About

I know this is not a dating site, but you never know!!

Hellooo Everyone and thank you for visiting my profile:

I will not spend a lot of time telling you how good I am because a lot of profiles state that they are the perfect person. But I am not perfect. I have fears and weaknesses. I sometime have self-doubt even though I have achieved a lot in life. I talk loud and I snore (even though I use a machine). I sometime procrastinate, although not on important issues. I make mistakes, but I do not have a problem apologizing. In other words, I am human.

The things that I do well are subjective to what is important to you. I feel that I am a nice and thoughtful person. I have two daughters, which one is going to college this year. I work full time and I worked hard to have financial stability. I am self-sufficient so I do not want anything material from anyone.

But what I do want is friendship and honesty. I recently relocated to New Bedford so it would be nice to hang out and see the sights with someone. I would like to establish a friendship and let’s see what transpire

My interests are diverse. I try to think outside the box. I enjoy staying in or going out. I like listening to live bands or going to the amusement park. I am open to anything twice, in case the first time was just a bad day/night!

Basically I am looking for a serious relationship with someone who has their act together. I am somewhat particular about what I am searching for. At 45, I better have an idea about what I like, and what I wont tolerate. First off, financially stability is very important.. At our age, bouncing checks is not attractive. I have my own, so I am not looking for anything from you. Yes life happens and we all may need help every now and then but it shouldn't be a way of life.

Time is also important.. If you don't have time then we will not work. I don't need everyday, but more than just the weekend for a couple of hours is necessary. I live alone so I would want the ability to hang at my house or yours if the relationship develops to that point. If you do not have the ability to develop a strong and loving relationship then I am not the man for you.

Please know your sexually. At our age, we should be open and honest with our wants and needs. People say that sex isn't important. Good for them. But it is important to me so if you are still questioning what you like or feel that lovemaking should only occur on Sunday night at 9pm, then I am not the man for you. Just because I mentioned this in my profile does not mean that is the only thing I am looking for. I do not need one night stands or booty calls. I am pretty sure there are many other profiles that will want that, This is not one of them.

Please be able to meet. I enjoy a good chat like the rest of the world, but if we cant meet or exchange phone numbers after about a week, then I will begin to wonder, and that is the worse way to start a friendship.

Kissing is a must!

Finally, have your house together. All ex husbands, boyfriends, stalkers, lovers, maintenance men, etc.. Should be taken care of.. I will bring no drama to your life and I expect the same in return.

I am an open book with nothing to hide. If anything, let’s just hang out and see what happens. I hope to hear from you. If not, good luck in your search.

Mike