Conversations with friends
these are all conversations or replies to questions ive been asked...
Q What do you think about open marriages?
My A
..." I think that is awesome but it has to be 100% on both sides because it will come back and bite you on the bum somewhere later. you have to trust unconditionally because you know you are "THE ONE" for partner, no matter what!.. they will always come back to you everyday/nite! ....you cant have any one else who become a regular because it starts to be another relationship with someone that will have expectations one day too and that is the 3rd person in the relationship syndrome..... you have to fantasise together navigate it and enjoy it together .. seeing your partner being pleasured or after being pleasured is a turn on and then they bring that feeling of satisfaction back into your every day life can also be something hot about your marriage. My advice to anyone who wants it more than the your partner, just make sure your partner thinks they are making the decision for you to do that and they turn you on more because they want you too.. they will in turn think it is ok because.. he wouldn't do it if I didn't let or want him too! which is fair enough for them to expect... in your marriage!... lol is that what you were asking or meant????? lol"
Q What do you think about open marriages?
My A
..." I think that is awesome but it has to be 100% on both sides because it will come back and bite you on the bum somewhere later. you have to trust unconditionally because you know you are "THE ONE" for partner, no matter what!.. they will always come back to you everyday/nite! ....you cant have any one else who become a regular because it starts to be another relationship with someone that will have expectations one day too and that is the 3rd person in the relationship syndrome..... you have to fantasise together navigate it and enjoy it together .. seeing your partner being pleasured or after being pleasured is a turn on and then they bring that feeling of satisfaction back into your every day life can also be something hot about your marriage. My advice to anyone who wants it more than the your partner, just make sure your partner thinks they are making the decision for you to do that and they turn you on more because they want you too.. they will in turn think it is ok because.. he wouldn't do it if I didn't let or want him too! which is fair enough for them to expect... in your marriage!... lol is that what you were asking or meant????? lol"
7 years ago
