Helping the wife be more comfortable fucking other

From what my Mrs has told me over the years I was able to get her to agree to doing kinky things better if her comfort zones were at least there at the start. She likes fucking other guys in our own home or a place she already was comfortable being like at a friends place. Dressing up helps, when they dress like a different lady it is easier to act that way. We have both been most conformable inviting guys we were already close friends with for a few years, and as exciting as the first time were it was easier for her to get off after we had repeated it a few times with the same guys. Over time we got good at the things we all liked, and us guys got good a getting around her at the same time which made things better. We had clear rules from the start where she picked when and for how long, and I picked who and how many guys. After we had fun a couple of times she agreed to doing something about every three months which kept me from stressing if it would happen again, and gave her control, but she always went for a full weekend. She had time to get in the mood. I often had the guys send her a nice thank you card, sometimes with a favorite memory of fucking her. She still thinks it's a nice gesture and made her feel better about what she let us do.