.
What does that make you? Human. Same as me.
I heard once that the difference between a crossdresser and a transsexual is that you'll find the crossdresser wearing a sequined gown, and the transsexual wearing jeans and a t-shirt!
I envy the Men who, Married Women who Approved of their Crossdressing and helped them improve the desire to dress as a woman.
But I don't think I'd actually do it, because of my sworn commitment to my wife. Take that out of the equation, you're darn right I would!