You know you like it!

I'll openly admit, behind the anonymity of my xHamster account, that I love watching attractive, feminine t-girls, ladyboys, traps, femboys, etc. Having sex, or at least a serious make out session, with one of these cuties, is on my bucket list.

I'm not gay, and I don't want to have sex with, or kiss, a man! Yuck! But one of the adorable, sexy ladies who happens to have a penis? Hell yeah!

I'll bet you think about it too, don't you? How does it make you feel? Do you question your sexuality? Do you think maybe you're really gay, or perhaps bi?

I look at these attractive ladies as women who just have slightly different plumbing than I may have experienced with genetic women. But they're girls all the way, and being attracted to a lovely chick with a dick is totally heterosexual, in my view.

So what are your thoughts?

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10 years ago
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GeorgeCross 6 years ago
I fully agree with you again.
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masman5555 8 years ago
I married badly when I was 20, divorced at 23. A few months after the divorce I was feeling sorry for myself and went to a few strip bars and had a few beers. Got bored after seeing several good looking ladies get naked and walked out. Found a small place to get a dinner and then just started walking around. Took a turn into a small neighborhood and spotted what looked like a local bar and decided to have a few more drinks. Seemed like a decent crowd, lots of different types of people and one cute but thin lady shooting pool by herself. I ordered my second drink and offered to play a game with her, she accepted. We got along great during the several games and drinks, lots of getting close and touching and even a few dances.
I was cheering up nicely when she said lets go to a booth and have a serious chat. She told me she was really enjoying my company and thought I was equally enjoying hers but she needed to tell me something. I thought for sure she was going to say she was married or waiting for a boyfriend.
Boy was I wrong, she took a deep breath and told me we had a lot in common, she was a male too. Damn, I almost fell off my chair. She started to get up to go but I asked her to stay. We talked a bit, shot another game of pool and even a few more dances.
We left and I walked her home and made plans for a real date a few days later. We dated for several weeks but she had already made plans to move back to Belgium to take care of her mother. We wrote to each other for a while but her coming back wasn't in the cards.
Tristan was my first brush with a t-girl and I still miss her, hell she was more a sweet lady than my ex ever was. I tried to find something similar with a few others but nothing compared. So I went back to natural women and married a lovely lady who stayed with me till passed 3 years ago. I still think of her and Tristan.
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stanleyhammer
stanleyhammer 9 years ago
Yes, Rick, I think about it too. I find pretty girls with small tits who happens to have a penis a big turn on. I often wonder why some of the best and biggest cocks on the internet belong to t-girls, shemales, CDs etc.
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : They are the best fantasme. You can say out loud that you enjoy extreme stuff as bukkake or BDSM, but saying that you fantasize about fucking a man pretending to be a woman ? NEVER ! This is part of why it's so exciting, it's the same feeling as when you were young, the risk of being caught.
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : Ouah my message is really long. What I wanted to say is that watching porn online tend to make people search for more and more kinky stuff, and that the final stage of this stage is t-girl porn, because t-girls/traps/shemales are probably sex obsessed, willing to please, ready to do anything (when anal is the regular sex, it's easy to be open to a lot of stuff), real. They are the best fantasme. You can say out loud that you enjoy extreme stuff as bukkake or BDSM, but saying that you fantasize a
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : Ouah my message is really long. What I wanted to say is that watching porn online tend to make people search for more and more kinky stuff, and that the final stage of this stage is t-girl porn, because t-girls/traps/shemales are probably sex obsessed, willing to please, ready to do anything (when anal is the regular sex, it's easy to be open to a lot of stuff), real. They are the best fantasme. You can say out loud that you enjoy extreme stuff as bukkake or BDSM, but saying that you fantasize a
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : Anal sex. Don't really need to argument here^^.
Cocks : if a trap is feminine, then her cock is fucking attractive to me. I'd do anything to please her, suck it, stroke it (one of my fantasy is to fuck a trap while jerking her cock), frottage is really hot also, and I'd probably consider being fucked myself.


Ouah my message is really long. What I wanted to say is that watching porn online tend to make people search for more and more kinky stuff, and that the final stage of this stage is t-girl
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : I consider traps as women, but they're men, and men are generally way more sex obsessed than woman. So traps are a promise of a lot of sex ! And this makes me fantasize a lot.
Traps always looks submissive. And I'm dominant (mostly). So the chance that a traps would make a perfect sex slave is very high : they are begging for it. I mean, look at those pictures : http://xhamster.com/photos/view/4841724-82557394.html#content http://xhamster.com/photos/view/3941148-66295750.html
Anal sex. Don
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : First, traps aren't pro. Porn actress (woman and shemales) are paid, maybe they enjoy it, but they are actress, it's not real. Traps video are rare but aren't made to make money. Same goes for their hot photo. Sex scenes are "real", with real desires, and when a trap take a photo of herself bending over, exposing her pinky butt hole, she's expressing a real desire to be fucked. This "honesty" makes it really arousing.
I consider traps as women, but they're men, and men are generally way more sex
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : With time, it became kinda boring, casual. Too professional. I still like it but it doesn't turn me on like before. I needed something new, and as always something more pervert, unconventional (for conventional stuff, I have my girlfriend :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye: ).

So, traps. I dislike most crossdressers, the only difference I see between traps and cd is that traps are always very feminine. I think traps are for me the ultimate stage of my kinky internet evolution. They are perfect.


First, traps aren't pro. Porn
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : Then I discovered real (not hentai, I mean) shemales. It was really confusing. Extremely kinky stuff, I don't remember the name of the production but you probably know it : the ones that starts with a shot on a huge brick building looking like a prison or something. Shemales dominating men, assfucking them, forcing them to suck their cock. It made me not question my heterosexuality but I found it really arousing. Like I said, I like domination stuff, so...

With time, it became kinda boring, cas
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : For a time. And then soft BDSM, domination stuff, things like that. Why ? Because internet ! It was just "there", waiting for me, the more I watched porn, the more I needed kinky stuff. At this point I was living on my own, no more risk of being caught, no more "oh God they are already back, quick !", no rush... not enough "piment" to really enjoy regular sex porn (and also, mostly, because of what internet used me to watch).

Then I discovered real (not hentai, I mean) shemales. It was really c
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : The first time I masturbated to a t-girl was on a hentai (Bible Black, it wasn't really a t-girl, but an hermaphrodite). Two girls, but one with a dick ? That's a win-win ! No more need to watch the guys (I think we all masturbated to a movie and when about to come, close-up on the guy's face... always hated these moments^^) !

Then i became tired of hentai. Bad animations, censure, unreal,... And I focused on lesbian porn. It was perfect. For a time. And then soft BDSM, domination stuff, things
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poquelin 9 years ago
to poquelin : Everytime I had the possibility to watch a video, I did. I was living with my parents, it was prohibited, the only computer at home was the family one,... searching for porn on internet was very exciting (the risk of being caught made it more, I don't know, fun ?).

Then I discovered hentai and it became quickly the main subject of my fapping routine. Because it was more kinky than what I used to watch before. Some hentai are really fucked up, but mostly I enjoyed a lot of it. The first time I
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poquelin 9 years ago
Hi ! English isn't my native langage, so if something is strangely written, that's why ! (Sorry about that :stuck_out_tongue_winking_eye:). I am heterosexual, never been attracted to a man, but i really enjoy t-girl porn.

Slowly, I became more and more attracted to shemales/ladyboys/traps/... (it's still difficult for me to differentiate them^^). Why ? In my opinion, it's internet's "fault". Let me explain :


At first, as a young teenager, I was extremely turned on by "regular" heterosexuel porn. Everytime I had the poss
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daviea9 9 years ago
to sexlover19 : Certainly makes sense for me.
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jack-cum
jack-cum 10 years ago
Sounds good to me :smile:

Jack--
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sexlover19 10 years ago
I SOOOO want to be this guy! How the fuck did he keep his cock in his pants, though?
http://xhamster.com/movies/2874105/got_milk_3_eat_this_cream.html
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sexlover19 10 years ago
to rickkink : Fantastic, mate - I love your frankness and this is one of my favourite pages on here, although we've only chatted briefly before.
There have been times when I've "subbed" with a male partner, as I said, but as a guy who loves women - I mean in general, not just sexually - for their femininity, beauty, soft skin and scent and is also turned-on by shapely, good-sized penises, the type of t-girl you describe is pretty much my ideal too. Thanks again, bud.
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rickkink Publisher 10 years ago
to sexlover19 : Both of your comments are excellent, and you summed it up nicely with the phrase "hairy-assed geezer." The type of transsexual that I would be drawn to is one who is super-feminine, with all the female accessories. She would be pretty, slender, hopefully have a feminine voice, nice long hair, makeup, smell good, etc. Given all of these factors, the presence of a penis would not deter my attraction to her, and might even enhance it.

Most guys would never admit it, but I think we all have some level of curiosity about "gay sex," and it's "safer" to explore that curiosity with t-girls.
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sexlover19 10 years ago
Something I forgot, regarding your statement: "I'm not gay, and I don't want to have sex with, or kiss, a man! Yuck! But one of the adorable, sexy ladies who happens to have a penis? Hell yeah!"
The key phrase is "who happens to have a penis" - I'd say it downplays the importance of the male cock in your attraction to transsexuals. Men all know how good a penis feels in our hands. Wanting to touch someone else's, to taste and lick it, is, I would argue, perfectly natural.
Presentation is all, however - if the penis is "attached" to some hairy-assed geezer, that might be quite an unattractive proposition. One belonging to a smooth-skinned, feminine transsexual, however . . . let me at it!
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sexlover19 10 years ago
Interesting blog and responses, to say the least. Thanks to all.
As a bisexual man who actively seeks sexual encounters with both sexes but has only had "proper" (i.e., live-in, we're-a-couple) relationships with women, I had a deeply formative experience when a good male friend and I first had sex in our late teens.
There was drink involved, which helped, and any inhibitions either of us might have had about such an intimate encounter - which we'd never even discussed - were wiped out.
Basically, I went back to his place on the way home from the pub, we sucked each other's cocks and ejaculated in each other's mouths.
I will never, ever forget the first feeling of a hard penis in my hands and in my mouth. Loved the steely hardness of it combined with the softness of the skin. The taste was also a revelation.
My friend came very quickly and without warning, filling my mouth with semen, and I surprised myself by swallowing it all.
I came minutes later when he inserted a wet finger into my anus as he sucked.
We then began having sex fairly regularly, and when he began house-sitting for friends who had gone to America we began spending nights together. His big thing, I soon discovered, was putting on our absent female friend's lacy underwear prior to sex. It absolutely heightened the experience for us both and we soon discovered he enjoyed an active (or is that passive?) "female" role, wearing makeup and a nightie while I fucked him, face to face and with lots of deep kissing and caressing.
Looking back I'm proud at how sexually adventurous we were as two eighteen-year-olds.
I also discovered just how sensitive my own anus and rectum were and gladly took his beautiful cock inside me several times, allowing him to ejaculate inside me.
It sparked off a lifelong fascination with sex with cute, slightly feminine men and to this day I can find the appearance of a cross-dressing guy or a pre-operative transexual absolutely breathtaking and very arousing.
My friiend, who I still see occasionally, is now happily married with two children ad we've never discussed those days.
I have had quite a few encounters with men since, and one of the most stimulating was with an 18-year-old cross-dressing Asian boy fairly recently. I blogged about it here:
http://xhamster.com/user/sexlover19/posts/258374.html
The initial response when I posted it as a blog was favourable and sparked some great chats on XH with other men. I reposted it as a story and got markedly fewer comments, although it has proved popular. I guess blogging is the way forward!
Thanks again for all the superb content, Mr Kink. :smile:
Tony.
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LacyNylons
LacyNylons 10 years ago
to rickkink : You are right not to give a damn. My point is that the labels just serve to divide us. We don't need them, and are better off without them.
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rickkink Publisher 10 years ago
to LacyNylons : Hi Lacy,

Your point is very well stated. I think you and I once talked about all of us being on a line from 1 to 100, where 1 is totally gay and 100 is totally straight, and that there are no 1s or 100s.

It doesn't help when we add labels to people. And I, as much as the next guy, don't want to be labeled as "gay," therefore I preface my statement with "I'm not gay, but..."

I will say this. I don't fantasize about sex with, or making out with, a man. But I do fantasize about doing these things with a sexy t-girl. What label applies to me then?

Frankly, my dear, I don't give a damn!

Kisses!
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LacyNylons
LacyNylons 10 years ago
to rickkink : It was a rhetorical question. I know better than most the negative attitude that we still have towards homosexuals and even more so towards crossdressers. I'm simply arguing that all sexual labels are inaccurate and unhelpful. Nobody is completely gay or straight and it makes no sense to try to claim that just because you aren't completely one, then you must be completely the other. Not being gay is not the same as being straight. Qualifying a desire and attraction to crossdressers in this way only helps to prolong the prejudice against us in the eyes of the less enlightened. x
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rickkink Publisher 10 years ago
to LacyNylons : Hi Lacy,

Nice to hear from you!

You really don't know why men start with "I'm not gay, but..."?

Because our society still has a very negative attitude toward gays. It's wrong, we know, but from the time we're very young, we're taught to "watch out for queers in the locker room."

I don't think it's as bad as it was twenty years ago, and I think it will be better twenty years from now. But it's still a reality.

Besides, I'm not gay! I don't want to have sex with a man. But a beautiful t-girl such as yourself, when dressed, isn't a man. You're a woman! At least that's how I see you!
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LacyNylons
LacyNylons 10 years ago
Why do men always start with 'I'm not gay, but....'. I long ago gave up trying to work out what my sexuality is. Labels are for idiots. You know what you like, just enjoy being who you are.
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doc562
doc562 10 years ago
something about a chick with a dick that makes us all crazy
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gaglietto
gaglietto 10 years ago
I agree!I love trans, crossdresser and feminine boy!I like the cock not the rest of men bodies!
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athompso
athompso 10 years ago
You've hit it on the head, I think, at least for most guys who are interested.

Apparently - this is all stuff I've read elsewhere - there's academic research to back this up, it's a) not a new fetish, it's been documented/drawn/etc. for thousands(?) of years, but b) it's fairly common - what's unclear is whether the fascination/fetishization (is that even a word?) among men is on the upswing (heh), possibly because of exposure to the concept, or whether it's just more OK to admit it nowadays.

A trans-person has to work ten times harder to look as feminine (or masculine) as possible, so it's not strange that in some ways they're prettier (more handsome? dunno) and/or more attractive than cis-gendered individuals.

Sexuality is big part of why some/most of them transition, and that in many cases the person transititioning wants to explore/reinforce their sexuality, it's kind of out in the open anyway so why not? I'm not transitioning myself, so can't say what's going on mentally.

And last but not least, getting fucked in the ass by, and "forced" to suck off, a shemale top, was one of the best sexual experiences I've ever had.
I'm in the same boat, kissing a man would just be ... well, no thanks. Living with one? No thanks. Being romantic with another guy? Meh. Sex with one is perfectly fine, as long as I'm receiving - but that's the anal slut & sub in me talking. But doing all those things with a woman who happens to have a penis? Bring it on, I don't have a problem with that.

I call myself "slightly bisexual", or "heteroflexible" in circumstances where simply calling myself "straight" isn't right, but usually I just think of myself as a straight guy who doesn't care what brand of plubming got installed :smile:.
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