About

You could say that I'm testing the waters.

I'm married but my husband's health problems mean that he is no longer able to be sexually active

. I'm not looking to leave him or have another relationship, so anyone interested will have to understand that I'm only seeking a physical thing here and that's it.

He isn’t aware that I am actively seeking partners and I need it to stay that way for now. Also it could not take place at my home. I do travel for work quite a lot.

I'm a BBW, on the larger side but am very sexual. You'll need to be attracted to big girls with a big assand I will post pics once I feel comfortable with the idea. This is a major step for me so please no pressure.

Please don't contact me if you're in another country as there is no point. If I don't answer you then I'm not interested so please don't take offence, I'm only interested in actual meetings. I’ve often dated older men so don’t let age put you off!

Theres zero chance of webcam or phone sex so please don't ask and the number one reason for ending the conversation is being hassled for pics/cam/phone number etc in two minutes flat.

Things to avoid if you want to make contact:
Calling me Miss, Madam, Mom/Mum (WTAF?!) or worst of the lot, ‘bb’.
Saying “love to see more”
Having nothing on your profile - if you can’t be bothered then I can’t!
”I can’t post pics because of my job” - I hear this about 10 times a day
Living in another country, unless it’s the US, or Western Europe.
”Can I cum for you on cam.” Erm that’s a no from me.
Pretending to be a black guy with a ludicrously huge penis. Obviously faked profiles are easy to spot and if you are pretending to be black then do better than pretending than your name is ‘Jamal’ or ‘Leroy’.
Copied and pasted messages! So easy to spot.
Asking me about previous sexual partners - it’s private. I don’t kiss and tell.
If you have pics of your ex on your profile then that is a big red flag. Take them down, you aren’t with her any more and what you’re doing is not on really. I’m sure you don’t have your ex’s consent to do it and it makes me think there is no way on God’s earth that I’m going to trust you an inch.