To whom It May Concern

Some of you may have noticed that I haven't been around here in a while. I purposely took a break from this site. I wasn't really enjoying it anymore so I just wanted to spend some time away from it.

To be honest, I haven't been very happy lately...and whenever I would sign on here, a lot of the rude and/or creepy people on this site would just make me feel worse. I've been stressed out about life in general. I'm graduating in a few months, so entering the "Real World" is coming up quick. I feel pressure to succeed in school and be done with it, but at the same time I feel the pressure of entering the working world and succeeding there too. Even the thought of searching for a job in this economy is stressing me out. I don't know who I'm going to "be" or what I'm going to do.

And because I'll be starting a new chapter in my life, I've been thinking a lot about my dad. He passed away a few years ago, and the fact that he's not here to see me graduate or give me advice has been making me depressed. I haven't wanted to do much of anything.

I used to use this site as a distraction...someplace to just forget everything for a while. I've made a few good connections with people here, but a majority of the messages I get can be pretty gross. This site is obviously all about sex, but to me, there is a proper way to go about discussing it. Maybe I'm just too square for this site. Because of those rude people, I would sign off from this site feeling even more down than I did when I signed on. And to be honest, the site isn't what I had hoped it would be when I first made an account here. I had hoped to talk with women about their experiences with other women...but there are so many guys who have accounts pretending to be girls that it's hard to know who is real and who you can trust. So that aspect of the site hasn't really worked out for me very well.

I've had an account here for a few years now, and I was thinking maybe it was time to delete it. I came close to doing so, but then just decided to take a break from it. To those of you who I exchange messages with, please don't take it personally if I don't write back to you right away. I'm just dealing with some of my own issues right now and can't really focus too much on this site.