Well, technically I was the first to stray. After a 20 plus year marriage though weāre the best of friends and have a deep resounding love for one another, we never really had what one would call a healthy sex life. Aside from our likes differing, we just never had that thing so often much of our sex was quite ordinary at best. I lived within this 20 year capsule quite faithful, even though I too have intimacy issues and perhaps didnāt grow up with the healthiest view of sex. You see, my mother was a textbook Narcissist and my Dad was her enabler who had an unhealthy addiction to porn (th Read more