Confession 3

My girl was with another girl before me and I do not ever tell her how I worry because of this. She is older than me (she is 22) and met this girl when she was about the age I am in now (18) but it did not last. I love her and I am sure she loves me but what if it happens again? Her other girl stopped loving her. They do not even speak now. I want to be with my girl forever but I do worry.

Published by sexy_siren

11 years ago

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sexy_siren Publisher 10 years ago

to alli69 : We are still together.

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sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to alli69 : I will hope.

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alli69 11 years ago

Relax! Things work out exactly as they should!

bigharv69 11 years ago

to sexy_siren : You are more than welcome. Your first true love. What a crazy feeling. I love that feeling. Enjoy your life and live in the moment. The past is the past, the moment is now and the future hasn't happened yet. Look to a bright future with the one you love.

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sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to bigharv69 : It is maybe because I am young that I worry. This is my first love and I want it to be my last also. Thank you for your kind words.

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bigharv69 11 years ago

Communication is key. If you're worried have a heart to heart talk. Remember what I have said. Best friends first, lovers second. If you can't talk to your best friend, then who can you talk too. Maybe she's feeling the same way. She was the one that was let go. Maybe she feels you'll do the same to here. Holding in your fear of losing her can consume you and make things worse. You may start to feel jealous whenever she talks to someone else. Let her know how you feel and your fears. Let her know you love her and you are not going anywhere. Communication is the most important part of any healthy relationship. Maybe it won't last forever but there's no reason why it can't. I met my wife when we were 14 years old. 26 years later, we're more in love today than we ever were.

sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to beedee241 : Thank you. I can just love and hope and wish?

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sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to 2expert4u : I know in my head you are right, but in my heart I dream.

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beedee241 11 years ago

You give her your "all" and if time indicates it is not enough...then hopefully you will find one that accepts you simply for YOU!

2expert4u 11 years ago

In the same way we can live without our mother, father, sometimes unfortunately even kid when they die. And in the same you used to live before you met her. It will take time yes, but eventually you will recover. All of us do. How much time it will take depends on our expectations.
If you expect something to live with somebody for whole life at the age of 18, without knowing what you will do in life, without having any education, and when the other one is in the same condition, then chances are low, yes. That's why I am telling you to take it easy. Enjoy the time, and stop auto-convincing yourself that you can't live without her and that you will be with her forever. If it happens to be like that - ok, if it doesn't - life must go on.

sexy_siren Publisher 11 years ago

to 2expert4u : That would be so sad. I do not know that I could live without her.

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2expert4u 11 years ago

Chances that you won't be with her after few months/year are quite big, so better accept it now and then everything will be easier.