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This is a text about brains neurotransmitters how they affect us when practicing Kinbaku (Japanese rope bondage) or any kind of BDSM for that matter. The text will on a high level cover the inter-working between dopamine, endorphin, oxytocin and adrenalin. The text will also suggest how we can adapt our technique to better utilize the body's built in biochemical mechanisms to handle pain, give reward and create trust. Imagine yourself at an technically advanced and high creative suspension workshop, you are together with your favorite partner trying to learn a tie over and over again but it n… Read more

Imagine being on a date with someone who seems interesting and sexy, with no expectations on how evening will end. You laugh and drink, maybe it's your place, maybe it's his. He is nice, polite even, tries to be charming, however... There is a certain distance between you two, you can feel you are not exactly in his type, or he's not 100% attracted but you've made yourself available that night and since he has already made SOME effort, it would be stupid for him just to go, so he starts kissing you and situation progresses. Sex is decent. Hygienic. If you are lucky, even good+. A bit of inner… Read more

You were long gone. There was no trace of your scent on the bedsheets. No coffee mugs on the table. No socks thrown away in a rush. No hickies, no bruises... Time took everything. I caught myself reimagining you there, asleep. Arch of your back. Subtle curvature of muscles. Dark hair with stubborn curls covering beautifully shaped face. Dreams were revealing the softest side of you and I felt touched every time I realised how vulnerable you really are. But the truth was I missed the b**st as much as I missed the Gentleman. Remember that evening when we went out for a dinner and I whispered a… Read more