Where Do You Draw The Line?

I've talked with people of all different ages here and it's got me wondering about people's limitations and preferences, so I have a question for all of you:

First, tell me how old you are.

Second, when it comes to a partner, tell me your preferred age range. In other words, how old is too old for you? How young is too young? Why do you draw the line where you do? Just curious...
Published by CuriousNewGirl
13 years ago
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Tomcat286
Tomcat286 7 years ago
There is a difference between aesthetic beauty and sexual attractiveness for me. The former has no age limitations. The latter is more between 35 and 60 for me at the moment, but that changes with me growing older.
For the social acceptance of a female partners age for a man, they found a rule: It's half the age of the man plus 8 years, So with 50 it is 25+8=33 years old would be the younget socially accepted age for my partner. I guess that's pretty accurate.
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CuriousNewGirl
CuriousNewGirl Publisher 11 years ago
to ladonin : You say you like older women, and younger women can act too young, but can I ask how old you are?
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ladonin 11 years ago
I don't draw the line. I like what attracts me. Mostly older women but if a gal catches my eye, there's a reason. And it's not just looks...could be an outfit...hair..how they act. Young girls can't act too young tho n then I draw the line.
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lost4710
lost4710 12 years ago
I feel with women needs , I dont know why really I think so ,therefore the age is not my big deal if a woman a real woman wants me to make her happy that would be my pleasure , mature women r really attractive to me , but young women with mature mind r also take my concern specially those who know exactly what they want , I'm 32 !!!
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MorePeter
MorePeter 12 years ago
I am 50. I love to watch girls in their twenties but in a lot of cases I start to get daddy feelings. And not in the incestuous meaning. I want to protect them, teach them. All though some try to be naughty so I can spank them.

But in the end it turns out I correlate best with women 40 to 45. A woman that has seen a lot but not necessarily everything.
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mal-o
mal-o 12 years ago
I'm 23 almost 24 and relationship wise men-my age or about 5 years older I would say for maturity reasons but that varies, and I'm not into guys younger than I am. Women I would range them from 21-30 I suppose, 21- because I never like when people are left behind because their not of drinking age and that's usually in the plans; 30- they have more experience and know the works of the trade lol..
Friendships you can be any age, color, religion, etc. no judgement, just sincerity and enjoyment!!
What about you CuriousNewGirl?
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niko20
Iam 38. My limit would be 55. On the bottom end I would say 25 with an exception. If a young womanhas the maturity of an older woman, where you can have captivating converation,I would consider someone younger.
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Trent_Marcel
Trent_Marcel 12 years ago
I'm 27. I prefer a woman within 5 years in each direction... so about 22, maybe 21, up to 32... maybe up to 35.
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lostgirl
lostgirl 12 years ago
I'm 30, and for friendship age doesn't really matter to me. I have friends of 20 and 40 and 50 and we all love having fun and goofing off together so the age thing never crosses my mind there.

In partners, six years is probably as far as I'd go. Too much more difference and I find we're on different life paths -- maturity level, experience, view of the world, desires out of life, etc. But it really depends on the person, because some people are very mature at 24, and others aren't even remotely so at 36!

It's a good question, but I'd say in the end it comes down entirely to the relationship and the people in it.

What about you?
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uwqgqfrm
uwqgqfrm 12 years ago
lets see, for women I like them around my age [50], maybe a couple years younger. For guys, I like them younger, like in the twenties to thirties. Less complications and they tend to be a bit more . . . flexible. Plus the guys my age are looking for long term relationships which doesn't fit with my current situation.
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tanom81
tanom81 13 years ago
30..21-45..was 22 dating a 37 yr old, my current gf is 23..depends on the female and her mental maturity.
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Squirt_Luver
28
and as long as they're over 18 and not older then my mom. although prefer someone close to my age so maybe round it up to 20 to say 35 for me
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addictrabbitt
addictrabbitt 13 years ago
29, limit 20-40
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xalanx
24 winters old.

I find a 5 years age grap each way perferred range. But no more than 10 years. With that been said everycase is different. You might have women that like younger men or vise versa.
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Schnuckems
Schnuckems 13 years ago
I'm 46. I'm on here to share stories and chat.

Age is just a number. There are so many things that makes a relationship work. It's a friendship and a bond.
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Tomcat286
Tomcat286 13 years ago
I do not search for real contacts, I am 45.
My only limit would be a legal one, cause I like people,it's a mind thing, not an age issue. And from Sauna I know some very hot looking 60 Year old ladies. As a partner i would prefer same age plus-minus 5 years, as otherwise the targets and expectations in life are to different.
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lifeform 13 years ago
I'm 42. I probably have an upper limit of 50 or so. I'm quite young at heart (and mind) so I actually prefer spending time with people younger than me.

Yes I like to fantasize about being with hot, young 20-somethings (and sometimes it happens!), but when it comes to sex I find women in their 30s and 40s fantastic in bed. So I guess you could say that's my preferred age range. Having said that, I rarely turn down the opportunity to have sex :smile:
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