Question 2

My sister is getting married and she has told me that I should come to the celebration with my girl because she is the person I love and want to be with. By this my mother and father would know I like girls and not boys. I do not want to hurt them but as well I do not want to lie about how I am and what I want but it is a big move. What do you believe I must do?

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11 years ago

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sexy_siren Publisher 10 years ago

She is married now but perhaps I did, hee hee.

sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to TickleFeather : I must perhaps decide sooner. My father is unwell and I am with him and my mother, but my girl is not here because she is afraid it will take so much to explain. I miss her very greatly.

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JoeyB 11 years ago

to TickleFeather : i completely agree with Tickle ... sit down with them ahead and have a heart to heart so that they understand before the big day. tell them you love them and know that they love you and how happy your life is with your gf.

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sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to TickleFeather : Yes, I would not desire to spoil her day.

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TickleFeather 11 years ago

Tell your folks before the wedding. Even if they are ok with it, it can cause quite a shock on them. Your sister´s wedding is all about the bride.

tomcat59 11 years ago

I have to agree with pukesdad.....follow your heart and think about your parents reaction. An option may be to take your friend and introduce her as your friend....without intimating an intimate relationship. However that would run the risk of offending your girlfriend/partner. You really don't have any easy options except to go solo. So, be brave my darling..follow your heart

pukesdad 11 years ago

It is so easy to be very open about yourself on a site such as this. You can say or do whatever you want here without consideration for another member's likes or dislikes. Odds are that you will never come face to face with other members so it really doesn't matter. That being said, real life is a totally different story. People you know and love will be affected by the things that you say or do. This decision should be based on your knowledge of your friends and family and how they would react. But at the same time you should consider your partners feelings. This is an important intersection in your life and only you can decide which way to turn. The answer is in you and nobody on this selfish site can understand the complexities of your family dynamics. I hope you understand that this is the best I could come up with. Good luck.