Fuckin' vs lovemakin'

As a sissy/TG/CD/BI individual, I admit my porn tastes are rather eclectic. I am as fascinated by two girls scissoring as I am by two guys frotaging. Mostly because porn is where I am learning the arts. BJ...would have been a complete surprise save for porn. Honestly, learning there were guys wanting to fuck gurls like me would have been an unknown save for porn. That being said, even I know the difference between a general fuck, and being "made love too." Porn may be a health issue but why the is the most consistently popular search criteria "love making" across orientation lines. I learned about sex primarily from porn because my parent's abstenis only idea left me with a huge imagination asking a lot of questions. Hey, right wingers, why can't you just answer our questions instead of crying "Because It makes Jesus cry!"...WHY?! Because all I really want is to know...am I being "fucked" or is my partner making love.