My (gross) tip for lasting longer in bed
I've read a lot of tips for lasting longer in bed and most involve distracting yourself. Eg: mentally reciting baseball stats, counting prime numbers, thinking about worrying things... that sort of stuff. These may or may not work for you, but all of these distraction techniques are...well...distracting. The only reason guys do this is to perform better for their partners enjoyment. It's no fun forcing yourself to constantly think about Randy Johnsons baseball stats when there is much more fun going on with your own randy johnson :) That's nice for your partner but there are other ways that will let you have more fun too. Supplements are 90% bullshit, 5% actual fact and 5% placebo effect. There are d**gs available that might help but most are expensive and have possible side effects (think impotence).
I figured out a way to make the distraction technique WAY more effective, like use it for 5 seconds then go back to enjoying the moment for a few minutes, no constantly distracting yourself and not actually enjoying sex. I'm sure I'm not the first to figure this out but I cant find info about this anywhere online. The only problem is the trick is pretty disgusting...
How it works is when you are getting close to orgasm, you think of the most disgusting thing you can. I've found that real life experiences work best, not stuff found online or in a slasher flick. 5 seconds or so of concentrating like this kills your libido at warp speed, but when you stop thinking about it the fact that you are in the middle of sex goes straight back to being your only focus. At least it does for me. It only works to a certain extent, I cant hold off orgasm forever like this but it works. I think really creepy stuff would work too for some people. I have never told anyone this trick before so if you try it, I make no guarantees. It could have absolutely no effect for you, or it could totally kill the mood and make you fall off. It's gross, but remember grossing yourself out a little is why the whole thing works.
In case you are curious about the disgusting memory I summon up... I was going to share it, but I'm afraid people would think I was sick for thinking about it during sex.
I figured out a way to make the distraction technique WAY more effective, like use it for 5 seconds then go back to enjoying the moment for a few minutes, no constantly distracting yourself and not actually enjoying sex. I'm sure I'm not the first to figure this out but I cant find info about this anywhere online. The only problem is the trick is pretty disgusting...
How it works is when you are getting close to orgasm, you think of the most disgusting thing you can. I've found that real life experiences work best, not stuff found online or in a slasher flick. 5 seconds or so of concentrating like this kills your libido at warp speed, but when you stop thinking about it the fact that you are in the middle of sex goes straight back to being your only focus. At least it does for me. It only works to a certain extent, I cant hold off orgasm forever like this but it works. I think really creepy stuff would work too for some people. I have never told anyone this trick before so if you try it, I make no guarantees. It could have absolutely no effect for you, or it could totally kill the mood and make you fall off. It's gross, but remember grossing yourself out a little is why the whole thing works.
In case you are curious about the disgusting memory I summon up... I was going to share it, but I'm afraid people would think I was sick for thinking about it during sex.
7 years ago
