Gender Dysphoria and Pornography
Have you realized that if you type "transsexual" into any search engine you will get a lot of hookup services and pornography?
I think many do not bother, but it is strange if you are actually looking for information or a community because you feel you are different. I have been looking for ways to understand myself better, and hence I have been interested in studying the concept "transsexual" "transgender" etc. But I just find porn. "Want to fuck a transsexual?" - is the question that is addressed by commercial banners just as if thats what I am looking for. I think this illustrates that there are more horny men who type transsexual into search engines than people who actually have a personal interest in fining out things about transsexuality and of oneself.
I am starting to think that transsexuality cannot be detached from the sexualized role it has in our society. It is similar to how womanhood also is stuck in the claws of sexualization (or sexism).
Well, anyway, I fin it somethimes funny... or maybe funny is the wrong word. There is a certain bitterness to this funny-ness. Or, let's say like this: It is not funny but it makes me laugh, OK: That all the tranny ladies on sites like these are worshiped for their beauty(and you better be beautiful or you're out!) And most of us work on being beautiful. We do everything to feel happy including taking care of our looks and to be nice to people around. And the equation is simple: The hotter, the more femme you are, the more "friends" you will have and the more you will be perceived as a woman. Then men want to do all kinds of things with you including everything from casual anal-sex to marriage. Men find all the cute transsexuals and are day-dreaming while scrolling through their fabulous picture-albums. OK, this is the bitter part: While it all is a fabulous, glittery and pornoghraphically mesmerizing drag show on the surface, there is possible hell underneath it. The most sparkling queens can be conveying a mind tortured by GID (type that into your search engine if its new to you).
When the shows over, the wig is in a box, and you fall asleep smothering mascara into your pillow case - Who the f* cares about you then? (I am not bitter I am just asking, I have somebody who cares... I know)
And yes, I see the irony in posting this on a "just porn no bullshit site" ;) Maybe this is the "Bullshit". Well sorry, but I sometimes enjoy shitting in sand-castles (Maybe that idiom does not exist in the English language? But you get the joke, right...)
Rock on!
Love!
Bunz
I think many do not bother, but it is strange if you are actually looking for information or a community because you feel you are different. I have been looking for ways to understand myself better, and hence I have been interested in studying the concept "transsexual" "transgender" etc. But I just find porn. "Want to fuck a transsexual?" - is the question that is addressed by commercial banners just as if thats what I am looking for. I think this illustrates that there are more horny men who type transsexual into search engines than people who actually have a personal interest in fining out things about transsexuality and of oneself.
I am starting to think that transsexuality cannot be detached from the sexualized role it has in our society. It is similar to how womanhood also is stuck in the claws of sexualization (or sexism).
Well, anyway, I fin it somethimes funny... or maybe funny is the wrong word. There is a certain bitterness to this funny-ness. Or, let's say like this: It is not funny but it makes me laugh, OK: That all the tranny ladies on sites like these are worshiped for their beauty(and you better be beautiful or you're out!) And most of us work on being beautiful. We do everything to feel happy including taking care of our looks and to be nice to people around. And the equation is simple: The hotter, the more femme you are, the more "friends" you will have and the more you will be perceived as a woman. Then men want to do all kinds of things with you including everything from casual anal-sex to marriage. Men find all the cute transsexuals and are day-dreaming while scrolling through their fabulous picture-albums. OK, this is the bitter part: While it all is a fabulous, glittery and pornoghraphically mesmerizing drag show on the surface, there is possible hell underneath it. The most sparkling queens can be conveying a mind tortured by GID (type that into your search engine if its new to you).
When the shows over, the wig is in a box, and you fall asleep smothering mascara into your pillow case - Who the f* cares about you then? (I am not bitter I am just asking, I have somebody who cares... I know)
And yes, I see the irony in posting this on a "just porn no bullshit site" ;) Maybe this is the "Bullshit". Well sorry, but I sometimes enjoy shitting in sand-castles (Maybe that idiom does not exist in the English language? But you get the joke, right...)
Rock on!
Love!
Bunz
10 years ago
I can say, anyway, that since this was written I have started to live as female and watch porn very rarely, hence my absence on this website!
xxx
Bunz
Vous verrez sur mon profil (photo avec line-c) que j'apprécie les relations sexuelles avec une trans.
Je serai ravi de parler avec vous.
philippe
Love,
Bunz
try "gender dysphoria" and you'll get more genuine results
but of course you'll also get "fuck a tranny near you."
transexualism is a big money making fetish that overshadows
true dysphoria and transgenderism.
That's just how it is.
just say sth nice to a women, and many of them will also think of "he just wants to fuck me". as a man, just ask for slightest body closeness thats clearly not sexual - and its perceived as suaxual by women - so: nobody is free of that.
the real problem indeed is, that words like transsexual and homosexual have that sexual in them, and thereby reduce the phenomenon to bare sexuality, but its not. its also an emotional phenomenon.
but i think its kind of "normal" in an uncontrolled media environment.
all this media, movies etc lead to several misconceptions about how men, women, humans! are. noone is left out, noone is free of prejudice, but we can reflect it and then overcome it.
but i really liked your text.
That said based on your face pic i wouldn't leave you lying in bed crying your mascara away , all men are not heartless .
Are there manly men that want to get a sexy fuck from you and then leave , yes , this is true with all sexuality. it is in a mans nature to want to leave, men want to take all the sex they can get then leave .
I'ts what i want almost every time . the trick is something that no man will tell you about (Paul McCartney will but is-int he dead?)
and that something is love .
now Ive never been in love with a girl like u but, it seems it happens ,and if you want to be happy then it don't matter if you are green, blue ,tranny, gay, hetero,smart, stupid,tall ,short,religious,or atheist.
once you find it nourish it!
this is not meant to be mean , just my opinion . i like girly girls and it seems girls like you are a big part of it for me .
that being said , and i only have a profile pic to use here , but if you look like that i don't care about the mascara on the sheets id still take you to meet mom and dad .
And who i'm? Justa pervert?
Thank you beforehand for courteous answer.