Rocking His Visual World
Rocking His Visual World
First, as you know, I'm a stripper and an eskort. And as you probably know, I have been, and sometimes still like to be an adult model, webcam girl, massage girl, and travel companion. To make yourself a success in any of these fields, of course you have to package the primary product, your body, sexily. In fact in our sexified world, everything from music to shower gel to diet pills sells either on explicit or implied sex. With so many distractions for her man, and eskorts becoming available through the so many dial an eskort services, every housewife too needs to pay particular attention to herself and her primary job of entertaining her man. This blog kind of lists, in detail, how I think about these subjects and probably has some learning for all...whether one is a sexually adventurous jezebel or a domestic housewife. The paragraphs below show you what I have learnt and you might enjoy reading and piggybacking on some of the ideas. You may of course agree or disagree with some of my scribblings. And I would love to hear from the young ladies here as well as the men!
1. GUYS ARE VISUAL. The male of our species are visual creatures, unlike we females, who respond more to emotions. This, for example, explains the popularity of porn amongst guys. This of course also means that presentation becomes very important when it comes to wooing the guys.
2. GIRLS PERSONIFY SEX. If there is one predominant reason for marriages, it is obviously sex. And whether its a wife or a harlot, its the damsels that ooze sex, that are supposed to enchant and seduce the guys, the ones that possess the charms to entrap the guys. She is the one who screws her way to the top by playing on the weaknesses of men. In what is loosely called the sex business, almost all the workers are therefore female.
When it comes to a sex worker seducing her client, or a girlfriend or wife getting intimate with her lover, husband or some guy, the product that is being transacted is her body. The girlfriend, wife or the sex workers need to fulfil male demands for fun and fantasy and need to present themselves in ways that they represent Fun.
3. PRESENTATION IS THE KEY. And in this Presentation is of course the Key. The Presentation of her body. So that it excites the guys, and keeps them spellbound and on the leash. Therefore, presentation of the female body is the key to happiness in the world. All girls, irrespective of whether they are girlfriends, wives, floozies, harlots, hookers, hussies, sluts, strumpets, tarts, trollops, whores or whatever, owe it to their guys to keep them in a state of excitement and a state of happiness. I offer my ideas below, to help you in this endeavour.
Of course feel free to make variations and improvisations along the way. In reality I feel that there is only one test: will it make the guy happier...will it make his dick throb harder....will it make me more desirable to him...If yes is the answer, look no further.
4.OVERALL PRESENTATION. In the end, its the whole package that counts. The Hair, The Nail Colours, Makeup, Clothing and accessories, Shoes, Posture, Attitude, Tattoos, Piercings, Body modifications and Ornamentation...the whole spectrum. Try various combinations, and keep making changes, based on your mood from time to time, so that you always appear fresh to yourself and to the guys.
Never forget that all these various things need to meet in a harmonious whole to provide full satisfaction to you and to the guy you are with. Its like a canvas, with different colours but one unified theme.
5. SHOES. Heels, heels, heels, heels. High heels are a crucial, fundamental, non-negotiable part. You absolutely have to learn how to walk in heels. You will have to wear 3" to 4" heels at all times, whether at work, going shopping or travelling. And when you meet for play, you will need to move up to 5" or 6" heels.
Heels lengthen the legs, and lift the ass. Good heels and an appropriate walk with small steps and wiggling are completely and totally non negotiable.
6. MAKEUP. Nails must be beautiful and add to your sexiness. Sometimes short nails may be ok, but I prefer that they be atleast half an inch long, if not longer. Nails could be in a single bright colour, usually scarlet, shocking pink or darker shades of red, or in different colours and patterns. Or they could be a Slutty Fire engine red or a colour that matches your make up. The tips could be white or pink. Toe nails are no less important and need to be always painted as well.
If you are the kind of girl who likes young youthful pinks then a frosted pink lipstick is your choice. If going for more of a sultry creature of the night look, then a dark blood red lipstick may suit you more with nails to match. Whatever lipstick colour you do end up using always remember to go on the outside of your lips, your lips should be made to look as big as possible and very cock sucking. Lipstick liner may be a help to those girls with smaller lips.
You must always wear makeup irrespective of how beautiful you may naturally be. Eyes have to be dark, smoky, and slutty or at least shaped with makeup to give a doll-like look. The eye brows need to be thin...you can always make them thick with make up if you want to.
Use bronzer on face and tanning lotion on legs and arms. Hair looks good only on the head. Wax it out from all other places. Let your skin be smooth and inviting.
7. HAIR. Hair has to be long either straight or very big and wavy. No man wants to look down and see a short haired girl looking back. He wants to see your face surrounded by a lot of hair, a halo of hair, golden if possible. That means that if you can bleach it blonde, do it. Add highlights. When a man looks down he needs to see a long mane of golden blonde hair bobbing back and forth. And keep the lower area around your pussy shaved at all times. It would make your clit look so neat and nice, almost giving an inviting look.
8. OUTFIT. Most of the time you should go without panties. If you are used to always wearing them, fix one day of the week when you would go without panties. Gradually, increase the number of days, by say a day a week and in about less than two months, you would feel very uncomfortable with panties on. Similarly, avoid bras too. You should wear slinky tops that accentuate the breasts and the nipples. If the boobs are small, nipple jewellery would provide him a diversion from the small size. Save up for the enhancements soon enough...
As a thumb rule, I feel that when out in public, skirts should never be more than 6 inches in length. For times when you feel like a nun, you could get to a maximum of 8 inches. In private go for the micro or belt skirts...4 to 6 inches. In private you will want to be naked underneath at all times. But when going out, some very small panties may yet be required. A pleated skirt or mini kilt would flip up and give people a glimpse of what lies underneath the skirt. When out in public, they would see your panties, and nothing wrong with that. And in private they would see your cunt...which is the whole purpose. At the maximum, go for sheer and shiny stockings.
One size too small is always the starting point, you may need to go even smaller depending on the item of clothing.
A judiciously graduated choice of clothing can move one almost imperceptibly in the direction that you want. You will probably find that starting simply with the classsic uniform of short skirt, stockings, heels and a tight white blouse with a superbra underneath will please and excite you. Week by week you ensure that the skirt shortens, the top becomes shorter and more revealing and finally you realise that clothing can be designed to draw the eye rather than cover the skin.
Outfits should also provide easy access, while pretending to cover. Easy access fulfils the need for affection and desire. The outfits should provide pleasure to anyone who wishes to feast their eyes, and should add to your sexiness. Some outfits make you appear even more provocative than when absolutely nude, and you always need to have such outfits in your wardrobe. If it makes him hard, It is good. Simple. And yes, when in bed, no clothes of any kind at all...your bed needs to be a no clothes zone at all times, except may be a blanket...which too has to be shared with your guy.
9. POSTURE. Posture is about how you stand, walk and sit. You have to feel comfortable..
You need to spend a long time perfecting the wiggle, getting the sashaying movement. Use your body as a sexual tool. Walking is not to get from one place to another but to attract men's attention and interest. Your aim is to draw attention to your ass and beautiful long legs. Remember you're walking for him, not yourself.
Watch supermodels walk the walk. Visit fashion shows and watch them on TV. Who were the models that stood out the most? What made them unique? How was her walk different from the others? Learn from the best so that you don't have to reinvent the wheel.
10. ATTITUDE. Adopt the attitude that our bodies are meant for pleasing the guys, and that in this department no one should leave you behind. Many of my lovers I was with at various times, told me that I was expected to give them access to my body at all times. Initially I was not so sure, but when I decided to play along, I realised that the quality of our lives increased dramatically. Soon it got reinforced into me that being available was my natural state. Initially, my guys took every opportunity to touch and squeeze my tits by slipping a hand under the T-shirt or sweater. Initially this happened only when nobody was watching, but gradually you care less and less. As time passes, one becomes more and more open. Gradually, I knew that I was expected to be be available for their enjoyment at all times, and that they too would be available for my enjoyment at all times. And that also made me so pleased with myself, and my life got that much better.
Sometimes wear a top that you can easily lift or open to show your breasts. Other times it will be a skirt that you can lift, Yet other times, dress sexy or be nude under a long coat, that opens for the asking, or better still even without asking. .sex is the lifeblood of all these relationships, and reminding your guy again and again that you are a sexual creature that enjoys your sexuality and wants him to enjoy it too, can prevent any relationship from getting jaded.
Learn new skills...dirty talking is one such. The key is practice. Guys get really excited hearing the girl talk dirty...learn from so many articles and videos on the net...It will make your guy climax like hell.
Always carry a Makeup kit, Lipstick, A mini vibrator, Cigarettes, Lighter, Cell phone, Some money, Mobile, Black Eyeliner, some perfume, and of course, condoms. Load some porn novels, pics and movies on your phone. Make use of every opportunity you get with guys. Also, have a healthy attitude towards sex. Be keen on experimenting, and have the passion and the fire in the eyes, as you do him. Whether its blowjobs or sex, enthusiasm always shows. Sex needs to make you genuinely happy. Open your guy's mind to new pleasures and desires. Tease and tempt him. Let him work on your body as an artist works on a canvas...Give him a wonderful time. Be Fun.
Repeat to yourself again and again and again, that you are there to fulfil the guy's fantasies..to give him a great time. Whatever you do, it should be fun and pleasurable to him. That you exist solely for his pleasure, use and enjoyment. Accept and be proud of your new life of being fun, and the moment you accept it, it becomes enjoyable. Know and accept your place, your role, that of being Fun. Let your life revolve around Pleasure, Fun, Guys and Sex. Awesome things will happen once you stop being miserable and fit into your role.
11. TATTOOS, PIERCINGS AND BODY MODIFICATIONS. I am not a big fan of Tattoos and dont have many. Sometime back, I got a tattoo of a small flame just above my pussy, so that my guy stands warned that he was entering a ultra hot zone. If one has less ink or more, I believe that tattoos should always have a sexual content. It should remind your guy of the incredible girl you are. And it should make his dick harder.
Same about piercings. They should invariably have a sexual content. Earlobes piercings is so passe, but that too can be converted into something unique by say using heart shaped rings instead of round ones. Use the real large ones. Nipple, clitoris and other jewellery is available in a wide range of styles. You can also choose simple lassos which don't need piercing.
In the long term, go for that Nose job, lighten your hair, and that boob job...whether it’s some sort of lift with implants or getting that perky big tit look...
12. WHAT REALLY MATTERS. But in the end eventually, for all questions there is only one test...Does it add girth to his dick..does it make him happier...does it make me more desirable and increase the chance of a sexual encounter...If the answer is a Yes, thats all you need to know, thats all that matters, that is the last word.
First, as you know, I'm a stripper and an eskort. And as you probably know, I have been, and sometimes still like to be an adult model, webcam girl, massage girl, and travel companion. To make yourself a success in any of these fields, of course you have to package the primary product, your body, sexily. In fact in our sexified world, everything from music to shower gel to diet pills sells either on explicit or implied sex. With so many distractions for her man, and eskorts becoming available through the so many dial an eskort services, every housewife too needs to pay particular attention to herself and her primary job of entertaining her man. This blog kind of lists, in detail, how I think about these subjects and probably has some learning for all...whether one is a sexually adventurous jezebel or a domestic housewife. The paragraphs below show you what I have learnt and you might enjoy reading and piggybacking on some of the ideas. You may of course agree or disagree with some of my scribblings. And I would love to hear from the young ladies here as well as the men!
1. GUYS ARE VISUAL. The male of our species are visual creatures, unlike we females, who respond more to emotions. This, for example, explains the popularity of porn amongst guys. This of course also means that presentation becomes very important when it comes to wooing the guys.
2. GIRLS PERSONIFY SEX. If there is one predominant reason for marriages, it is obviously sex. And whether its a wife or a harlot, its the damsels that ooze sex, that are supposed to enchant and seduce the guys, the ones that possess the charms to entrap the guys. She is the one who screws her way to the top by playing on the weaknesses of men. In what is loosely called the sex business, almost all the workers are therefore female.
When it comes to a sex worker seducing her client, or a girlfriend or wife getting intimate with her lover, husband or some guy, the product that is being transacted is her body. The girlfriend, wife or the sex workers need to fulfil male demands for fun and fantasy and need to present themselves in ways that they represent Fun.
3. PRESENTATION IS THE KEY. And in this Presentation is of course the Key. The Presentation of her body. So that it excites the guys, and keeps them spellbound and on the leash. Therefore, presentation of the female body is the key to happiness in the world. All girls, irrespective of whether they are girlfriends, wives, floozies, harlots, hookers, hussies, sluts, strumpets, tarts, trollops, whores or whatever, owe it to their guys to keep them in a state of excitement and a state of happiness. I offer my ideas below, to help you in this endeavour.
Of course feel free to make variations and improvisations along the way. In reality I feel that there is only one test: will it make the guy happier...will it make his dick throb harder....will it make me more desirable to him...If yes is the answer, look no further.
4.OVERALL PRESENTATION. In the end, its the whole package that counts. The Hair, The Nail Colours, Makeup, Clothing and accessories, Shoes, Posture, Attitude, Tattoos, Piercings, Body modifications and Ornamentation...the whole spectrum. Try various combinations, and keep making changes, based on your mood from time to time, so that you always appear fresh to yourself and to the guys.
Never forget that all these various things need to meet in a harmonious whole to provide full satisfaction to you and to the guy you are with. Its like a canvas, with different colours but one unified theme.
5. SHOES. Heels, heels, heels, heels. High heels are a crucial, fundamental, non-negotiable part. You absolutely have to learn how to walk in heels. You will have to wear 3" to 4" heels at all times, whether at work, going shopping or travelling. And when you meet for play, you will need to move up to 5" or 6" heels.
Heels lengthen the legs, and lift the ass. Good heels and an appropriate walk with small steps and wiggling are completely and totally non negotiable.
6. MAKEUP. Nails must be beautiful and add to your sexiness. Sometimes short nails may be ok, but I prefer that they be atleast half an inch long, if not longer. Nails could be in a single bright colour, usually scarlet, shocking pink or darker shades of red, or in different colours and patterns. Or they could be a Slutty Fire engine red or a colour that matches your make up. The tips could be white or pink. Toe nails are no less important and need to be always painted as well.
If you are the kind of girl who likes young youthful pinks then a frosted pink lipstick is your choice. If going for more of a sultry creature of the night look, then a dark blood red lipstick may suit you more with nails to match. Whatever lipstick colour you do end up using always remember to go on the outside of your lips, your lips should be made to look as big as possible and very cock sucking. Lipstick liner may be a help to those girls with smaller lips.
You must always wear makeup irrespective of how beautiful you may naturally be. Eyes have to be dark, smoky, and slutty or at least shaped with makeup to give a doll-like look. The eye brows need to be thin...you can always make them thick with make up if you want to.
Use bronzer on face and tanning lotion on legs and arms. Hair looks good only on the head. Wax it out from all other places. Let your skin be smooth and inviting.
7. HAIR. Hair has to be long either straight or very big and wavy. No man wants to look down and see a short haired girl looking back. He wants to see your face surrounded by a lot of hair, a halo of hair, golden if possible. That means that if you can bleach it blonde, do it. Add highlights. When a man looks down he needs to see a long mane of golden blonde hair bobbing back and forth. And keep the lower area around your pussy shaved at all times. It would make your clit look so neat and nice, almost giving an inviting look.
8. OUTFIT. Most of the time you should go without panties. If you are used to always wearing them, fix one day of the week when you would go without panties. Gradually, increase the number of days, by say a day a week and in about less than two months, you would feel very uncomfortable with panties on. Similarly, avoid bras too. You should wear slinky tops that accentuate the breasts and the nipples. If the boobs are small, nipple jewellery would provide him a diversion from the small size. Save up for the enhancements soon enough...
As a thumb rule, I feel that when out in public, skirts should never be more than 6 inches in length. For times when you feel like a nun, you could get to a maximum of 8 inches. In private go for the micro or belt skirts...4 to 6 inches. In private you will want to be naked underneath at all times. But when going out, some very small panties may yet be required. A pleated skirt or mini kilt would flip up and give people a glimpse of what lies underneath the skirt. When out in public, they would see your panties, and nothing wrong with that. And in private they would see your cunt...which is the whole purpose. At the maximum, go for sheer and shiny stockings.
One size too small is always the starting point, you may need to go even smaller depending on the item of clothing.
A judiciously graduated choice of clothing can move one almost imperceptibly in the direction that you want. You will probably find that starting simply with the classsic uniform of short skirt, stockings, heels and a tight white blouse with a superbra underneath will please and excite you. Week by week you ensure that the skirt shortens, the top becomes shorter and more revealing and finally you realise that clothing can be designed to draw the eye rather than cover the skin.
Outfits should also provide easy access, while pretending to cover. Easy access fulfils the need for affection and desire. The outfits should provide pleasure to anyone who wishes to feast their eyes, and should add to your sexiness. Some outfits make you appear even more provocative than when absolutely nude, and you always need to have such outfits in your wardrobe. If it makes him hard, It is good. Simple. And yes, when in bed, no clothes of any kind at all...your bed needs to be a no clothes zone at all times, except may be a blanket...which too has to be shared with your guy.
9. POSTURE. Posture is about how you stand, walk and sit. You have to feel comfortable..
You need to spend a long time perfecting the wiggle, getting the sashaying movement. Use your body as a sexual tool. Walking is not to get from one place to another but to attract men's attention and interest. Your aim is to draw attention to your ass and beautiful long legs. Remember you're walking for him, not yourself.
Watch supermodels walk the walk. Visit fashion shows and watch them on TV. Who were the models that stood out the most? What made them unique? How was her walk different from the others? Learn from the best so that you don't have to reinvent the wheel.
10. ATTITUDE. Adopt the attitude that our bodies are meant for pleasing the guys, and that in this department no one should leave you behind. Many of my lovers I was with at various times, told me that I was expected to give them access to my body at all times. Initially I was not so sure, but when I decided to play along, I realised that the quality of our lives increased dramatically. Soon it got reinforced into me that being available was my natural state. Initially, my guys took every opportunity to touch and squeeze my tits by slipping a hand under the T-shirt or sweater. Initially this happened only when nobody was watching, but gradually you care less and less. As time passes, one becomes more and more open. Gradually, I knew that I was expected to be be available for their enjoyment at all times, and that they too would be available for my enjoyment at all times. And that also made me so pleased with myself, and my life got that much better.
Sometimes wear a top that you can easily lift or open to show your breasts. Other times it will be a skirt that you can lift, Yet other times, dress sexy or be nude under a long coat, that opens for the asking, or better still even without asking. .sex is the lifeblood of all these relationships, and reminding your guy again and again that you are a sexual creature that enjoys your sexuality and wants him to enjoy it too, can prevent any relationship from getting jaded.
Learn new skills...dirty talking is one such. The key is practice. Guys get really excited hearing the girl talk dirty...learn from so many articles and videos on the net...It will make your guy climax like hell.
Always carry a Makeup kit, Lipstick, A mini vibrator, Cigarettes, Lighter, Cell phone, Some money, Mobile, Black Eyeliner, some perfume, and of course, condoms. Load some porn novels, pics and movies on your phone. Make use of every opportunity you get with guys. Also, have a healthy attitude towards sex. Be keen on experimenting, and have the passion and the fire in the eyes, as you do him. Whether its blowjobs or sex, enthusiasm always shows. Sex needs to make you genuinely happy. Open your guy's mind to new pleasures and desires. Tease and tempt him. Let him work on your body as an artist works on a canvas...Give him a wonderful time. Be Fun.
Repeat to yourself again and again and again, that you are there to fulfil the guy's fantasies..to give him a great time. Whatever you do, it should be fun and pleasurable to him. That you exist solely for his pleasure, use and enjoyment. Accept and be proud of your new life of being fun, and the moment you accept it, it becomes enjoyable. Know and accept your place, your role, that of being Fun. Let your life revolve around Pleasure, Fun, Guys and Sex. Awesome things will happen once you stop being miserable and fit into your role.
11. TATTOOS, PIERCINGS AND BODY MODIFICATIONS. I am not a big fan of Tattoos and dont have many. Sometime back, I got a tattoo of a small flame just above my pussy, so that my guy stands warned that he was entering a ultra hot zone. If one has less ink or more, I believe that tattoos should always have a sexual content. It should remind your guy of the incredible girl you are. And it should make his dick harder.
Same about piercings. They should invariably have a sexual content. Earlobes piercings is so passe, but that too can be converted into something unique by say using heart shaped rings instead of round ones. Use the real large ones. Nipple, clitoris and other jewellery is available in a wide range of styles. You can also choose simple lassos which don't need piercing.
In the long term, go for that Nose job, lighten your hair, and that boob job...whether it’s some sort of lift with implants or getting that perky big tit look...
12. WHAT REALLY MATTERS. But in the end eventually, for all questions there is only one test...Does it add girth to his dick..does it make him happier...does it make me more desirable and increase the chance of a sexual encounter...If the answer is a Yes, thats all you need to know, thats all that matters, that is the last word.
9 years ago
So many women fail to keep up the allure once they have accomplished their own conquest.
Best part about you (to me, these days) is how open and willing you are for most anything. You read us guys better - although what guys DON'T want a hot young escort to talk so shockingly dirty?? And the fact that you gobble the cock better, deeper and longer, and plead for the facial right between your eyes or down your throat is a real positive to us older guys. But enough rambling and compliments - don't want you getting an inflated ego... Talk to you later!
i love it
I like him