Being The Other Woman

You may feel bad for her, but she has it better than I do. He loves her and doesn’t intend to leave. She gets to sleep in bed with him, cuddled in his arms, goes out with him, has holidays with him, and he’s there for her through all the good and bad. Me? I spend holidays alone, and most Saturday nights it’s me and the TV on the couch, as I day dream about him being with me.

Published by BBWClara

8 years ago

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doneval 7 years ago

This is a very sad post and true for many many women. It is unfortunate, that girls that like sex are often place in second view and it is the girls who make it hard for men to sleep with them. Man has to commit or change for them to have them and that end up being the wifes who at the end dont like sex and it the only sex they have is when en has invested time and effort. Men eventually go to the ones who like sex but cant live the commitments and the attachments they have created and even the feelings they have developed. However you dont have to be the other woman!! there are lot true honest BBW lovers out there!! just believe on your self. be strong and beautiful

I would hop eyou know better than that.

BBWClara Publisher 7 years ago

to lxf4l : Well am stupid to think that I could mean some thing to some one.

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Feel your pain, same way with some guys as well.

Moose14 8 years ago

to BBWClara : Everyone is worth more, and if you think no one else does, you are mistaken. It could be you haven't met the right people, but you are special, regardless of what you think. You deserve a deep connection, the joy of love and care and laughter and silly and amazing things that come with it. Don't give up, because if you do, then you will never get more because every opportunity you have to get there you will ignore.

You are a wonderful person, please never forget that.

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BBWClara Publisher 8 years ago

to Moose14 : Why would I believe that I am worth more than just sex when no one else does?

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Moose14 8 years ago

You're worth far more than just sex and I hope you realise that one day x

BBWClara Publisher 8 years ago

Do I know my worth? I don't, I've try with men, even when they have ignored me, I've still tried with them, if I had a worth and I knew it I wouldn't do that, would I.

BBWClara Publisher 8 years ago

But am not good enough for any thing else other than sex.

BBWClara Publisher 8 years ago

This is why I won't have sex with some one who is already taken - he will go back to his girlfriend/wife and forget all about me because for him its just sex.
But for me it will not be just sex, it will be more and I will care for him but I will still be alone and I will also have to not let the hurt and pain eat away at me as well as not day dream about being with him. Am stupid I know.