I think it means something disparaging for some. I'm 53 and I work with laborers, They use the word regularly and for me it never meant anything that bad. I kinda like it
I feel like the term reduces my whole person to that one part. It would be like calling a master electrician a "cable puller'. Any woman you find on here isn't going to be offended by dirty language in the right context, but reducing people to less than they are is the core issue.
I've noticed that most girls dislike that word when it's used as a word for them as a person (there are exceptions to every rule, it seems; some girls LIKE to be called that), and those of us who are sensitive to your feelings refrain from using that word. But then there is the word, "cunny" used to describe a girl's most delightful girly part. How do you feel about a guy calling your pretty little pink pussy a "cunny?" I personally think a cute little cunny is WONDERFUL!
If it weren't used in a derogatory way might make a difference