Can The JUMP-OFF become the REAL THANG

I know what I am looking for.. And I know what I desire. See a FWB is kinda like a temporay measure. Like a last resort for hmm comfort. I have been the good girl, the hoe, the mistress, the wifey, I make no qualms I have filled many a shoe in my day . I have been the BAD GIRL and gotten treated like a fucking QUeen and been the Good Girl and been treated like Dirt. I have seen some things in my day and I think its possible if there are two mature minded ppl. If you can get beyond the we fucked on the first date taboo .

If you can build the relationship with some subsational qualities and basic core cornerstone components. I think that if you are getting what you want without "playing the game"Why wouldnt that make you happy? The games people play. I don't know but I think so
Anything is possible. I have been the jump-off turned BOO so I know for me its possible
But I would advise against putting your hopes into a relationship with someone who is just fucking you.
I would advise being honest IF you want more say SO! If he doesnt leave him alone..
Its best for your Heart in the end
What are your thoughts on it?? hmm WHY or WHY NOT?? Comments PLEASE
Kinda incomplete.. just random thoughts here on my part

Published by cocofemme

14 years ago

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hewlet 13 years ago

Coccofemme it's fo sho possible but it's not really likely. What we've got to understand is that things work like they do for a reason.

As a man fucking on the first date is the shit! And personally I am not gonna take that lightly. By no means am I gonna marginalize a female for doing what I like to do. If I am feeling her I will allow a relationship to develop from there.

But if she was just a jump off then she is just jump off and she will have a hard time getting to that next level because I aint really feeling her that way anyways.

That would be too bad for her if she was honestly feeling me. Because that relationship that she may want will be hard to get to.

But the difficult part can be when things become tougher down the line. If a man and a woman have problems or some distance between each other...

...Then not matter what I am doing when and if she "talks" to another dude, then my trust is shaken and hard to get back.

Now imagine the same female made me wait and wait until we hooked up. Then my confidence in her being exclusive with me would be much higher and easier to recover from when we were apart or things looked bad or if times were rocky between us.

So in conclusion, there are some good reasons to do things "the old fashioned way" even if we are some freaks.

Holla back

BronxBooty 14 years ago

Yea but not if the jump off is still a jump off at heart

Dlove 14 years ago

Honesty and Truthfulness have to be first and for most in order for the Key element to manifest, Commuication. Once a person becomes a adult there is no need to play games but most people do and it is sad. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

mr_GOODBARR 14 years ago

My comment is just off da title... can da jump-off become.da real thang??? I would say HELL YEA, my thought process is way different 4rm most guys. If meet someone n i get 2 suck n fuck da pussy da 1st night r da first hour I've known her is no crime 2 me. If she likes gurls r would even fuck my homies if i said so is all good wit me. N if my dirty lil hoe starts 2 sho me dat she really down 4me n is all da way REAL, I mean wont lie, steal r cut throat me no kinda way.then my dirty hoe is now my wifey...

jazziedad 14 years ago

Deep Thoughts Missy, I have to say I agree with what you say and feel...

dasluttiestmale 14 years ago

You most definitely have had you fill on lots of thing in the sexual, as well as emotion realms. I really do feel what you posted about the FWB, and that's why I haven't cracked on you since then. I'm trying to get right so I can be in the best position to meet, greet, and eat all of the women that I cum across. You are one of the women that I've talked to that have their heads on right, tight, and I totally understand your trepidations in dealing with us. we (as people) often want the unobtainable things in life. I just say accept what cums to you, thrill in it, wel-cum the gifts that are bestowed upon you, even luv it, for you don't know what kind of curve balls this life will throw at you.

You demonstrate all the qualities that are well worthy of the title of queen!

thank you for being so strong, Andrew

cocofemme Publisher 14 years ago

I have contemplated celibacy because Sex has been my cause and cure.. I love the way it makes me feel but then I dislike the feelings that come with the taboo and the insecurites that are abound in our society about sex... I just don't know its been a long time since I been in love and I hate to be so FAR OFF THE GROUND Because its a LONG LONG LOOONG WAY DOWN!

luvdatass 14 years ago

1. A great man once said to me a peace of mind is better than a piece of behind my response was that it depended on prospective this man is my father and at that stage in my life the behind was more important. Now however the peace of mind is more paramount not that I don’t like or desire the behind just have a different perspective. That what I feel in my non professional opinion is the dilemma for you. You have evolved in so many ways be social, physical and sexual that you prospective has change. So you need to attract someone that has that same evolutionary process going on with them. Someone that stagnant in their growth is a waste of your time. Hate to go biblical on you but the bible states in Job 14:14 all my appointed time will I wait, till my change come. Your change is coming that special someone is going to appear when you least expect it. I’m not a prophet I just believe whole heartedly that for someone so honest and true there is soul mate