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Xham offers plenty search categories but none is describing with one word (or more!) the exact type of woman I try to share.

I do not want to describe it here.
For example it does not match the term of "BBW" do you agree?

Just let me know which word you would like to find and click.
Merci!
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Published by aleatoire

6 years ago

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aleatoire Publisher 6 years ago

THanks l'ami. I agree, and I like the sound of these two words. Now what I do not like is this: the same terms are used for FAT women.

RickyStrummer 6 years ago

to aleatoire : Ha ha ha! I get "stuck on stupid/obsessive thoughts" at least a few times a day. Life is more fun that way. Keeps things interesting! LOL! The Grain de folie is that sort of thing. You are right! "No no no." Ha ha!

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RickyStrummer 6 years ago

to aleatoire : Duh! I realized that I had it wrong right after I hit "send"! LOL! Obviously, my French grammar suck! Terrible, nes pas?

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aleatoire Publisher 6 years ago

to RickyStrummer : Bonsoir l'ami. Sleep well. On my side of the globe, another day begins...

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aleatoire Publisher 6 years ago

to RickyStrummer : A Wise Man arent"you. Now if I had to stay wise all the day, and put apart my "Grain de Folie".... no no no

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RickyStrummer 6 years ago

to aleatoire : Gotta go, my friend. It is late and time for winding down and going to sleep. Dormez bien, mon amie. Bon soir.

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RickyStrummer 6 years ago

to aleatoire : Sometimes it helps not to over-think things. Sometimes you "let the mountain come to Mohammed". Let the thoughts flow to you.

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aleatoire Publisher 6 years ago

to RickyStrummer : I must agree, despite the fact it seems too simple for me

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RickyStrummer 6 years ago

to aleatoire : I see what you mean. Well, we can't help that some of us prefer blondes over brunettes, or whatever. As long as there is no hatred or mal-intent on your part, I don't think you have anything to worry about.

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aleatoire Publisher 6 years ago

to RickyStrummer : Since Plato and further, the ideal concept of Equality does not work perfectly but... I"m in trouble with the feeling that I'm Discriminant. This is "violent". And it puts apart 99 per cent of women (or Xham members). This is why I prefer to pretend this: what I share is not "real", but simply a fantasm. When someone asks me if some photo is real, my answer is "who cares"? not me.

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RickyStrummer 6 years ago

to aleatoire : No. No, mon amie. Everyone is different. Sexuality is a physical and psychological thing. I will admit that I find the same frustration with the broad strokes that categories represent. I believe I would call you more DISCRIMINATING. That shows refinement and good taste--with a good dose of intelligence thrown in. Laudable, sir. Very laudable.

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aleatoire Publisher 6 years ago

to RickyStrummer : You right, and I must be a little too naive and idealistic

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RickyStrummer 6 years ago

Ah! Yes! The elusive all-in-one descriptive click-on, mon amie!

Just as no woman can be all things to all men (or women), so it is with this! We agree. Click-ons are a blunt tool at best for finding that sought-after woman! Nes pas?