About

Single, am looking to take a lover.

Not sure if people actually read profiles, but I'm not into swinging, casual fucking or online sexytimes. Real people for real meetings, thank you very much! Oh, and please be able to distinguish between a fuck buddy and a lover. If you insist and press your suit, you'll get the sharp end of a stick that'll poke your eye out. *wry grin*

I'd love a man my age or older (I'm 46), unencumbered in Singapore, intelligent, well mannered and someone who enjoys a good hearty laugh. I offer a laid back, very polite, very considerate, easy going (albeit slightly jaded) personality.

My favourite saying is "Can't dance with my mind? Can't dance with my body!" If you know what this means and appreciate it, I really really REALLY want to talk to you.....

Looking for someone who appreciates the intimacy of a companion and the non-judgmental ears of a friend whilst enjoying the freedom of space that 2 very independent people need.

Plus points if you're a Dom who enjoys bondage! My god, if you do, we should meet lol. Ok ok, the least we should do is exchange emails; BDSM is too varied to assume we share the same interests, eh?

In the meanwhile... I think I'm gonna surf me some vids.

PS - am NOT here to chat. If you want to get to know me, send me a proper message with substance. For those that need a bludgeon to the head, one liners are automatically deleted.