About

Substantially and amiably dominant. I treat people - those standing in the doorway, those kneeling, and those I pass in the hall - with visible respect; I hope for it in return. I don't "play" with people; I expect relationships to endure, deepen. Very quiet but bright, very bright. A bit formal by default. That all seems to unnerve people. Oppressor-in-chief to, and full-time possessor of, chipmunk. That said, finding new friends is a good thing.

The curious or bored might check my old blog posts, there are rather a lot, at the largely moribund BDSM Library. I shared bits of poetry (not mine), the science of BDSM, and reflections on relationships. It's linked above.

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