Fucking and cumming

I don't know who to turn to about this so I'm hoping someone on here can help. I have fucked a woman (paid for) and I'm not gay or anything but I couldn't cum and eventually my erections go away. Today I went to a fs massage parlor had sex but had a hard time coming. I had to jack it and then stick it in to cum. How embarrassing. What's wrong with me? I masterbate alot but only because I have a hard time finding a gf also the fact I have no money to really spend on her plus being a college student. Why do I have a hard time coming? I'm scared that when the gf comes along one day I'm going to have a hard time Cummings again. Not to knock anyone but I hope to put this paying for sex behind me and finding a girl. Any advice? Thanks

Published by bigj1234

9 years ago

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henrya77 9 years ago

to bigj1234 : Also, with massage parlors. I would say the quality of the HJ varies a LOT. The average is "not so good". with really bad ones being maybe 20-30%. Totally do NOT let a massage place experience ruin it for you. I have gone to many AMPs, and its not uncommon I just tell her to stop, and give me scalp massage!

Sure, some are really great, but many are not.

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bigj1234 Publisher 9 years ago

to henrya77 : thank you man i really need that. i think its time i leave the massage scene because im not getting nothing out of it. its time to really focus on getting a gf to practice on.,

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henrya77 9 years ago

to bigj1234 : Nothing wrong with you. All you need is a regular woman. Also, when you fuck, draw the cock mostly out, then back in. You know, the piston you see on porn a lot? Women like that, and it makes u cum faster. Since u have a little issue (99% in your head, I am sure) that will give her a long ride, AND you will get to cum. Don't worry if it takes a while.

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bigj1234 Publisher 9 years ago

to henrya77 : I'm just turned 23

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henrya77 9 years ago

How old are you guy?

nipple-clamps 9 years ago

Mate I was in the same situation. I had a randy girlfriend and couldnt cum despite her insisting we dont use condoms. One day we had a bit to drink and went to bed, she fell asleep and i played with her pussy. I wanked and managed to cum on her pussy. I woke her up and showed her the spunk. She seemed impressed and had no problems after that.