to Hotlips001 :Thanks for the suggestions Hotlips. I'll be indulging myself in a bdsm session soon. Of course I'll be wearing sexy lingerie and I like the sound of some nipple play, cick/ball bondage and dildo play.
I'm assuming you'll be wearing lingerie throughout, a) because its sexy, b) because it suits you!! I would enjoy looking at rope play, tied scrotums, hands behind back, noose play (careful, get it wrong, can be dangerous if you're on your own!!), hogtied and erect, that sort of thing. Many of these things are even better if there's more than one of you, so hands behind you is better if you're being flogged too for example, but not everyone can get chums to help!! Likewise, sucking or fucking, or dildo/vibrator or cock up the bum while tied is great but needs chums. Gags and gagging is a giffen, electrodes to the nipples or better still balls always make for a sparkling show!! Am wziting, cock in hand to se what you decide on, because I'm sure I'll be wanking over your photos/video when posted!!!