About

Everyday me

By day just a normal every day guy in the office, working in both London and Yorkshire.

In my spare time I do the usual social things of drinks, meals etc but I'll also freely admit to being a bit of a geek. I play a lot of computer games and I'm also into board games and role playing games (yes, the non-kinky variety). Also like decent fantasy and sci-fi tv/books.

Music wise, anything in the rock genre really and I go across the spectrum for the light to the heavy.

Kinky me

Very much a Dom/sadist. I love BDSM and have had the privilege of having played with a number of subs.

Aside from any obvious physical enjoyment, I find an intense and often unmatched intimacy in the sheer trust in BDSM play. I believe a good D/s relationship is built on this trust and respect for each other - rather than violence, rough sex and thinly veiled misogyny (as it happens I value ambition and independence in a romantic partner).

The perfect sub (for me at least) is an intelligent, strong woman, with self-responsibility, self-respect and a free will, who understands and can communicate her desires (and limits) to enable us both to explore our fetishes in a safe and comfortable way.

Things I'd be interested in

I'm already in a long-term committed relationship with a wonderful sub who I adore. We have and are interested in playing with others together but are also comfortable playing alone. I'm up for most things, certainly top of my list is to explore my sadistic and darker side with a keen masochist (within limits). And while I'm straight I also love the idea of being one of two (or more) Doms working one (or more!) subs, or even a gangbang scene.

Also interested in attending workshops, learning and developing old and new skills - especially around rope.

For those really curious in the test (no big surprises!):

== Results from http://bdsmtest.org/ ==
100% Dominant
100% Degrader
100% Rigger
100% Sadist
99% Non-monogamist
92% Master/Mistress
81% Daddy/Mommy
68% Experimentalist
62% Primal (Hunter)
58% Voyeur
57% Owner
37% Exhibitionist
2% Ageplayer
1% Switch
1% Vanilla