My first Tantra experience
My first Tantra experience
Both my husband and I were virgins when we married, a rarity these days. We have had a pretty vanilla sex life and by now, the passion had dimished.
My husband and I were told about Tantra by a friend who had travelled to Las Vegas to meet a Tantra master named L. We stayed in one of the luxury hotels on the strip. My husband made the arrangements and negotiated the fee. I wasn’t sure what to expect except that it would be outside my usual comfort zone.
I was naked under my satin robe when he arrived. We talked a lot, then began the sugar scrub/shower/bath. Our bathroom was fine for our daily purposes, but the tub/shower had a glass sliding door, so it was pretty crowded with L., me, and then Hubby trying to observe, especially as we sat in the tub, L. behind me. He is naked, gentle, straightforward about the process, with no ogling or response to my body . . . just the business of sugar scrubbing and rinsing, and gradual desensitizing to nakedness and touch. He touched my breasts and butt in the process, but lightly. It was enough to let me know to anticipate that all parts may be touched. I felt aroused as well as a bit anxious about where this would be going. I must admit it was weird to be the subject of the practice of a naked man with an obvious arousal who was supposed to be a neutral teacher and demonstrator.
We moved into the room where his table was set up. L. lubed me up with lots of oil on my front side, which felt nice as he oiled my breasts, tummy, legs, and by passage, my pubic region. He said he did that first so while I was on my tummy he could reach under me and have whatever area he was working already oily. After oiling my front, he turned me over on my tummy, and did good the****utic massage for a while. L. worked his way down my back to my butt, and talked about muscle stresses he found in my inner thighs. I believed him because I knew what he described was there. He taught us the pain/pleasure principle that involved him putting pressure on the muscle ridges while at the same time stroking the outside of my labia. The idea is to confuse the brain by combining discomfort and pleasure. He found six muscle ridges that he treated this way - some on the outside of the labia, some on the inside. Sure felt nice - didn't mind the pressure on the ridges This was the beginning of his more deliberate touching of my pussy, and he sure advanced from there. I was really anxious as this unknown, naked man touched me more and more intimately, but it was gentle, pleasurable, arousing and my most trusted partner set it up and was present, and trying to learn as much as he could so he could replicate it.
L. moved inside me to places I didn't know I had. We were so eager to learn about every spot of arousal he talked about. We apparently had found some of them by accident over our years of loving, but we haven't known what we had found or how to maximize what we found. L. told us about internal touch spots that are wonderful - the g -spot, the taint, the 5 & 7 on either side, the place between the anus and the cervix, and some others which we will try to enjoy whether or not we remember their names. L. worked those places and changed regularly so I would want to "go over" as we call it, but not quite. He worked my clit while I was on my tummy, changed fingers/positions or locations, had me turn over to my back, and just kept arousing little places I didn't know about. I finally couldn't resist & went over. (When we had L. come back a second time, I was such less nervous and more willing to spread my legs and be sent over the top.) L. taught us about pinching and stroking my clit, and when my pussy had swelled beyond usual, L. blew on it to add to the arousal. It reminded me of times we have played out in nature. Breeze on nakedness is a real turn-on. When we had L. return, I must say I was more relaxed because I knew the expectations. I allowed my guard to drop, my legs to open, my arousal to have its way. It was a great orgasm and I gave myself to it. We learned so much and I got to enjoy so much.
Both my husband and I were virgins when we married, a rarity these days. We have had a pretty vanilla sex life and by now, the passion had dimished.
My husband and I were told about Tantra by a friend who had travelled to Las Vegas to meet a Tantra master named L. We stayed in one of the luxury hotels on the strip. My husband made the arrangements and negotiated the fee. I wasn’t sure what to expect except that it would be outside my usual comfort zone.
I was naked under my satin robe when he arrived. We talked a lot, then began the sugar scrub/shower/bath. Our bathroom was fine for our daily purposes, but the tub/shower had a glass sliding door, so it was pretty crowded with L., me, and then Hubby trying to observe, especially as we sat in the tub, L. behind me. He is naked, gentle, straightforward about the process, with no ogling or response to my body . . . just the business of sugar scrubbing and rinsing, and gradual desensitizing to nakedness and touch. He touched my breasts and butt in the process, but lightly. It was enough to let me know to anticipate that all parts may be touched. I felt aroused as well as a bit anxious about where this would be going. I must admit it was weird to be the subject of the practice of a naked man with an obvious arousal who was supposed to be a neutral teacher and demonstrator.
We moved into the room where his table was set up. L. lubed me up with lots of oil on my front side, which felt nice as he oiled my breasts, tummy, legs, and by passage, my pubic region. He said he did that first so while I was on my tummy he could reach under me and have whatever area he was working already oily. After oiling my front, he turned me over on my tummy, and did good the****utic massage for a while. L. worked his way down my back to my butt, and talked about muscle stresses he found in my inner thighs. I believed him because I knew what he described was there. He taught us the pain/pleasure principle that involved him putting pressure on the muscle ridges while at the same time stroking the outside of my labia. The idea is to confuse the brain by combining discomfort and pleasure. He found six muscle ridges that he treated this way - some on the outside of the labia, some on the inside. Sure felt nice - didn't mind the pressure on the ridges This was the beginning of his more deliberate touching of my pussy, and he sure advanced from there. I was really anxious as this unknown, naked man touched me more and more intimately, but it was gentle, pleasurable, arousing and my most trusted partner set it up and was present, and trying to learn as much as he could so he could replicate it.
L. moved inside me to places I didn't know I had. We were so eager to learn about every spot of arousal he talked about. We apparently had found some of them by accident over our years of loving, but we haven't known what we had found or how to maximize what we found. L. told us about internal touch spots that are wonderful - the g -spot, the taint, the 5 & 7 on either side, the place between the anus and the cervix, and some others which we will try to enjoy whether or not we remember their names. L. worked those places and changed regularly so I would want to "go over" as we call it, but not quite. He worked my clit while I was on my tummy, changed fingers/positions or locations, had me turn over to my back, and just kept arousing little places I didn't know about. I finally couldn't resist & went over. (When we had L. come back a second time, I was such less nervous and more willing to spread my legs and be sent over the top.) L. taught us about pinching and stroking my clit, and when my pussy had swelled beyond usual, L. blew on it to add to the arousal. It reminded me of times we have played out in nature. Breeze on nakedness is a real turn-on. When we had L. return, I must say I was more relaxed because I knew the expectations. I allowed my guard to drop, my legs to open, my arousal to have its way. It was a great orgasm and I gave myself to it. We learned so much and I got to enjoy so much.
7 years ago
