Somebody explain something to me. . . . .

I let/force my pets to watch femdom videos here to find and push their limits and work them up. But can somebody please tell me what is the point of being a dominant woman if you're not going to get off. My pet was just watching a facesitting/smothering video which was very hot in some ways (I love it when my pets can't breathe). At the same time, the domme was sitting in the most awkward position and she jacked the guy off but never got off herself. Isn't that just ass backward? My orgasms are the most important thing. More important than his orgasms and more important even than him breathing at times. I always get off, multiple times. My pets may get off if their doing something for me. Even when I'm fucking some poor guy's ass with my strapon the pressure on my clit gets me off. My victim may get off from my pounding his ass but that's the only way unless I let him touch himself. I'm certainly not going to put any effort into his orgasm or put myself in some weird awkward position to fulfill his fantasy. Am I wrong?

Published by nmdomme

9 years ago

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arhhawkeye 2 years ago

yes if you can't reciprocate something thing then why should he stay with you. if everything is about you why should anyone stay with you. being selfish is lousy way to be

hafem 3 years ago

Slaves should be locked 24/7 unless teased or ruined

Oldwood-1 3 years ago

i'm probably going to piss some people off here Mistress , but , men suck at multitasking . if he is masturbating or being masturbated he is not going to be paying full attention to the divine pleasure of serving your needs .

elubif 3 years ago

Not at all wrong. If I were to orgasm it should be for her pleasure. Hers is given should be the main focus. But I believe, as touched in another comment here, that there are a high focus on the buyers to get off for their fantasy, which in turn makes it harder to find true quality and something genuine.

Oldwood-1 4 years ago

Mistress Maria , yes , one of the main reasons if not the only reason for owning pets is your enjoyment . another thing that i find weird in porn femdom is that the pet / slave has to be made to please her , he never enjoys the pleasure he brings his Mistress . i find it very blissful and fulfilling to serve a woman's needs .

throat4strapon 6 years ago

Our orgasms are not your responsibility. The only thing you should be concerned about is yours, and if we cum as a by-product of the abuse, then all the better.

boppizza 8 years ago

giving the sub an unexpected pleasure can be another tool to control him

100% correct!!!

joe5959 9 years ago

yes, your pleasure is the most important than anything else

d2f1981 9 years ago

Agreed!! It's all about you goddess...

Entities 9 years ago

you could lock me up I just want to please you. Thats where my satisfaction comes from.

horyunoken 9 years ago

Your orgasm is the only thing that matters ! oh I wish I wasn't so far away so I could come to serve you

1l2lp 9 years ago

Wrong? Not at all Ma'am, I think you are hitting the nail on the head, your beliefs are as it should be

kinktellectual 9 years ago

LUV your mind!

scorpion1978 9 years ago

Wow! I would like to pass out while you have your orgasm on my face or being ass-raped until you squirt!

everymoon021 9 years ago

i think its wrong, if the slave happens to get off its by accident, You are always tope priority, and if he ruins your fun by cumming first it should simply be followed by a lesson he will never forget and one you never have to repeat.

hahahahaha296 9 years ago

Not wrong, just different.

cdx59 9 years ago

It is always Mistress first, second, and third

Then if mistress has enough energy to punish you into an orgasm a slave should be thankful and then clean up the mess.

boytoysexslave 9 years ago

Your the boss u do as u wish. if the slave makes u tingle in different spots mabey u should care just a little how u get him off. u can always get a second slave or a primary one to make u get off.

Wisest1 9 years ago

mhm

goodcock8inch 9 years ago

You are totally right. It should only be you getting the pleasure while willing slaves like myself enjoy being yours to use.

darktemplario 9 years ago

You are not wrong Miss Maria, you should always take precedence over your playtings, it is obvious that they didn't search the right kind of videos, here are some videos that you might want them to see.

CBT, the Mistress doesn't even touch their dicks, in if it is about limits maybe they'll eventually would want to try them:
http://xhamster.com/movies/1738550/she_owns_your_balls.html
http://xhamster.com/movies/1669969/strap_on_goddess.html
http://xhamster.com/movies/1103031/mistress_training_he

sklaveffm 9 years ago

no ... you are absolutely right

2damnhorny 9 years ago

well I'm not into the dominate woman thing, but in the situation times Id have taken care of the woman first. give her multiple orgasms with what she enjoys then switch to something Id like at the end. possible face sitting HJ. as far as her being satisfied first no problem, but the favor has to be returned.

starfishcracker 9 years ago

Bravo!!!! I'm glad it's not only me that feels this way. When I'm being dominated, I get the most pleasure from my mistress using me for her own pleasure.... Even at the cost of my own oxygen. And she loves it when I'm breathless and writhing beneath her as she orgasms. Her pleasure is the most important thing, and if I've performed well, then I may be rewarded. And the same goes for the porn I watch, I watch face sitting vids to see the Dom get off.... Not the slave. I'm always disappointed whe

domdomdomdom 9 years ago

It's right for you.

VirginSturgeon 9 years ago

to submale34 : Well said! Intelligent dialogue brings such a huge lift to all porn, especially femdom...

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Submissive-boy 9 years ago

completely right !

submale34 9 years ago

I think that the films are still produced for the likely purchaser, the male sub and are so filmed accordingly. Unfortunately, they mostly lack a number of elements: 1) the pleasure of the Domme which is why all enjoy our roles, 2) no sense of humour or fun; which for me is one of the main parts and 3) a rubbish script which just normally consists of "you're a pathetic bitch etc" whereas quite often part 2 and 3 combine for fun and humiliation

Any pet worth your time must know that YOU are the only one that matters.