Misconceptions about escorts.
When potentially getting new clients I find that so many of them have really bad misconceptions about what I do or they mix- up what I can offer with what a street girl can offer.
So here it goes.
About 85% of the time! I'm actually enjoying our interactions. Yes I am doing this for money, but I don't have to. I don't have a d**g or alcohol addiction and even though I started out because I was in debt, that is changing. My point is , this is a choice not a necessity, therefore I try to enjoy what I'm doing. That doesn't mean I have orgasms, but it does mean that I get some pleasure from pleasing my clients. The problem comes in, when my clients try to please me only. That's a mistake. I'm hired to please you.
I do a lot of things, but not everything. I know in my profile I say I break all the rules, but Burger King says that you can have it your way also but they won't serve you an ice cream burger,,,lol. I just made myself laugh,, :). Like I said, I have to enjoy it. I do all kinds of kinky things because I enjoy them in my personal life as well. But just because I'm for hire it doesn't mean that I have a price for stuff that I won't do. If I'm not enjoying it, guess what you won't either, unless you are a sick fuk who gets off on a girl not enjoying sex.
I don't lower my price for good looking guys. I get this ALL the time. A guy thinks he's pretty hot and thinks I will give him a special hot guy rate. My rate is set , it can only go up actually not down.
I'm not a DiVA. Not all escorts are divas. I admit I'm a bit narcissistic. But I don't go around expecting people to do things for me. I do them for myself.
I don't have a pimp. At this level you will find two things. Independent girls and girls with agencies. Most will be with a agency. I don't have any colleagues that have pimps. Now my mentor has a security team, but she's Rollin like that,,lol. I don't make that much yet to hire a whole security team.
I'm smart. No ,, I didn't go to college,, and I may not write very well. But I'm extremely street smart and know math very well. Don't assume that just because I'm doing this that I'm dumb.
I don't have sex every night. Most new clients think I'm seeing another client every night. I wouldn't last a year doing that. I use to have 10 clients, it's down to 8 now. I see each of them on and off about 4 times a year. In other words a busy month for me would be to see 6 of my clients a month. On average I see maybe two to three a month.
I don't pass judgement on anyone. How can I , I have sex for money,,,lol. I don't care how small or big you are, or how long you can last or if you are clumsy or wonderful in bed. It's not a personal relationship. It's a business one.
I do the****utic sessions. Many guys will have an impotence or premature ejaculation problems and won't event think to ask if I can help. I can. I have helped several past clients.
I'm a human being and just like anyone I don't like being lied to, cheated on, or abused. And what I mean by cheated on, is for a guy to lie to me about being married. I need to know that . It won't change our relationship at all. But I need to if there is a safety risk like a crazy wife just like I need to know if you have any STDs. Abuse , verbally and physically, and I'm going to be honest, the verbal kind is getting bad lately,, is not tolerated. I've been doing this for awhile now and I've been a dom and a sub and I know the difference between a game and a malicious attack. Verbal abuse is getting a little weird now. It seems some guys think they can say anything and it would be ok. I guess I would save that for another blog.
Anyways,, here's a few things to help you guys to understand me better..
So here it goes.
About 85% of the time! I'm actually enjoying our interactions. Yes I am doing this for money, but I don't have to. I don't have a d**g or alcohol addiction and even though I started out because I was in debt, that is changing. My point is , this is a choice not a necessity, therefore I try to enjoy what I'm doing. That doesn't mean I have orgasms, but it does mean that I get some pleasure from pleasing my clients. The problem comes in, when my clients try to please me only. That's a mistake. I'm hired to please you.
I do a lot of things, but not everything. I know in my profile I say I break all the rules, but Burger King says that you can have it your way also but they won't serve you an ice cream burger,,,lol. I just made myself laugh,, :). Like I said, I have to enjoy it. I do all kinds of kinky things because I enjoy them in my personal life as well. But just because I'm for hire it doesn't mean that I have a price for stuff that I won't do. If I'm not enjoying it, guess what you won't either, unless you are a sick fuk who gets off on a girl not enjoying sex.
I don't lower my price for good looking guys. I get this ALL the time. A guy thinks he's pretty hot and thinks I will give him a special hot guy rate. My rate is set , it can only go up actually not down.
I'm not a DiVA. Not all escorts are divas. I admit I'm a bit narcissistic. But I don't go around expecting people to do things for me. I do them for myself.
I don't have a pimp. At this level you will find two things. Independent girls and girls with agencies. Most will be with a agency. I don't have any colleagues that have pimps. Now my mentor has a security team, but she's Rollin like that,,lol. I don't make that much yet to hire a whole security team.
I'm smart. No ,, I didn't go to college,, and I may not write very well. But I'm extremely street smart and know math very well. Don't assume that just because I'm doing this that I'm dumb.
I don't have sex every night. Most new clients think I'm seeing another client every night. I wouldn't last a year doing that. I use to have 10 clients, it's down to 8 now. I see each of them on and off about 4 times a year. In other words a busy month for me would be to see 6 of my clients a month. On average I see maybe two to three a month.
I don't pass judgement on anyone. How can I , I have sex for money,,,lol. I don't care how small or big you are, or how long you can last or if you are clumsy or wonderful in bed. It's not a personal relationship. It's a business one.
I do the****utic sessions. Many guys will have an impotence or premature ejaculation problems and won't event think to ask if I can help. I can. I have helped several past clients.
I'm a human being and just like anyone I don't like being lied to, cheated on, or abused. And what I mean by cheated on, is for a guy to lie to me about being married. I need to know that . It won't change our relationship at all. But I need to if there is a safety risk like a crazy wife just like I need to know if you have any STDs. Abuse , verbally and physically, and I'm going to be honest, the verbal kind is getting bad lately,, is not tolerated. I've been doing this for awhile now and I've been a dom and a sub and I know the difference between a game and a malicious attack. Verbal abuse is getting a little weird now. It seems some guys think they can say anything and it would be ok. I guess I would save that for another blog.
Anyways,, here's a few things to help you guys to understand me better..
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