Why do you spell it "gurls?"
This always bothers me. When I see a beautiful, or even ordinary, shemale, transsexual, tranny, ladyboy, sissy, or whatever, whether she's clothed or naked, I know I'm looking at a girl. It's not a man I'm looking at, it's a woman, or a girl, with a penis. She's female, just with a little extra plumbing on the outside. I have no wish to qualify her by using an alternate spelling.
I also see "femboi," or other odd spellings.
Do you feel you need to differentiate between a genetic female and a trans female by pointing it out with your spelling?
What are your thoughts?
I also see "femboi," or other odd spellings.
Do you feel you need to differentiate between a genetic female and a trans female by pointing it out with your spelling?
What are your thoughts?
10 years ago
That's a great explanation. I always appreciate good writing and grammar, as well.
However, my take is that a lot of people (clearly not yourself) use the term "gurls" because they feel the subject falls short of being a "girl." Your alligator/crocodile example is very good, because they are two different animals. However, in the case of Allison and Maddie, for example, I assume they want to be girls. I assume they dress like girls, act like girls, and live like girls. So to me, out of complete and total admiration, I choose to call them girls.
Again, I appreciate your heartfelt and passionate explanation! I've sent you a friend request, I hope you'll accept.
Thanks,
Rick
To me, Alice and Maddie are extremely desirable and are much prettier and sexier than 99.9% of females their age. They are not girls, they don’t have female sexual organs, they cannot menstruate, they cannot get pregnant and give birth. The fact that those two delicate beauties have male genitalia makes them irresistible to me. They aren’t merely girls, because girls are commonplace, there are millions of girls everywhere. Conversely, gurls are special, they are more desirable to me than girls because they have male genitalia. No matter how you slice it, a person with a penis and testicles isn’t the same as a person with a vagina and ovaries.
Here’s a rough analogy. An alligator and a crocodile are similar, as are a dolphin and a porpoise. Just because these animals look similar doesn’t mean they are the same. If people started calling crocodiles: alligators, and started calling porpoises: dolphins, it would be wrong because it would be inaccurate and thus cause confusion. Words mean something, words identify things; we oughtn’t fudge words because if we do then their descriptive value disappears and we are left with inaccuracy and confusion. Long live gurls, they are the sexiest human beings on earth! No offense, girls.
Again, I appreciate your well thought out and expressed point. I strongly disagree with your take on the word "ladyboy," though. That's what they call themselves in Thailand and other places. I don't associate the word with porn.
To me, a "shemale" has big fake tits, a big hard cock, and way too much makeup. I don't find most shemales attractive. "Tranny" is obviously an abbreviation for transsexual. I don't much like the word "sissy," unless it's a man who is being "forced" to wear little girl dresses. Note that "forced" is in quotation marks.
I don't think a "femboi" is somebody who wants to, or can, pass. He/she is someone more androgynous, with both male and female characteristics. The word "trap" I actually do associate more with porn. I envision a straight guy getting "trapped" by a sexy t-girl. It wouldn't bother me any!
Finally, "T-girl" is sort of a catch-all, in my mind, covering everybody from a part-time crossdresser or transvestite, to a pre-op or non-op transsexual.
You said you've never found the term "gurl" to be offensive, but you call yourself sissy-slut-whore, so I guess you have pretty thick skin!
Thanks again for a couple of wonderful posts!
I appreciate your well thought out perspective. On the most technical level, you're clearly correct. But indulge me a moment, and take a look at this video:
http://xhamster.com/movies/4026975/alice_and_maddie_19yr_old_femboys_3_little_showoffs.html
When you look at Alice and Maddie, you're look at two genetic males. They are transgendered, to what degree I don't know.
But what I see when I look at this video is two girls.
I don't see gurls, ladyboys, trannies, t-girls, shemales, traps, fembois, or anything else. I see two girls. They both have cocks, but from my point of view, they're girls. If they had panties on, anybody would call them girls. Wouldn't you?
I really believe that some people use "gurls" in a derogatory manner. Worse than that, I'll see a cute transgendered girl in a video, and someone will comment that "He's really pretty."
As long as someone sees himself/herself as a girl, then that's good enough for me.
Again, technically, you're correct. But I don't care about being technical, I care about being incredibly turned on by two girls who happen to have cocks!
Conversely, a biological 'girl' has a vagina, clitoris, uterus, womb, cervix, ovaries, and can get pregnant and give birth. Needless to say, a real ’girl’ lacks male genitalia, thus, she can’t jerk-off her nonexistent cock and ejaculate nonexistent semen and impregnate another ‘girl.’
We need to make linguistic distinctions among people of different categories to be able to correctly identify them. You can’t call a grape a pineapple, because if you do the words grape and pineapple becomes meaningless. The only time it is proper to refer to someone who was born male a ’girl’ is after the person has undergone a sex-change operation, i.e., when his male genitalia has been surgically removed/reshaped and a fake vagina has been created by a surgeon. Then and only then is it proper to call such a person a ‘girl’ or ‘woman’ for the sake of being polite, even though after a sex-change operation a person doesn’t become a real biological woman, but like I said, to be polite she should be referred to as ’girl’ or ’woman.’
Don‘t get me wrong, I absolutely love shemales and have the utmost respect and admiration for them; as far as I’m concerned, anatomically speaking, they are ‘the best of both worlds,’ as they say.