Demanding would-be Doms

Like many others I've had my fair share of would-be Doms try to approach me. There have been many who have been respectful even though we may not mesh well with our kinks, desires, etc. Some have become friends while others have drifted away.

On the other hand there have been quite a few lately.

Here are some from the last few idiots who have approached me.

Demand my submission -- Of course, they don't know/or ask about limits. Or did not know what aftercare was, or point blank would say "they don't do aftercare".
Idiots who don't read profiles - Enough said.
Demanding Doms - I don't mean someone you're under consideration with or collared to. Some subs/slaves enjoy being commanded by strangers, and that's cool. But it's not for me.
Little boys - Little boys trying to be men are the WORST.
Internet Doms/picture collectors - Recently a man with debatable spelling and grammar skills messaged me. At first, he was polite and it soon became apparent that he wanted images. I'm selective with people who I share my images with. Generally they would need to be well trusted, my Dominant IRL, and someone who I know is not a collector. When I politely declined he said the following; "and so you know I am 100% about not bothering you I am now blocking you has a time waster witch you are really".

"witch you are really".

Protip: It's which.

Nice.

I suppose I should get on my broom now.

Anyway, these sorts of Doms are clearly inexperienced and I hope no sub gains their early experience when it comes to dealing with Doms like these. I have real life friends who would love to try BDSM, but they are scared either due to a bad experience with a fucking moron or they're simply too scared.

Rant over.


Published by spiderlady87
8 years ago
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spiderlady87
spiderlady87 Publisher 7 years ago
Not to worry, I don't sub anymore.
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littlewanker 8 years ago
Treat with respect to get respect, simple
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kc010101
kc010101 8 years ago
Sounds like nothings changed. Same old same old.
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Sissycumslut1995
Sissycumslut1995 8 years ago
I feel sorry for you Miss i wish you can find yourself one soon while i look on Miss
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spiderlady87
spiderlady87 Publisher 8 years ago
to slave4owner : Exactly, experience counts for a great deal. Personality and ethics also are important, too.

Thank you for commenting. As always you have something good to add.
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slave4owner
slave4owner 8 years ago
I always feel better about getting on a plane when the pilot has some gray hairs. Experience is everything, and Dom/Dommes are no different.
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