Smoking and sex !!
Before I start this blog, may I say that I believe smoking to be extremely unhealthy and in no way wish to suggest to anyone that they should start smoking for any reason, nor would I wish to prevent any smoker trying, or wishing to try, giving up !! Go for it, you'll be healthier, richer and nicer to be with !!
So, having got the health warnings out of the way, why do I enjoy the sight of women, particularly naked women, smoking, and why do I enjoy the occasional cigarette ??
Like I suspect most youth, whether of by age or younger, I tried smoking as a schoolboy. My Mum was a smoker, and it was easy to acquire the odd cigarette from her packs while she was elsewhere, so I didn't have the problems of getting packs that the more regular smokers amongst my friends. I'm not sure, but I don't think I really inhaled properly on these odd occasions, and so maybe did not get the main 'benefits' the harder chaps got !!!! I wasn't particularly impressed by smoking and so never got addicted as many youngsters do !
School and college passed as a non-smoker (as much on economic grounds as taste !!) and I only came back to being with smokers after graduation. I was part of a group of friends who met regularly socially at the pub, and met up with an old friend, Rosie, with whom I had grown up, playing together and had early stirrings of opposite-sex sexuality with. She wanted some one to take her out, and I wanted someone to take, so we became something of a loose couple. There always seemed to be a sexual charge between us, but nothing other than an occasional snog and fumble really happened between us.
One thing I did notice was that Rosie smoked occasionally. It was a social thing, something she'd developed at her college. I noticed that she didn't carry her own ciggies, but after a couple of drinks would bum one of one of the smokers in the group and clearly enjoy it.
She was always attractive, small but pert (just like her tits) and I always got a hard-on when playing her at squash when she would shoe-horn her gorgeous little arse into some very tight shorts. She was a perfect example of Freudianism, she used to look so much more lovely sucking on her ciggy (Freudian ciggy sucking = cock sucking !).
Anyway the other thing I noticed was as she had more drinks, and more ciggys, the more clingy she got, so that on the way home (we both lived with our respective families), I would be allowed to pull over at a particular 'lovers lane' (now a local 'dogging' venue I believe) and have some pleasure.
I'd have her tits out in a trice and be sucking her gorgeous nipples in seconds of the engine stopping. Ok, I know, hardly subtle foreplay, but she'd be moaning with pleasure and fumbling to drop the seat backdown before my lips touched her !! There would be plenty of throat-tongueing and tit-play, before thighs were parted and 'norty bits' rubbed hard (although she always retained her panties) !! She claims to this day, I never completed the job, but I must have been close on occasions !!! Before she came she'd be pulling at my trousers which would be quickly dropped and she'd rubber me up (strange, she carried them, not just me !!) and give me a fantastic hand-job. We'd cuddle a bit more, clean up and go home. I used to have to drive with the window open (it was my Dad's car) to get rid of that scent of sex !!!
As you can imagine, it didn't take long for me to carry fags myself for her use, and for which I got used !!!! Thus a fantastic connection between smoking and nookie was created !!
After a couple of years, I had to move for work and while we have remained great friends, it meant we split. She went off with her girlfriend (yes, is this why I was never allowed to give her an orgasm ???) and I got my own flat, while trying to meet new friends in a new area. Because of my connection between sex and smoking, I decided to try smoking myself to assist in my masturbation.
I admit smoking became a bit of a habit at this point. My flat had no central heatingso I would come home from work, put the fan heater on in my bedroom, strip off and enjoy a cigarette while warming up and wanking (some of the photos in the 'Younger Me' gallery were taken at this time). Memories of Rosie's mammaries and masturbation flooded over me with the smoke (ok it was only tobacco, it never occured to me to try anything stronger, where would I have got it ???) making my ogasms even more orgasmic. At this point in my life, I was masturbating at least three times a day, on awakening, after work and before sleep, and a few more times at weekends !! So I'd have at least one ciggy a day, making a pack of ten last all week, but could also go for a couple of weeks if I didn't replenish the pack !!
I met another lady, Martine, who didn't mind me having the occasional ciggy with her, especially after I explained why I had pleasant memories and erectile tendancies having had a fag. After my initial health warning above, I shouldn't say but I did manage to entice her into enjoying the occasional smoke with me, particularly while masturbating together (I never got her fanny either !!)
The lady who finally became the OH (see 'Honeymooning Honey' gallery) didn't mind me enjoying a relaxing puff now and again and did join me some times, but because fanny was available I didn't feel I needed to enhance wanking any longer, so smoking is now a very occasional excercise (the last time was about five years ago, when the OH was having her fling with Smokey Joe and his BBC, and I needed to chill out (and get hards-on to prove she didn't need a n****r to satisfy her !"!!)
So there we are, an enjoyable life of ciggies, sex and pleasure!!!
Please comment if my life story has any mirror in your life, I#d love to hear from you !!!!
So, having got the health warnings out of the way, why do I enjoy the sight of women, particularly naked women, smoking, and why do I enjoy the occasional cigarette ??
Like I suspect most youth, whether of by age or younger, I tried smoking as a schoolboy. My Mum was a smoker, and it was easy to acquire the odd cigarette from her packs while she was elsewhere, so I didn't have the problems of getting packs that the more regular smokers amongst my friends. I'm not sure, but I don't think I really inhaled properly on these odd occasions, and so maybe did not get the main 'benefits' the harder chaps got !!!! I wasn't particularly impressed by smoking and so never got addicted as many youngsters do !
School and college passed as a non-smoker (as much on economic grounds as taste !!) and I only came back to being with smokers after graduation. I was part of a group of friends who met regularly socially at the pub, and met up with an old friend, Rosie, with whom I had grown up, playing together and had early stirrings of opposite-sex sexuality with. She wanted some one to take her out, and I wanted someone to take, so we became something of a loose couple. There always seemed to be a sexual charge between us, but nothing other than an occasional snog and fumble really happened between us.
One thing I did notice was that Rosie smoked occasionally. It was a social thing, something she'd developed at her college. I noticed that she didn't carry her own ciggies, but after a couple of drinks would bum one of one of the smokers in the group and clearly enjoy it.
She was always attractive, small but pert (just like her tits) and I always got a hard-on when playing her at squash when she would shoe-horn her gorgeous little arse into some very tight shorts. She was a perfect example of Freudianism, she used to look so much more lovely sucking on her ciggy (Freudian ciggy sucking = cock sucking !).
Anyway the other thing I noticed was as she had more drinks, and more ciggys, the more clingy she got, so that on the way home (we both lived with our respective families), I would be allowed to pull over at a particular 'lovers lane' (now a local 'dogging' venue I believe) and have some pleasure.
I'd have her tits out in a trice and be sucking her gorgeous nipples in seconds of the engine stopping. Ok, I know, hardly subtle foreplay, but she'd be moaning with pleasure and fumbling to drop the seat backdown before my lips touched her !! There would be plenty of throat-tongueing and tit-play, before thighs were parted and 'norty bits' rubbed hard (although she always retained her panties) !! She claims to this day, I never completed the job, but I must have been close on occasions !!! Before she came she'd be pulling at my trousers which would be quickly dropped and she'd rubber me up (strange, she carried them, not just me !!) and give me a fantastic hand-job. We'd cuddle a bit more, clean up and go home. I used to have to drive with the window open (it was my Dad's car) to get rid of that scent of sex !!!
As you can imagine, it didn't take long for me to carry fags myself for her use, and for which I got used !!!! Thus a fantastic connection between smoking and nookie was created !!
After a couple of years, I had to move for work and while we have remained great friends, it meant we split. She went off with her girlfriend (yes, is this why I was never allowed to give her an orgasm ???) and I got my own flat, while trying to meet new friends in a new area. Because of my connection between sex and smoking, I decided to try smoking myself to assist in my masturbation.
I admit smoking became a bit of a habit at this point. My flat had no central heatingso I would come home from work, put the fan heater on in my bedroom, strip off and enjoy a cigarette while warming up and wanking (some of the photos in the 'Younger Me' gallery were taken at this time). Memories of Rosie's mammaries and masturbation flooded over me with the smoke (ok it was only tobacco, it never occured to me to try anything stronger, where would I have got it ???) making my ogasms even more orgasmic. At this point in my life, I was masturbating at least three times a day, on awakening, after work and before sleep, and a few more times at weekends !! So I'd have at least one ciggy a day, making a pack of ten last all week, but could also go for a couple of weeks if I didn't replenish the pack !!
I met another lady, Martine, who didn't mind me having the occasional ciggy with her, especially after I explained why I had pleasant memories and erectile tendancies having had a fag. After my initial health warning above, I shouldn't say but I did manage to entice her into enjoying the occasional smoke with me, particularly while masturbating together (I never got her fanny either !!)
The lady who finally became the OH (see 'Honeymooning Honey' gallery) didn't mind me enjoying a relaxing puff now and again and did join me some times, but because fanny was available I didn't feel I needed to enhance wanking any longer, so smoking is now a very occasional excercise (the last time was about five years ago, when the OH was having her fling with Smokey Joe and his BBC, and I needed to chill out (and get hards-on to prove she didn't need a n****r to satisfy her !"!!)
So there we are, an enjoyable life of ciggies, sex and pleasure!!!
Please comment if my life story has any mirror in your life, I#d love to hear from you !!!!
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