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Personal information
I am:
Big Softee, male, heterosexual
From:
Spring Hill, Earth
Seeking:
Female, heterosexual
Languages:
English
Education:
BA/BS (4 years college)
Occupation:
Retired
Income:
Average
Kids:
Yes, we do not live together
Smoking:
Never
Drinking:
Never
Star sign:
Libra
Webcam:
Yes
What I look like
Ethnicity:
White
Body type:
Stocky
Hair length:
Bald
Hair color:
Brown
Eye color:
Blue
Height:
183 cm (6 ft 0 in)
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About me

NO FRIEND INVITES FROM GAYS, thank you
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As you can plainly see I am not a big collector of friends. I had quite a few in the past but deleted them all recently. I feel if you want to be friends just for the sake of having a very high friends count DON'T bother, and if you are gay or a gay couple.... I don't care if you like my old average pecker or not... I am not interested in being friends. If you want to look at my stuff you're welcome to do so. Just because you may see peckers in my VIDEO FAV's or GALLERIES doesn't mean I like them. The videos simply show something I have done.
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And more importantly... if you are a WOMAN (real) and want to cam2cam or if you are local and you want to have some discreet fun than pleases go ahead and CONTACT ME thru a PM.
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I love to give and get a massage with a Happy Ending. The Chinese gal who does them locally is getting bolder each time I go. I see her every week and the best part is she doesn't charge me for any of it. I created (designed) and maintain her website so in exchange she gives me a massage with a happy ending once per week. Take the time and read some of the stories to find out how bold she can be.

EXTRAS ABOUT ME:
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I also do web design and maintenance and my own graphics art work. If you need any photos restored, touched up, or enhance your appearance (here or otherwise) I'll do it for FREE. Check out my PHOTOSHOP gallery for examples of that.

If you are interested in having your own website, for any purpose (no censorship), PM me and we can discuss the details.

Read more at: https://xhamster.com/posts/10110673

WARNING:
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All individuals and/or institutions, including local, state, federal, and international law enforcement agencies using this or any Adult Friend Finder site or its associated sites for projects and/or investigations. - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile information, pictures, videos, blogs, or stories in any form or forum both current and future. If you have, or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.

By us becoming friends, you and I agree that our profiles, photos, videos, stories, and chats are confidential between the two of us, and will not be shared with anyone or any agency for any purpose! If you have, or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.
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bigsoftee Host 7 years ago
to frankq81 : Sorry this took so long to reply I took a "brief" vacation form the site.. To answer your question, YES, most of the ORIENTAL massage places in Florida do offer HE and more. Especially those in the Orlando area and of course 80-90% of any "Asian" massage place in Florida. I go to one Chinese gal for a back injury and she does a wonderful massage but NO happy endings. For the HE's I go just 3 miles down the road where there is another Asian massage place where the gals wear short skirts and no undies. They'll not only  jerk me off but sometimes (depending on tip) do it with a prostate massage as well. The last time I was there I got a four hand massage and the other gal (not the one I usually see) even sucked me a few times then jerked me off. And at the time, they both let me play and suck on their tits and the new one even let me finger her pussy. Around here the NO HE regular massages are $60 plus tip if they deserve one. The ones with HE are only $80 plus tip which I always give one. Next time I'll try and get one of them to lift her skirt up and let lick her pussy then fuck her. I'll let you know!
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bigsoftee Host 7 years ago
to frankq81 : frankq81 ... I am on the west coast of Florida about 40 miles north of Tampa. I do website design and have several Chinese massage establishments that I have designed and maintain their sites for them. A few are always eager to give the HE (sometimes without even asking) while others will only watch you do it yourself. If there is a strong emphasis on "Professional Services Only" you can bet you're going to do it yourself. If there is no mention of that you have a better chance on having it done for you. I have covered from Brooksville Florida area to as far south as Sanibel Island in Florida doing web design for massage venues so I can only speak for those areas. I do know the 3 areas in Florida, Jacksonville, Miami and Orlando, have the most HE locations available. They offer the most places to get a HE due to their high tourist strength and income.

No matter where you go, the easiest way to check it out is to find a place near your location and go in and get a massage. I highly suggest you do this each time you go in. After undressing stroke yourself into a hard on and then get on the table and point your junk straight down. Don't cover yourself with any towel they have laying on the table. Now make sure you spread your legs wide enough so your feet are dangling off the sides of the bed. That way your junk is visible to her when she comes in and can't help but notice between your legs as she covers you. When she begins massaging your glutes (ass) lift your hips up a little each time she gets close to your junk. If she "accidentally bumps" into your junk a few times then lift our hips up even more and see what she does. Doing this and receiving more "bumps" from her your chances are she will do it for you. If she doesn't do anything to clue you in she is willing and after you turn over she ignores your junk, then don't bother going back there.
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frankq81
frankq81 7 years ago
Are most massage places in Florida HE friendly?? I get down that way often and have considred stopping into a few, but am never too sure if it would be just a waste or not
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Six_gun
Six_gun 8 years ago
Cool profile, and congrats. Id probably do the same thing sitting there, but hey, you snapped out if it so thumbs up on that! Tried seeing some of those links but none worked for me. Anyway, love your faves collection, and have a few of those myself. Into other stuff too, and a bonafide "massage" nut, but Ill be snagging some those and other for my fave collections too.
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Chris51a 8 years ago
Read a couple of your stories and found them very erotic and enjoyable.
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
to rnbcali : Ok... just send them in a PM
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rnbcali 8 years ago
Great stories! I'll send you a few ideas i'd love to read!
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
to shortstroker : Take your time. You don't want to get a "rub burn"
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shortstroker
shortstroker 8 years ago
Starting to go through your stories. Some pretty good one hand reads..you have so many it'll take awhile.
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gezbo
gezbo 8 years ago
Thanks for the ad.
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
to buhler : Got a new one....

New Website Client, Maybe
http://xhamster.com/stories/a-new-website-client-maybe-589016
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
No ... the Chinese lady I was going to behind Chili's. Debbie has always been glad to jerk me off, go topless and even nude at times. It's just that after a while it gets boring and I like to look for a new gal with different attributes.
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
I was but she got tired of jerking me off and told me she'd watch me but not participate. So I stopped going. Now I go to a place on the corner of US19 and Commercial Way. The first time I went there I made sure I took a Viagra (65 and getting older) and when she did my ass she very obviously rand her hands down the middle of my ass and over my balls. When it was time to flip over she grabbed more oil and instead of working on my face and neck she moved right down to my hard cock and jerked me off. She even poked my ass with her free hand while stroking me. After cleaning me up she even surprised me again by finishing the massage. I've been there 5-6 times since and she does the same thing each time.
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
Well, you owe me for hooking you up with her! LOL
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
Glad to hear you finally good results there. Did she do it topless or nude?
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bigsoftee Host 8 years ago
to buhler : Have been very busy with my website design business. But I'd be happy to write one for you if you give me the basic storyline.
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buhler 8 years ago
Love your stories. When can we expect a new one?
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felix74
felix74 8 years ago
good vids !
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magichands1971
magichands1971 8 years ago
Love your profile, and it looks like there are a few stories i'm gonna have to check
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justforkicks48 9 years ago
AWESOME stories.thanks
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sreesand
sreesand 9 years ago
Welcome
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rnbcali 9 years ago
Love the stories man!!! I'd love an add!
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piranhaxx88 9 years ago
thx 4 accepted
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buescher302
buescher302 9 years ago
Thanks for the invite. Lots of wanking coming up to your stories!
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bigsoftee Host 9 years ago
to buescher302 : Thanks... I appreciate the kind words.
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buescher302
buescher302 9 years ago
Great collection of videos and photos. I especially love your stories!!!
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wesley1978msn 9 years ago
great videos
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bigsoftee Host 9 years ago
to Rofel_91 : Sorry, I only have the one of me doing myself.
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Rofel_91
where's the handjob videos?
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bigsoftee Host 9 years ago
to fankyk7 : Just tell me which one and I'll see what I can do.
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