About

"It's hard for an educated woman to turn her head off. That's part of the joy of being a submissive. None of the decisions are yours. When you can't refuse anything, and you can't move, those voices in your head go silent. All you can do, all you are permitted to do, is feel."

— Cherise Sinclair

Greetings. Welcome to my little corner of this incredible world.

Despite being in control of every other aspect of my life, I've had submissive leanings...yearnings...for as long as I can remember. While the fantasies were always there, evolving inside my head, it’s only been recently that I’ve begun to embrace and understand the depth of my submissive nature.

It started as virtual exploration and play for quite some time, but in summer of 2014 I had the amazing experience of moving into the real world. What a great day it turned out to be when I created a FetLife profile; while I did it mainly to take a peek into local BDSM resources, in a surprisingly short time it led me to my first real-life Dom, and the very steamy path that we spent some time walking down together.

While there were some bumps along the way, 2014 truly was the beginning of My Great Sexual Renaissance, and it's continued to be more amazing and transformational than I ever could have imagined. I’ve learned, I’ve grown, I’ve experienced some of the things I’d spent decades dreaming about. While I’ve also gotten wiser and perhaps a little warier, so far there have been no regrets. I can't wait to continue learning, exploring and experiencing as I move forward on this incredible journey!

And where will the adventure take me next?

Ultimately, I would like to find MY Dom: a true Dom…someone real that I can both trust and learn from, someone whose kinks match my own, someone with significant experience who takes seriously the responsibility of Dominating, and who will push me but at the same time respect my limits. Someone stable, consistent and non-judgmental, who can handle the reality of my "real" life including my marriage (which isn’t going away anytime soon), my need for straightforwardness and simplicity, whose distaste for drama matches my own, and whose availability syncs nicely with mine....something I learned very quickly is that I REALLY like to play, which means that the availability thing is pretty huge.

Of course there are many more layers...but those are shared very selectively and over time, as trust is established.

No matter what i've experienced, no matter where on the path i happen to be, the bottom line remains the same: life's too short...but I'm doing my very best to make sure I’m living it :)

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For those folks looking for friendships / communications / interactions etc., please note that I have ONE locked folder. This is PRIVATE so don't ask me for access. I share more than most via my hundreds of fave'd vids and galleries as well as my original stories and blog posts. If you don't think it's reasonable that I keep a few things PRIVATE, then you are cordially invited to fuck off. NOW.

That having been said, I am happy to accept friend requests, provided:

- Your avatar isn't blank
- Your profile isn't friends-only
- You have some obvious interest in BDSM
- You have visible (unlocked) content to share. I am very proud of my collections, including the original story and blog content, and want to know that my friends are reciprocating
- You’re not obviously into something outside of my comfort zones. This is subjective and is based entirely on gut feeling.
- You're not a male young enough to be my offspring. Again completely subjective but I don't self-identify as a cougar. At least not yet :)
- Your friends list doesn't contain profiles that I believe to be fake or dangerous. I've managed to avoid the trolls so far and intend to keep it that way.

Well, that sums it up. Pretty simple, right? Thanks for reading, wishing you well, and provided you can work within my boundaries, will look forward to hearing from you.

xo

PS If you're on fet as well, say hi. I'm passiva over there too.

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