Why so little conversation?

I really like XHamster. It's a wonderful place to see just exactly what one is in the mood for. But I wish there were more discussion and conversation with likeminded souls. I am not here to meet women or engage in any sort of relationship. But I do love comparing notes, discussing preferences and turn-ons, alerting to great pics and videos with other guys who share my preferences in women and fantasies. Unfortunately, for the most part such interactions are few and far between. Is it XHamster's very limited Private Messaging system, or is it more that guys just aren't interested in discussing preferences and turn-ons with those who share their interests?

Published by mcrae212

8 years ago

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Always interested love talking about past experiences and also what experiences hopefully lay ahead but as you said no one really interested

Fatty-piggy 6 years ago

to mcrae212 : as a woman out of maybe 20 messages I normally have a few good ones. By good I just mean more than “hey how are you” and something actually interesting or stimulating. Out of those few inevitably one will ask to cam or to Skype. Which isn’t my thing. Or they don’t really get it and the conversation fizzles. I love to chat though.

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mcrae212 Publisher 7 years ago

I love messaging with likeminded men, sharing experiences over mutual preferences, discussing pics and vids, imagine fantasy scenarios with the fat women we both desire, and so on. But apparently most prefer to try to link up with women and get off that way. As is, I am looking at a full 18 correspondences in "My Private Messages" where I wrote or answered and there is no response. It's like talking to myself. I truly regret that so few are interested in just sharing their thoughts and experiences and discuss the lovely fat ladies we like.

badpenis 8 years ago

I agree. I find it very hard to get conversations going. Once I tell someone my fantasy I never hear from them again Why?? The brain is our biggest sex organ and our thoughts and fantasies are very stimulating I would like to hear more about yours

HandsomeFA 8 years ago

to mcrae212 : Yes that is correct Kik Messanger. If We are on at the same time & We text each other it is simultaneously sent.

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mcrae212 Publisher 8 years ago

to theblob61 : There's that, but it's not a problem lots of practice cannot resolve.

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theblob61 8 years ago

It's tough to type one-handed!

mcrae212 Publisher 8 years ago

to HandsomeFA : Kik as in Kik Messenger? I'll have to look into that. Overall, I love having conversations right here on XHamster. The scenery here is quite enticing, and it'd be nice to have ongoing private correspondences. But after so and so many attempts that yield no response or just minimal ones, it becomes discouraging. I mean, I don't want to feel I'm a pest or impose on people.

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mcrae212 Publisher 8 years ago

to Uddersfield : Not aware of the Chubby Parade forum. Where is it? In general, I prefer one-on-one conversations and correspondences.

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HandsomeFA 8 years ago

I feel the same way!!! I do prefer talking to on Kik rather xhamster for it is more instant when both are on. If You would like to talk my Kik name is : HandsomeFA

Uddersfield 8 years ago

I think it's mainly because most can't string a paragraph together. Are you on the Chubby Parade forum?