Who is responsible for BAD SEX??!!!

Well I must say that Both parties can take a little blame for the hmm bad sex.
depending on these factors:

Are you a selfish lover: You pump and pump get your nut then fall straight asleep.
You want a man to eat your pussy for hours but you wont allow a dick near your face.

You dont want to listen to your partners wants or needs without judgement ,
The bedroom is the last place and the most vulneracle place to come and pass judgement.
How immature is that ?

You are a man that has never actually made love to a woman , have actually fucked a woman
and KNOW the DIFFERENCE!

How many women have actually played in their pussy , actually know the parts of your vagina, Your pussy , your kitty.

Have you ever made yourself cum ? Do you know your sweet spot? Unlike cars women dont come with owners manual.

SO KnOW YOUR BODY BOTH GENDERS
GREAT SEX IS A TWO WAY STREET!
BE VOCAL
Be TRUE TO WHAT YOU LIKE!
FUCK A MOFO FEELINGS
If he or she aint doing it right use some tact gentle instruction
And For The LOve of Everything
Dont ever, ever, ever , ever fake an ORGASM!!!!
What do u think Xham FAM!! COMMENT PLEASE

Published by cocofemme

14 years ago

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mr_GOODBARR 14 years ago

I agree bebe, its on both parties. Da problem wit sum women is dey dont kno there pussy n never even made dey self cum. Which would make it hard 4 a man dats a rookie. Sum kinda insecure bout dey body, n kinda ashamed of dey freaky thoughts n da judgment sum lames would give out if dey spoke up. N sum men r just 2 dumb n lame wit there 1 track mind, n really can b judgemental. dey wont take da time 2 communicate n get da gurl 2 open up n let her kno its kool 4 her 2 do so... but dez problems could easily b fixed b 1st learning ur body & ur partner.n always communicate...always tell wat u wat n like.

tsew 14 years ago

I agree.

supermandaddy 14 years ago

I learned many years ago when I stopped being selfish with the determination to get MY nutt and started learning if i Please the woman and MAKE sure she gets her TOTAL satisfaction 1st. everything is down hill for me and my satisfaction if she's had her TREMBLING Orgasm.

Unselfishness in the bed can be rewarding..

thepowerpole 14 years ago

Time and Communication

MsJuiceBox 14 years ago

i love this blog it was the truth!

Dlove 14 years ago

You make some truly valid point. I have always been a true giver in sex. What I mean by that is that I only get satisfation from the pleasure of the person or persons that I am with. I love the intensity of being aroused (hard) more than cuming. Anything worth enjoying takes time.

dasluttiestmale 14 years ago

you have a determined mind when it cums down to getting down. I know that to fuck one mind is the key to pleasuring one's partner(s). your facts put it plainly that there has to be knowledge on both sides to create sum-thing as beautiful as orgasms. skills play a part in it, too. for to know is to show!

6Man9 14 years ago

I love the part that talks about women knowing where their sweet spot is. All women should defintly know that. That is surely one of the keys to great sex.

cocofemme Publisher 14 years ago

I love when MY PEOPLE COMMENT!! A Beautiful Mind turns me on and on!!!
Thanks you both make great facts COMMUCATION is the Main FActor in a healthy sexual sitiuation

luvdatass 14 years ago

First and foremost let me say I LOVE your topics they are so thought provoking and poignant. It mystifies me that I’m still in awe of your intellect which has been displayed on many occasion through various conversation we’ve shared that be said It is the responsibility of both parties. As previously stated by you everyone needs to have complete and extensive sexual knowledge of themselves. They need to know how every nook and cranny responds to different stimuli. The problem is that not everyone wants to take the time to find these things out a little self exploration if you will. They feel that the other person should know what makes them tick. I cannot tell you how many women have said that to me and my response has been ……..what may work for Sally may not work for Sue so I need to know what u like and what you don’t . People act like everyone they come across is clairvoyant and can read their minds. If that was the case there would be more satisfied people in the world. Lets analyze it who does it hurt? All parties involved because one person or both don’t want to take the time to explain what they want need and desire. Stop leave your sexual partners in the dark tell them what is needed to send u to the land of shear ecstasy. As far as lover and Fucker It is my belief that we fall into three categories 1) LOVERS 2) FUCKERS 3) LOVER/FUCKERS where do u fit …………for the record I’m 3 DONT FAKE ORGASM who does that help