Anal sex preperation?

Ok just have to ask this as its something i have no knowledge of but after talking to some people and them admiring that part of me would like to try haha

I wash and shower most days so i'm a clean person but I've heard alot of people saying that before anal sex you have to have an enema to make sure everything is clean inside? It sounds quite umm whats the word 'invasive' and i'm guessing it would be a bit smelly, which might lead to the guy changing his mind about doing it?

i suppose what i'm asking is that alot of these sexual desires are spontanious, so to have to go through this beforehand seems a bit much? i'm guessing its because the guy might come out afterwards messy or smelly? or is it cos it feels nicer for the woman/man?

Sorry if i sound naive, I've experimented on my own (only with finger nothing scary big haha) and know it can feel a bit uncomfortable when something is inside and i don't know if this is normal but i feel the need to go/p*o if something is in there. Would an enema let you relax more knowing you wouldn't have an accident?

DJ x
Published by demi98
7 years ago
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demi98
demi98 Publisher 3 years ago
this was 3 years ago i wrote this so its a bit old but i wont delete it, i have had anal sex now quite a lot of times and i really enjoy it and like it even more than normal fanny sex, so i dont know what i was scared about, if you relax it feels really nice and enjoyable
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Malkith78
Malkith78 2 months ago
good girl. a good little anal-slut never goes unappreciated.
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demi98
demi98 Publisher 5 months ago
to NE_old_guy : this was 6 years ago, i'm def a good slut now & do exactly that
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demi98
demi98 Publisher 5 months ago
to NE_old_guy : this was 6 years ago, i'm def a good slut now & do exactly that
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NE_old_guy
NE_old_guy 5 months ago
just take it in the arse then in your mouth like a good slut should 
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roadrunner1959
roadrunner1959 8 months ago
Anal sex is often spontaneous, it's not something I'd worry about, if it happens just let it
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dirtydude11 8 months ago
I'd fuck your ass anytime babe and all men would so don't worry about a aneama 
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Toffeechris
Toffeechris 1 year ago
My last girlfriend loved anal sex & she never had that done & didn't smell either so it was just good fucking pleasure. Did you get to try it? 
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wachmecum 1 year ago
Nothing should come out with proper prep.  Just go with it.  That sphincter around a cock is unbelievable.  Love to have my clean.tight butthole licked too.  Soooo sensitive
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ass-riper 1 year ago
to demi98 : If you was my sub slut i would fuck only your mouth and ass!
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donutbob 2 years ago
to demi98 : As long as you enjoy it :smile:
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spunkspurter
I don't have a problem if my cock is a bit smelly when I withdraw from your arse. In fact I find it a bit kinky
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Loveakinkygirl
Loveakinkygirl 3 years ago
I fuck ass all the time never had a women use one before 
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Real_naughty_male
Real_naughty_male 3 years ago
We are gonna have so much anal sex. Rather that than your fanny 
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Jayjay4filth 3 years ago
Msg me on private u need to be ruined
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demi98
demi98 Publisher 3 years ago
lol yeah i suppose so but anal sex does feel nice 
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Thick_Girth 3 years ago
I suppose a little preparation is required to avoid messy accidents but once it’s done, you can rest easy that nothing is going to spoil your playtime. Just relax with plenty of your favourite lube and everything will be fine xxx
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Thepornid3ntity
Thepornid3ntity 3 years ago
Dirty is good for me ?
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Memub123
No you just insert the cock and enjoy it! X
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gameboy2010
gameboy2010 3 years ago
I thought you'd get alot of response from this post ?
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Lovely_Cummer_4U
Lovely_Cummer_4U 4 years ago
It does put a pressure that gives a similar feeling of needing to go p.. The more you relax, the better it feels. Enema's feel awkward at first, but can also feel good. Nice to have a clean ass for toys and such.. Coconut oil is the best, cheap, smells nice, and is great lube..  ...also a tongue can be nice, and helpful.. :wink:
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Looking1963 4 years ago
You need to find someone who will care about you and your feelings, go at your pace and know how to relax and excite you at the same time
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Daddy_4_You_UK
Daddy_4_You_UK 5 years ago
Read Daddy's "About Me". If you havn't tried it yet (I can see this was written 2 years ago) Then choose someone older. If done wrong it could put you off for life.
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Foreshoreman
Foreshoreman 5 years ago
Oil or silicone based lube rather than water based is my top tip. Coconut oil is my fave anal lube and I find it not only helps with friction,  but helps to keep things clean too. X
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chrisukbishare
chrisukbishare 5 years ago
I've learned lots from these comments as a bi man. Thank you
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ellen_85 5 years ago
Hi I love anal and right from the first time have never had an enema but let the men lub your anus by spitting or ky jelly. It is so enjoyable just relax take it steady and let him cum inside. Let him get hard again or take another males cock while you are full of cum then there is no pain and you should cum as well xxx
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mattissa 5 years ago
Ive taken two anal cherrys and they said theyd never try it but begged me after a while to take there arse trust relax and lube and you will enjoy it but you have to want it dont do it unless you want too 
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davidramsey
davidramsey 6 years ago
Enema not necessary but a quick colon douche will do just fine.  He wont mind waiting a few minutes.  Start small with lots of lube, work your way up from one finger to small vibe, and gradually increase size.  Strain against it as though trying to poop,and it will go in much easier///   so many nerve endings there you will love the feeling as it passes the sphincter.  Out and IN past the sphincter feels soooooooooooo good.
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longtimedead33
longtimedead33 6 years ago
Hiya . yes lube n lots of it .. Try an anal plug .. Build up in size. Take things very steady 
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alexking03
alexking03 6 years ago
So, it happened ok?
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