All Good Things…
Hi Everyone.
Just received this message:
”Hi there!
Starting from January 6, 2025, the option to add dating photos will be removed to simplify and improve the dating experience. However, you can still upload your profile photo and additional photos of yourself using the Photo Upload.
Yours, xHamster team”
We can no longer alter our avatars unless we are registered creators.
So unless we are prepared to provide documentary evidence of our identities, we have no means to express ourselves visually. Something I have always held so special, and what I really enjoyed doing. I’ve lost my special galleries, the pictures on my page, my avatar and soon my “dating” photos.
So in the new year, I shall be leaving the site. I’ll probably just leave my page available, so that anyone can enjoy the videos and pictures that I’ve collected, rather than delete the account.
Extremely sad day, and I’m so sorry to all my friends. But I think it’s time for me to develop my life in some other ways. I’ve devoted a lot of it to activities on here.
It’s been wonderful, amazing and thrilling to meet such fantastic people, and upload such gorgeous pictures, to show and promote female (fe) Beauty.
I hope everyone understands, and I hope for nothing but happiness and love and good health and kindness and peace, for all gentle people.
Nicky. With Love.
Just received this message:
”Hi there!
Starting from January 6, 2025, the option to add dating photos will be removed to simplify and improve the dating experience. However, you can still upload your profile photo and additional photos of yourself using the Photo Upload.
Yours, xHamster team”
We can no longer alter our avatars unless we are registered creators.
So unless we are prepared to provide documentary evidence of our identities, we have no means to express ourselves visually. Something I have always held so special, and what I really enjoyed doing. I’ve lost my special galleries, the pictures on my page, my avatar and soon my “dating” photos.
So in the new year, I shall be leaving the site. I’ll probably just leave my page available, so that anyone can enjoy the videos and pictures that I’ve collected, rather than delete the account.
Extremely sad day, and I’m so sorry to all my friends. But I think it’s time for me to develop my life in some other ways. I’ve devoted a lot of it to activities on here.
It’s been wonderful, amazing and thrilling to meet such fantastic people, and upload such gorgeous pictures, to show and promote female (fe) Beauty.
I hope everyone understands, and I hope for nothing but happiness and love and good health and kindness and peace, for all gentle people.
Nicky. With Love.
2 months ago
You have summed up the situation well and I share your trouble with this site, whose old characteristics that made it a unique site I regret.
I wish you a Merry Christmas and a happy holiday season.
I can understand you very well. I feel the same way. Perhaps for other reasons too. This site has destroyed itself in recent years. Instead of doing something about the ab*se of features, they have simply k*lled everything that once made this site special. Stories, picture galleries, GIFs as avatar pictures and so on and so on. Completely nonsensical censorship of texts we write in PMs. And now, finally, they're also removing the upload of profile pictures for non "creators". One of the last ways to express ourself. Let them be happy with their “creators”. I won't give them my identity.
But there are other reasons too. A good friend once said that this site is t o x i c. She is right. I've observed a few things over the last few weeks. What's so interesting about it? You realize that some users have built a network of lies around themselves, fake accounts, old “friends” returning with their 100th account, st*lkin, h*rassing and marking other friends as spammers. That is t*xic. It's sick. And the site is doing nothing about it.
You say “it's time for me to develop my life in some other ways”. Yes, that's true. I should probably do that too.
Let's see what 2025 brings. For me, 2024 was a difficult year. A year of challenges, a year of personal losses, but also a year with some beautiful moments. A year that made me stronger despite everything.
Let's stay what we are, how we are, who we are. Wonderful, great, unique. Strong. Let's do what brings us joy, what enriches our lives. Let's stop what drags us down and weighs us down.
I wish you and your family and friends a Merry Christmas and a wonderful time!
Julia