The reason why I just like Asian men is...

...None.

Iā€™ve been asked about this so many times that I decided to create a post to try to explain it.
There is no special reason why I like Asian men but if I had to give an answer it would be that maybe the shape of the eyes, or face features in general, is what attracts me the most.
This doesnā€™t mean I like all Asians or Iā€™m going to drool or desire to have sex every time I meet an Asian guy. No, itā€™s not like that.

What kind of Asians I feel attracted to?

Just Asians from East Asia and Southeast Asia.
But, as I said before, it doesnā€™t mean I like any East Asian or Southeast Asian guy I meet. It doesnā€™t also mean I just like guys who were born in those places, although different language and culture can be ā€œa plusā€, guys with an Asian heritage born in America, Europe, Australia, etc. can attract me too.

Am I a racist?

I think I am not although Iā€™ve been called racist here before.
I donā€™t think Asians are better than other races, in fact, I donā€™t think any race is better than any other.
Iā€™m not Asian either, so thinking Asians are better than other races would be like thinking Iā€™m worse than them.
So if being a straight person doesnā€™t make someone homophobic, just feeling sexual attraction to Asians shouldnā€™t make someone racist.

Could I change my mind about this and like non-Asian men in the future?

Definitely no.

I will use an example, letā€™s imagine we live in a world where the most common or usual thing is being bisexual. Men like men and women and women like other women and men. Now, letā€™s also image you, the person who is reading this, are a straight guy. Maybe you liked men before as others do but you stopped feeling attracted to them until the point you just like or are able to have sex with women.
How would you feel if other men keep trying to flirt with you and make you change your mind even if you told them you just like women? Do you think you could change your mind in the future and have sex with guys too? No, right? Itā€™s the same for me.
I am 100% sure my ā€œtastesā€ are not going to change.
This isnā€™t something I decided or something I can control. Things would be a lot easier to me if I could like any guy and I would love that it was like that but it is not.
I liked non- Asian guys before and I also had sex with some of them but over the years I stopped feeling sexually attracted to them. This means I can like a non-Asian guy, I can think heā€™s handsome, hot, niceā€¦ I can even ā€œfall in loveā€ but when it comes to sex, it would be impossible for me to have sex with him cause my sexual desire would be less than zero.
I donā€™t want to say having sex with a non-Asian guy would be disgusting to me butā€¦ yes, it would.

If you are wondering if I had any bad experience with a non-Asian guy before then the answer is yes, BUT itā€™s not related at all about the fact that I just like Asians since years ago. After that ā€œnot nice experienceā€ I liked and had sex with other non-Asian so that was not the reason why I feel this way..

In short, I can think youā€™re handsome, hot, funny, nice, I can like to talk to you and be your friend but if you are not Asian then Iā€™m sorry but I wonā€™t have any sexual interest in you.
I donā€™t mind if you are great in sex and I also donā€™t mind if you have a giant cock, in fact, I donā€™t like giant cocks at all and no, this is not one of the reasons why I just like Asian cause not all Asians have small cocks.

Finally, I just want to say two things: one, if you took time to read all this, thank you, and two, if you are not an Asian guy, please, respect my tastes as I will respect yours, donā€™t try to change me cause the only thing you will achieve is making me upset.
Published by bittersweetmind
11 years ago
Comments
10
Please or to post comments
xx1236
xx1236 3 years ago
As a Bi sexual i can got either way..!!
Reply
wetdogsmell
wetdogsmell 9 years ago
interesting read but as others here have stated, it's no ones business what your preference is and just at least live and let live if one has differing opinion but alas, this is how the internet and the world in general can be at times. i know i'm late to the party replying to this but oh well
Reply
cloudyskysky 10 years ago
Thanks! I have a small one though Lol. 5 inch. :pensive:
Reply
bloodprince7
bloodprince7 11 years ago
kudos!! nicely put.. if u could post some of your sexual experience that would be great! I believe u have colourful lifestyle and bittersweet experience too.
Reply
norrinradd
norrinradd 11 years ago
We like what we like...there's never any reason for it and I don't feel anyone should feel the need to explain themselves. Everyone has their "thing" that gets them going or makes them happy. :smile:
Reply
rodent1
rodent1 11 years ago
to Buggster : I was about to make a very similar point. Guys can go on at length about their adoration of blondes, or girls with large chests, or even blondes with large chests, but no one bats an eye.
Reply Original comment
Buggster
Buggster 11 years ago
A very interesting read. I take it you're getting/got some not so nice messages on here for stating your preference openly. I've noticed that women on here always get criticized for their preferences on here. Whereas if a guy would only like say, redheads, no one seems to care.

If that's what you prefer, that's what you prefer, and people should just respect other peoples preferences. One doesn't have to like it, or agree, but if one doesn't they can just pass on, no?
Reply
too_face 11 years ago
If you know what you like....don't change..you are defined...
Reply
panda_007
panda_007 11 years ago
ItĀ“s clear to me...you like the small ones hahaha just kidding bad joke I know^^
No one should have to justify here because of his needs and desires. Be like you wanna be and be happy =) Much love from Germansky
Reply
hardrod04
hardrod04 11 years ago
I hear you... I have always liked white women and I can't put it quite as nicely as you could...
Reply