Is this a big girl problem

I would really like someone to tell me something. One thing i notice or maybe it is my imagination seems like guys try to be so extra with big women like we need more force you gotta hit the bottom all the time...or we wont feel it or some shit ...well let me send another PSA out ..ask....that is if you want a return engagement ...so tell me your thoughts

Published by softnsexy46

5 years ago

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freakyme 2 years ago

First off, I like the way that you keep it real...but to your question, I think that some guys get a kick out of making a woman(big or small) wince in pain because it makes them feel proud of their dick, so they can say to their boyz or just in their own head (She couldn't handle all of this dick!). Now some dudes are just sadistic and really like to inflict pain...and believe or not, there are those women that get off on some pain and need that to get them over the top to that orgasm...and then there are those guys that just haven't come to the realization that every woman is different, and they should try to find out what each woman that he is dealing with likes...and also women should respectfully communicate better about what they need, like and don't like, it makes for much better sex.

Grototoon 3 years ago

Maybe we just think that you need something more than we actually have. The eyes see everything and such thoughts may come ... (My opinion))

rick9707 4 years ago

i would let you tell me how deep to go and how hard or soft you want it, it's about making love and making sure that you enjoy our session and want more,want you to feel loved and to cum many times,but all of that is after i eat it amd lick it first!!!

softnsexy46 Publisher 4 years ago

to ImUpUDown : Thanks for reply....dont know why i didnt see this

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I do like to penetrate deeper .. not necessarily in an aggressive way but I like how a bigger girl feels around my cock .. being so beautiful big and curvy does inhibit depth .. luckily I have a fairly decent length to reap the benefits of it being hugged to a certain degree .. and yes have still hit a larger girls cervix on occasion .. so the the short answer for me is not really but I can see how some guys want to make an impact or keep their erection going with forceful fucking

ImUpUDown 4 years ago

Well, clearly no guy can speak from the female perspective. I have been told I go extra by big girls because i like to go down for multiples before I will even fuck.. Then fuck with just the head to keep the last O going. Big girls also tend to ask to cum inside, and yeah if Im going to do that I go deep for the cum shot.. I dont have any pathalogical urge to be try and be the best a woman ever had, just doing what the body says. I do put extra effort into oral because I love it when a big girl thrust her pussy into my face.

whoopster 4 years ago

I've found that bigger girls are much more sensual than that, and often have tighter pussies, so in my xperience that isn't the case. How you doing anyway?

to 407HARDROCK : I agree. It just that dam simple.

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softnsexy46 Publisher 5 years ago

to magnum045 : so your saying most men do that because they have no respect and they just want to use fat women..... when i think being used it means that i am getting nothing out of it...well that is not the case for me.....just wondering about the extra performance .

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softnsexy46 Publisher 5 years ago

Well this ol bitch been around a min and i dont know about most...i know that some guys do....fact is there are plenty of simple ass women large and small that allow themselves to be treated like crap....big woman i am ..stupid i am not....was in relationship 11 yrs i understand what this is ...just play from time to time....but my question was the need to act so extra

eastonhard 5 years ago

I have both big and small girls, the big ones seem more orgasmic, but with me its a matter of pleasure points at the base of the penis. I shove and grind not pound, only 8 so no damage. We need it squeezed, a muscle fuck is a ten, and slipping a hand around it is magic.

nubianbrotha 5 years ago

Misconception, communicate.

knightmaster69 5 years ago

These other dudes are totally misunderstanding the question.....they probably feel like the need to prove themselves by going extra deep every time....makes them feel good about bottoming out....feel like a big girl doesn’t want a nice slow gentle fuck....I feel it’s better to read to woman and listen to her

407HARDROCK 5 years ago

Naw I don’t think that’s case. Dudes for a long time tried to distant themselves from fat girls with the fear of being shamed. But I’m 2019 you a fool to pass up a bbw. They always been my thing. Plus that box be wet like a pool.

magnum045 5 years ago

It's just like cinciman says! Mosr men just woona use BBW and they don't feel the respect ! They never woul'd go for a walk in the city with a BBW, because they wonna be seen with a "mainstream" girl.....