Ms. Perkins - Implementing Long Term Male Chastity
Re-post from Ms. Perkins, very informative, especially about down-sizing the ring after the male is comfortable with a larger size.
I have taken Her advice, and since down-sized 2 ring sizes in my Red Devil, and Red Devil Junior to train myself for a smaller ring, and eliminate being able to "pull my wiener out of the ring", even though I self-lock my hot dog in chastity:
Implementing Long Term Male Chastity Enforcement Moving From Play To The Real Thing Go to the profile of Chastity Perkins Chastity Perkins May 31, 2018 If male chastity is new to you and your partner or never went beyond 48 hours be advised; itâs a process. Itâs unlikely that youâll start male chastity and it will be a done deal. You know buy a device you think is the right size and fit, put it on, have your wife decide when (more like if) to unlock you. The first step is to start a routine EVERY DAY for four hours. Not here and there, not a day a week but every single day, even if nobody is in the mood for it. How long should you continue this routine? Letâs say at the very least a few days but a week is fine. There are two goals here. The first is o stop the presence of the chastity device from arousing the male CONSTANTLY. The other part is actually finding the right device and more importantly the right size which will be far smaller than the one you think is âtoo tightâ. Itâs best to choose a male chastity device that you think is the right size and then also get two sizes smaller in the various parts available. The reality is that thereâs really not a ton of choice here for steel devices that actually work. The main option is length (short is good actually buy one way shorter than you think you should as well) the other critical size is the âbase ringâ buy that in the size you think is right and also the next two smaller sizes. Sure go ahead start with the one thatâs easy to get on. Thereâs a good chance it will eventually fall off even without trying. Go smaller, go a lot smaller, then go even smaller. The problem here is going to be erections and stimulation. Even the slightest hint of a chubby or hours after a partial erection the a male penis is about 50 times larger than zero erection. In fact thereâs a good chance itâs larger than the smallest itâs ever been. Thatâs the size you need⌠quite literally something thatâs as small as your husband/partnerâs smallest penis size ever. The coldest day, the longest itâs gone without an erection, the phase of the moon. Oh and you need it to be a hair smaller than that. If your partner just cannot help but getting a partial erection, figure out a way to wear him out so itâs absolutely flaccid. I wonât be explicit here do whatever works. After a period of every day for four hours jump it up to 8 hours or a bit longer. This is a big deal at this point. It should also be every day. The reason this is a big jump is typically this absolutely will cover a work day. A real routine day where the device is on in public during normal work and out and about routines. Remember this building up is EVERY DAY with no breaks. Again the goal is reducing constant that chastity device awareness. After a week or so of this routine itâs not only dulling that awareness but also conditioning the body to not constantly fight the chastity device. During this period thereâs a good chance that youâll need to use a smaller device, smaller ring, smaller. Not sure? Go smaller. Go as small as can possibly be MADE to fit as long as nothing is turning colors.
The next big step is overnight. Every moment of a whole day. What about that next day? If the overnight didnât go well keep him locked but go back to the 8 hour routine but extend it until he actually goes to bed. The next morning make it a whole 24 hour day again. If this goes more than three or four âbad nightsâ while itâs on jump it up to 48 hours. In my case the sleep thing solved itself. Okay so you made it two days, now what? Keep going for a week. After the week is over try a smaller device. I am serious. Also have him try to get out of it. Not in some lame halfhearted way but really try in every way you can imagine to pull out. Donât take any of the above as absolutes. They are certainly not but take them as guideline to what to expect. The important take away is that you cannot get the sizing right without some sort of conditioning and it will take a bit to make the chastity device not be the center of your male partnerâs thoughts. Also do not k** yourself with these 4, 5, and 6 inch devices. Bullshit. Even âaverageâ sized penises are very compressible and really not that big when at their very smallest (think absolutely flaccid, no erection for a long long long period, and the coldest day of winter in its smallest mood). Yes that small and then compressed quite a bit. You want zero room for any growth at all from the smallest it can get and no way to squeeze out. Think 2 inches or 1.5 inches. Maybe 3 for a male that has a fairly giant penis. Yes that small. Now for the bad news/good news. Iâve been through just about all of the widely available male chastity devices on my âmissionâ to resolve this hubby fantasy.
The only male chastity device that actually worksâââas in enforces chastity and will not come off is one with a stiff steel/metal urethral tube that extends at least inside (preferably behind) the ring when everything is assembled and in place. Yes it sounds and looks extreme. Turns out itâs really not. Thereâs a couple of days getting used to the feeling on your males partnerâs part. He will have to really get used to sitting to take a pee a couple of times but pretty much smooth sailing after that.
As an added bonus it actually seems to reduce hubbyâs willingness and ability to push against the chastity device when installed. I noticed this the very first day I finally went that direction. This was the answer and the first device I chose lasted almost a year once I got the ring size right. Hubbyâs now in a chastity device thatâs shorter (about an inch maybe a little tiny bit more from the tip of it to the ring when assembled, it also has a strait steel urethral tube thatâs about 2 inches, maybe a little more.)
Remember this process is still under whatever conditions you setup. If one of those conditions was no talking about penises, sex, or chastity then stick to it. Tell him youâll inspect the situation and decide what to do. No whining about it, no complaining. The only time he can discuss it is if you ask specific questions about fit/feel/comfort⌠forget comfort, youâll know. If he can pee and nothing is looking bad colors itâs fine. Check for abrasions, ask him. Obviously you donât want any wearing thru the skin and blistering. Try some lube on the rings after installation and periodically thru the week. Remember I said extend it for a week.
Youâre at the point where youâre still making adjustments, going smaller (or not), making hubby try to pull out, etc.
When youâve got it right thereâs no need for a week or two or a month..... Just extend it as long as youâd like, perhaps a year to start?. Yes you may need to deal with cleaning and maintenance but thatâs not a day off. Thatâs 15 minutes.
Itâs also not an excuse for allowing his chronic masturbation habit ever be mentioned by him, much less discussed at all, that is the reason his penis is in a cage versus a more permanent alternative of him agreeing to sign off for a Female Doctor to preform the simple in-patient, same day procedure of male castration, AKA permanent chastity.
I have taken Her advice, and since down-sized 2 ring sizes in my Red Devil, and Red Devil Junior to train myself for a smaller ring, and eliminate being able to "pull my wiener out of the ring", even though I self-lock my hot dog in chastity:
Implementing Long Term Male Chastity Enforcement Moving From Play To The Real Thing Go to the profile of Chastity Perkins Chastity Perkins May 31, 2018 If male chastity is new to you and your partner or never went beyond 48 hours be advised; itâs a process. Itâs unlikely that youâll start male chastity and it will be a done deal. You know buy a device you think is the right size and fit, put it on, have your wife decide when (more like if) to unlock you. The first step is to start a routine EVERY DAY for four hours. Not here and there, not a day a week but every single day, even if nobody is in the mood for it. How long should you continue this routine? Letâs say at the very least a few days but a week is fine. There are two goals here. The first is o stop the presence of the chastity device from arousing the male CONSTANTLY. The other part is actually finding the right device and more importantly the right size which will be far smaller than the one you think is âtoo tightâ. Itâs best to choose a male chastity device that you think is the right size and then also get two sizes smaller in the various parts available. The reality is that thereâs really not a ton of choice here for steel devices that actually work. The main option is length (short is good actually buy one way shorter than you think you should as well) the other critical size is the âbase ringâ buy that in the size you think is right and also the next two smaller sizes. Sure go ahead start with the one thatâs easy to get on. Thereâs a good chance it will eventually fall off even without trying. Go smaller, go a lot smaller, then go even smaller. The problem here is going to be erections and stimulation. Even the slightest hint of a chubby or hours after a partial erection the a male penis is about 50 times larger than zero erection. In fact thereâs a good chance itâs larger than the smallest itâs ever been. Thatâs the size you need⌠quite literally something thatâs as small as your husband/partnerâs smallest penis size ever. The coldest day, the longest itâs gone without an erection, the phase of the moon. Oh and you need it to be a hair smaller than that. If your partner just cannot help but getting a partial erection, figure out a way to wear him out so itâs absolutely flaccid. I wonât be explicit here do whatever works. After a period of every day for four hours jump it up to 8 hours or a bit longer. This is a big deal at this point. It should also be every day. The reason this is a big jump is typically this absolutely will cover a work day. A real routine day where the device is on in public during normal work and out and about routines. Remember this building up is EVERY DAY with no breaks. Again the goal is reducing constant that chastity device awareness. After a week or so of this routine itâs not only dulling that awareness but also conditioning the body to not constantly fight the chastity device. During this period thereâs a good chance that youâll need to use a smaller device, smaller ring, smaller. Not sure? Go smaller. Go as small as can possibly be MADE to fit as long as nothing is turning colors.
The next big step is overnight. Every moment of a whole day. What about that next day? If the overnight didnât go well keep him locked but go back to the 8 hour routine but extend it until he actually goes to bed. The next morning make it a whole 24 hour day again. If this goes more than three or four âbad nightsâ while itâs on jump it up to 48 hours. In my case the sleep thing solved itself. Okay so you made it two days, now what? Keep going for a week. After the week is over try a smaller device. I am serious. Also have him try to get out of it. Not in some lame halfhearted way but really try in every way you can imagine to pull out. Donât take any of the above as absolutes. They are certainly not but take them as guideline to what to expect. The important take away is that you cannot get the sizing right without some sort of conditioning and it will take a bit to make the chastity device not be the center of your male partnerâs thoughts. Also do not k** yourself with these 4, 5, and 6 inch devices. Bullshit. Even âaverageâ sized penises are very compressible and really not that big when at their very smallest (think absolutely flaccid, no erection for a long long long period, and the coldest day of winter in its smallest mood). Yes that small and then compressed quite a bit. You want zero room for any growth at all from the smallest it can get and no way to squeeze out. Think 2 inches or 1.5 inches. Maybe 3 for a male that has a fairly giant penis. Yes that small. Now for the bad news/good news. Iâve been through just about all of the widely available male chastity devices on my âmissionâ to resolve this hubby fantasy.
The only male chastity device that actually worksâââas in enforces chastity and will not come off is one with a stiff steel/metal urethral tube that extends at least inside (preferably behind) the ring when everything is assembled and in place. Yes it sounds and looks extreme. Turns out itâs really not. Thereâs a couple of days getting used to the feeling on your males partnerâs part. He will have to really get used to sitting to take a pee a couple of times but pretty much smooth sailing after that.
As an added bonus it actually seems to reduce hubbyâs willingness and ability to push against the chastity device when installed. I noticed this the very first day I finally went that direction. This was the answer and the first device I chose lasted almost a year once I got the ring size right. Hubbyâs now in a chastity device thatâs shorter (about an inch maybe a little tiny bit more from the tip of it to the ring when assembled, it also has a strait steel urethral tube thatâs about 2 inches, maybe a little more.)
Remember this process is still under whatever conditions you setup. If one of those conditions was no talking about penises, sex, or chastity then stick to it. Tell him youâll inspect the situation and decide what to do. No whining about it, no complaining. The only time he can discuss it is if you ask specific questions about fit/feel/comfort⌠forget comfort, youâll know. If he can pee and nothing is looking bad colors itâs fine. Check for abrasions, ask him. Obviously you donât want any wearing thru the skin and blistering. Try some lube on the rings after installation and periodically thru the week. Remember I said extend it for a week.
Youâre at the point where youâre still making adjustments, going smaller (or not), making hubby try to pull out, etc.
When youâve got it right thereâs no need for a week or two or a month..... Just extend it as long as youâd like, perhaps a year to start?. Yes you may need to deal with cleaning and maintenance but thatâs not a day off. Thatâs 15 minutes.
Itâs also not an excuse for allowing his chronic masturbation habit ever be mentioned by him, much less discussed at all, that is the reason his penis is in a cage versus a more permanent alternative of him agreeing to sign off for a Female Doctor to preform the simple in-patient, same day procedure of male castration, AKA permanent chastity.
5 years ago
