Why such an obsession with anal?

I just have to ask...why such an obsession with anal? I mean, come on guys, you know it really hurts! What's wrong with a nice juicy pussy?

I'm not a big fan of anal sex...I like to watch other girls getting their ass pounded but I'd rather not. Of course I have done it many times but it's usually when I'm with more then one guy at a time and I am really, really hot and horny!

Don't just expect to roll me over and stick it in my ass...no way! It is quite painful. Admittedly, it usually turns into pleasure like it hurts so good or stop it some more type pleasure. But it is pleasure mixed with pain.

Please feel free to message me and tell me what's so great about anal sex. I expect to hear from mostly horny guys but I am also interested in hearing from girls who might enjoy this.
Published by ruffredmuff
13 years ago
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pete1233333
pete1233333 8 years ago
to themeparks : completely correct. And the americans, inparticular, fascination with anal verges on the obsession. Very odd; why use an arse when there is a pussy available?
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pierelaffaire 12 years ago
its the taboo, the forbidden thing, optically the free view on the pussy while the ass is penetrated, the imagination that women do and like anal definitely turns me on.
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themeparks
themeparks 12 years ago
I don't understand blokes doing anal sex with a girl. Surely the diference between men and women is that you have a pussy, us a cock and the 2 should go together. As a bloke if you do anal sex then you might as welll be with a bloke as they have an arse hole as well
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billy69boy
billy69boy 12 years ago
Anal sex shouldn't be painful. If it is, the perpetrator either doesn't know what he's doing, or he's trying to hurt his partner on purpose, which doesn't interest me at all. Lots of patience, licking, fingering, and lube can make anal sex the most intimate and pleasurable experience for both people. I hate it when ladies say they are turned off by it because it hurts: it shouldn't hurt! Makes me want to bitch-slap those idiot guys who just want to ram it home without consideration.
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FISTMAN
FISTMAN 12 years ago
I do love making love in her asshole,..but unfortunately all girls/woman dosn't have the capacity that HotKinkyJo has !!!
Soo....most of the times, I will feel satisfied with "only" a hot,wet,squishy,juicy Pussy.....(:
But sometimes....(;
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easygoing616
easygoing616 12 years ago
Hmm never tried until recently in my life. I asked him and he really was afraid to ask me.. hmm.. well worked it slowly and must say bit sore at first. Long story short .. love it now...wow.
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bignasty9 12 years ago
i guess my obsession with anal is that i never had any. but a wet dripping pussy is first in my book
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JoeyB
JoeyB 12 years ago
soem girls are into it .... i love pussy no matter and would be perfectly happy there :wink:
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nastyj1 12 years ago
Its the forbidden aspect that turns me on so much. A previous comment said it best. When a girl wants to make love she wants the man to fill her pussy, when she wants to be a slut/whore she gets her ass f***ed.
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steve_b
steve_b 12 years ago
Often it's because the main hole has been used so much it's like throwing a hotdog down a hallway. Anal is always tight.
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LickerLicense
LickerLicense 12 years ago
I highly prefer to attack the asshole with my tongue, or maybe a finger or two. Anal intercourse isn't that big a thrill, save once in a while.
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9inofshmo
9inofshmo 12 years ago
i love the forbidden aspect of it that it is not something commonly done i very rarely find a girl willing to let me in her ass mainly because of my size so when i do get to experience it its a real treat! there just needs to be a lottttt of preperation!
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johnywest
johnywest 12 years ago
Just look at the facts:
-pussy has an odd shape, sometimes wide, high risk of pregnancy, period every month, basically for onetime use (making babies), fake orgasms;
-asshole has the same circular shape as the cock, very very tight, no pregnancy, no period, intense multiple orgasms;

If aliens came to earth they would consider us stupid for going through all the trouble and coming up with all sorts of birth control methods, just for some pussy action. Which is the wrong hole now?
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Orson2
Orson2 12 years ago
I can't do better than my friend Terry does - a 28 year old ex-stripper: "Anal sex is just different. It has an added degree of intimacy and submission that the other accesses to my body do not offer. As a young girl my uncle told me that when a girl wants to be romantic, make love, be one with her partner, male or female she wants her pussy filled, when she wants to be sexy, a little naughty she will suck his cock dry, but when she wants to be a whore, slut, dirty girl, submissive slave that is owned …she will offer up her asshole for his use or for her strapon…At the time I just went along with what he said…but after a many many sexual experiences I have to agree….besides feeling fantastic anal sex makes me feel like a slave, a slut, his property, nothing makes me feel like that like getting fucked in my ass, and the feeling …that no matter who owns the cock buried in my ass….at that moment in time….he also owns me. Men have almost as many names for my asshole as they do my pussy…rosebud, chocolate hole, rosette, pucker, buttonhole, Hershey park, dirt road, backdoor, asshole, fudge row, nether hole, rear opening…and a few more I cant think of now, but all of them add to the thrill of anal sex." So the elements of submission and degradation, yielding control, figure prominently in this woman's luv for anal fuckin'. And mine too.
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Longneckbtl
Longneckbtl 12 years ago
Hey you answered your own question. Actually I'm not much of a fan of anal but as you said you usually allow it when you are exceptionally hot and horney. Men enjoy feeling as though they were the instument to your hot and horney condition, and they need to follow through with what they've started.
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fukthaworld88 12 years ago
tha reason anal is so fuckin hott for us guys is cuz we know how nasty ya feel for doing it. i get turned on knowing that tha bitch is in pain while she takes my cock up her asshole. i really like to watch that ass gape wide open after i fucked it balls deep. i love pussy but when a bitch gives up her asshole to me i get way more turned on.
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nowwhat101
nowwhat101 12 years ago
I think it's kinda the forbidden fruit!

Never been with a girl who was up for it.

Shame!
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5ly 12 years ago
I always had trouble with anal until recently with my current boyfriend. I remember feeling kind of cheated because I wanted the experience to be great but it never was... It was always more about the guy than it was ever about me or how good it was for me. That's changed and I finally get to enjoy anal - but the key is yeah, lots of lube, and you can't just ram your dick in there. Ease in with a few fingers and play around for a while, it shouldn't be a race to penetration, sex is supposed to be enjoyable to both (unless you're into it not being that way).

I think a lot of the appeal is the taboo nature of anal sex, it's still considered "dirty" and isn't an incredibly common sex act when you get out of porn and into the real world. A friend of mine who considers herself to be an anal pro has said that as soon as a guy realized that she was completely psyched for anal and not intimidated or worried about it, it became less appealing.
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Stubob72556
Stubob72556 12 years ago
I've never really been attracted to anal sex myself. *shrugs*
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FunkyDan
FunkyDan 12 years ago
my self i dont see the obsession with anal but hey thats just me give me wet pussy any day
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lycaon
lycaon 13 years ago
Some brief comments.. The thrill of the kill.
In control.. or they think they are...!
Your pain is their demand and he or she wants it balls deep, ouch!!!
Please.. go to the atm. Can be eewwwww. Bad news.
I wanna givya an ass cunt creampie and eat it.. share it with you... "Well good luck"
Last but not lease.. Hold still bebe.. your gonna love it, my big cock up in you fuckin that tight ass.. "Hold still.. WTF"
Btw there's absolutely nothing wrong with a juicy ruffred.. pusehh! Feeding time, Dayummm :wink::smile:
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johnywest
johnywest 13 years ago
Because anal requires more skill and concentration.

Also, the man can dominate the woman very well. He has the power to cause her pain and she's at his mercy. In real life she may be the boss, but in bed, during anal, she's his bitch!

If done properly, both partners can get a lot more pleasure from anal. It stimulates you physically and mentally more than vaginal sex.
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ranetruck
ranetruck 13 years ago
Speaking for the women the I have experienced anal sex with, they have told me that they love the feeling of being so totally filled. One in particular had her most intense orgasm while she had a cock in her ass. But, there are three rules to enjoyable anal sex...1. Lube 2. Lube 3. Lube
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MorePeter
MorePeter 13 years ago
I never had any pleasure with giving a girl anal. I prefer a sweet, hot pussy or a experienced mouth. I love to look into my girls eyes.
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norrinradd
norrinradd 13 years ago
Never done it to a woman and not really interested in it. I'd hate to cause someone so much pain, and why even go there if a pussy or mouth is available? :smile:
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rottincorpse
rottincorpse 13 years ago
it takes effort its not just hey im slammin my dick in you
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