About

We enjoy a mostly femdom lifestyle where I get great pleasure taking it to my husband with an assortment of leather straps, floggers and singletail whips. I don't hold back and all strokes are given full force, which is how he likes it. No whimpy wrist slaps here! For him it's not submission, it's a desire to push his limits to a higher level that keeps him going and I'm happy to accommodate.

We've been enjoying this lifestyle our whole marriage and it gets better every year. I know how to handle a whip ("Practice Makes Perfect"), including the extremely punishing singletail shown in my photo that's 2" round at the business end. This whip lands with a thud and leaves one hell of a welt which, while arousing for me, is very challenging for my husband. Believe me, 6 of the best with this brute is an ordeal and not for the uninitiated. Unfortunately for him it's one of my favourites and when I bring it out, he's in for a good one. A true test of his limits but don't worry, he gets major TLC after. I have to say soothing the black and blue welts on hubby's swollen backside is an absolute turn on for both of us - him especially.

Pain and pleasure go together in our household!