What Happen To The Sweet Words

This is a story/questionnaire for all who read it. I am hoping that your comments will help me to understand things better. First of all, I have never had sex with another man, probably making me a bisexual virgin. For the last five years my wanted to be laying next to another sexy man with a great butt, has been on my mind. I find myself thinking of them all the time. More then women. Now that I have said all of that, let me get to why I am writing this.

I have been on this site (and I love it) for a long time, and have seen some terrific looking butts. I have even read some of your stories, to find out that a lot of you bottom-boys (if that is okay to say) love being called thing like, (Fagot, Slut, sissy-whores and other vile names). Why?

I remember when I was younger, their was a another young teen. He was from the next town over, but he was so dame pretty that a lot of the girls in his town would not talk to him. Because he was gay, a lot of the guys would not talk to him either. I believe even back then I liked gay guys. But still I had to be discreet, being that I was still in the closet about my sexuality.

One day I followed him home. I did not know that I was making him feel very uncomfortable. He then turned around and ask me what do you want. He was very bitter, and seem like he wanted nothing to do with any one at that moment. When he asked me what I wanted, I told him, I just had to tell you how sweet you look. It made him smile, as he said think you, and now go home. (still smiling). Every day after that, if I saw him, I would say sweet words to make his day. It never got sexual (I wish it did). And he had a butt like I see on here. (fantastic).

So how is it that we replaced words like, (baby that is so sweet) or (hello sweet cheeks) with I want to fuck you cum-slut ass, or I want you to suck my dick you fagot. But a lot of those degrading words, seems to turn some people on. Again WHY?

I hope that I haven't offended any one in writing this and if I have I would like to apologize to you all. I am just trying to get an understanding.
Published by Iamyourjoy
5 years ago
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FemBro 1 year ago
It is most likely an indication they are into BDSM as a masochist where humiliation is desired. This can include verbally degrading them. While I think there is some cause i.e. trauma or marginalizing that leads to someone being into BDSM, the "studies" show it is just something that people find themselves into. Apparently, I fall into the this category because of getting into Femdom with my ex-girlfriend but we didn't humiliate each other. I'm so opposed to it that I lasted about 30 minutes creating an account on a Femdom dating site. It started asking where I drew the line and I started writing that if you start turning into a feminist nazi and try to humiliate me I will flip the fuck out. That's when I said "whoops, I'm probably not ready to date and this isn't for me.   
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redclay56
redclay56 1 year ago
Because people are screwy. Just my opinion.
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BaronVonSalem
BaronVonSalem 2 years ago
sweet words penetrate deeper 
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Iamyourjoy
Iamyourjoy Publisher 5 years ago
Just curious, how long need this go on. And did your mother every find out.
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kittyliquor69 5 years ago
For me, I would rather have the softer, more sensual!! Otherwise it just becomes sex. It can be so much more of an amazing experience with the right words, touches...
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