Question: Am I a slut or am I not a slut?
Here's a question a friend posed to me recently. If a slut is a person (woman or man) who has many sexual partners either in succession or simultaneously and has little to no commitment to any of them. Then, what is a person who has multiple sexual partners simultaneously but is committed to each of them for an extended period of time?
Now think about this for a second before you answer. In a matriarchal polygamous society (which is rare but has existed) the woman is allowed to date and marry multiple men. But in this case, she is not considered a slut. The same can said about patriarchal polygamous societies in Utah, where the man is not considered a slut, either.
So, does having my Black Bull Stable make me as slut?
I actually say, yes it does. But one of my friends, who's a lawyer, say's no it doesn't; but only by literal definition. However, the opinion of societal norms and morals may judge otherwise. Which is kind of ironic being that she doesn't approve of my lifestyle.
So what do you think?
Now think about this for a second before you answer. In a matriarchal polygamous society (which is rare but has existed) the woman is allowed to date and marry multiple men. But in this case, she is not considered a slut. The same can said about patriarchal polygamous societies in Utah, where the man is not considered a slut, either.
So, does having my Black Bull Stable make me as slut?
I actually say, yes it does. But one of my friends, who's a lawyer, say's no it doesn't; but only by literal definition. However, the opinion of societal norms and morals may judge otherwise. Which is kind of ironic being that she doesn't approve of my lifestyle.
So what do you think?
8 years ago
it's meant to be pejorative but i think Women should totally reclaim it (as many are, with "slut walks" protest) and people really need to get over the fact that attractive Women will have sex with whomever they want, when they want, how they want and that's OK, as long as everyone involved is OK and keeping safe.
so You're probably a slut, but being a slut is a great thing for You as You are clearly enjoying it and doing it right
if for sex, "being a slut" makes you horny, so be it
but in the "real life", you just know what you want, period
if the other are unhappy, that's there problem, not yours
I suspect you would be happiest in a polyandry situation, with selected partners none of whom are exclusive but share each other for gratification?
A slut is without power a whore benefits from being a slut because a whore male or females chooses and has power so it stands to reason if you are in control of your sexuality and those that enjoy what you share....whatever label they give you does not matter. As you stated in a few societies women have several lovers and choose whom that want to share themselves with......if it were not for the fact that women hold the chalice of humanity in their wombs and that sex is so link to procreation in certain puritanical societies ...we could all fuck like bunnies and not care what society ...so you have a choice.....be a slut and be proud lol
And as far as whether this means you're a slut or not, I don't mean to 'demote' you from your self-acclaimed Slut status, but in my personal opinion, you are not so much a slut as you are an intelligent, empowered female who is very in-tune with her personal needs and desires, and already IS leading her life how she wants, regardless of what others think.