About

I've recently returned to this site after a long hiatus.

I've been looking around, seeking connection.

For a long time, I've enjoyed the idea of sending little messages in a bottle out into the world, wondering who might stumble onto them, and how they might respond.
But I haven't found much of substance. Just noise.

I'm 44 years old. I'm artistically inclined. Film. Music. Theatre. Dance.
I'm also an extremely sexual being. Very hedonistic. Slightly dominate. Always insatiable.

I would say I'm a hedonist, a Gentle Dom, but what I do know for sure is that I love getting other people off... and I'm still learning what gets me off.

I would love to talk to more people. And yes, I do mean TALK.
I value honesty, openness, vulnerability, playfulness. I don't really have the time or the energy for unnecessary drama or games.

What am I looking for? Friends with benefits? A relationship?
It's hard to say exactly, because instead of laying out rules and regulations, I would rather be surprised. I would rather learn about your hopes and dreams, fantasies and desires, and see where we mix and mingle.

Possibility has always been one of my favorite words.
I like to be spontaneous. I like adventure. I like the idea of dreaming together.
I'm also healing from a very tumultuous time in my life,
So I also appreciate gentleness, patience, and no judgement.
I am a work in progress.

Hopefully, as I continue to grow, I will also become more active in the kink community as a whole, taking baby steps towards creating or finding a community where support, kindness, love, and understanding are encouraged and practiced.

I read a lot. I listen to music a lot. I watch movies a lot.

My apartment was a mess. It's getting better.

I could use some more good people in my life.

I ACCEPT MOST FRIEND REQUESTS
Please feel free to add me, and take a look around. Check out my writing, perv my pics, or shoot me a message. I'm trying to be more active here on this site, and I'd love to meet new people, or chat with fellow kinksters, sharing stories and photos, exploring fetishes and desires and fantasies, learning from those who are willing to teach, and teaching those who are willing to learn.

LOOKING TO CONNECT WITH FELLOW ARTISTS
Hopefully, as I continue to grow, I will also become more active in the kink community as a whole, taking baby steps towards creating or finding a community where support, kindness, love, and understanding are encouraged and practiced.
The language through which I best communicate is art. Writing, performing, creating, collaborating... it is the best outlet I know in navigating this world. I have been fascinated with the idea of exploring sexuality (and kink) through art, and I would love to share ideas with fellow writers, performers, exhibitionists, camboys and camgirls, photographers, filmmakers, musicians, and just about anyone else who is as passionately curious as I am.