The reason why I just like Asian men is...
...None.
Iāve been asked about this so many times that I decided to create a post to try to explain it.
There is no special reason why I like Asian men but if I had to give an answer it would be that maybe the shape of the eyes, or face features in general, is what attracts me the most.
This doesnāt mean I like all Asians or Iām going to drool or desire to have sex every time I meet an Asian guy. No, itās not like that.
What kind of Asians I feel attracted to?
Just Asians from East Asia and Southeast Asia.
But, as I said before, it doesnāt mean I like any East Asian or Southeast Asian guy I meet. It doesnāt also mean I just like guys who were born in those places, although different language and culture can be āa plusā, guys with an Asian heritage born in America, Europe, Australia, etc. can attract me too.
Am I a racist?
I think I am not although Iāve been called racist here before.
I donāt think Asians are better than other races, in fact, I donāt think any race is better than any other.
Iām not Asian either, so thinking Asians are better than other races would be like thinking Iām worse than them.
So if being a straight person doesnāt make someone homophobic, just feeling sexual attraction to Asians shouldnāt make someone racist.
Could I change my mind about this and like non-Asian men in the future?
Definitely no.
I will use an example, letās imagine we live in a world where the most common or usual thing is being bisexual. Men like men and women and women like other women and men. Now, letās also image you, the person who is reading this, are a straight guy. Maybe you liked men before as others do but you stopped feeling attracted to them until the point you just like or are able to have sex with women.
How would you feel if other men keep trying to flirt with you and make you change your mind even if you told them you just like women? Do you think you could change your mind in the future and have sex with guys too? No, right? Itās the same for me.
I am 100% sure my ātastesā are not going to change.
This isnāt something I decided or something I can control. Things would be a lot easier to me if I could like any guy and I would love that it was like that but it is not.
I liked non- Asian guys before and I also had sex with some of them but over the years I stopped feeling sexually attracted to them. This means I can like a non-Asian guy, I can think heās handsome, hot, niceā¦ I can even āfall in loveā but when it comes to sex, it would be impossible for me to have sex with him cause my sexual desire would be less than zero.
I donāt want to say having sex with a non-Asian guy would be disgusting to me butā¦ yes, it would.
If you are wondering if I had any bad experience with a non-Asian guy before then the answer is yes, BUT itās not related at all about the fact that I just like Asians since years ago. After that ānot nice experienceā I liked and had sex with other non-Asian so that was not the reason why I feel this way..
In short, I can think youāre handsome, hot, funny, nice, I can like to talk to you and be your friend but if you are not Asian then Iām sorry but I wonāt have any sexual interest in you.
I donāt mind if you are great in sex and I also donāt mind if you have a giant cock, in fact, I donāt like giant cocks at all and no, this is not one of the reasons why I just like Asian cause not all Asians have small cocks.
Finally, I just want to say two things: one, if you took time to read all this, thank you, and two, if you are not an Asian guy, please, respect my tastes as I will respect yours, donāt try to change me cause the only thing you will achieve is making me upset.
Iāve been asked about this so many times that I decided to create a post to try to explain it.
There is no special reason why I like Asian men but if I had to give an answer it would be that maybe the shape of the eyes, or face features in general, is what attracts me the most.
This doesnāt mean I like all Asians or Iām going to drool or desire to have sex every time I meet an Asian guy. No, itās not like that.
What kind of Asians I feel attracted to?
Just Asians from East Asia and Southeast Asia.
But, as I said before, it doesnāt mean I like any East Asian or Southeast Asian guy I meet. It doesnāt also mean I just like guys who were born in those places, although different language and culture can be āa plusā, guys with an Asian heritage born in America, Europe, Australia, etc. can attract me too.
Am I a racist?
I think I am not although Iāve been called racist here before.
I donāt think Asians are better than other races, in fact, I donāt think any race is better than any other.
Iām not Asian either, so thinking Asians are better than other races would be like thinking Iām worse than them.
So if being a straight person doesnāt make someone homophobic, just feeling sexual attraction to Asians shouldnāt make someone racist.
Could I change my mind about this and like non-Asian men in the future?
Definitely no.
I will use an example, letās imagine we live in a world where the most common or usual thing is being bisexual. Men like men and women and women like other women and men. Now, letās also image you, the person who is reading this, are a straight guy. Maybe you liked men before as others do but you stopped feeling attracted to them until the point you just like or are able to have sex with women.
How would you feel if other men keep trying to flirt with you and make you change your mind even if you told them you just like women? Do you think you could change your mind in the future and have sex with guys too? No, right? Itās the same for me.
I am 100% sure my ātastesā are not going to change.
This isnāt something I decided or something I can control. Things would be a lot easier to me if I could like any guy and I would love that it was like that but it is not.
I liked non- Asian guys before and I also had sex with some of them but over the years I stopped feeling sexually attracted to them. This means I can like a non-Asian guy, I can think heās handsome, hot, niceā¦ I can even āfall in loveā but when it comes to sex, it would be impossible for me to have sex with him cause my sexual desire would be less than zero.
I donāt want to say having sex with a non-Asian guy would be disgusting to me butā¦ yes, it would.
If you are wondering if I had any bad experience with a non-Asian guy before then the answer is yes, BUT itās not related at all about the fact that I just like Asians since years ago. After that ānot nice experienceā I liked and had sex with other non-Asian so that was not the reason why I feel this way..
In short, I can think youāre handsome, hot, funny, nice, I can like to talk to you and be your friend but if you are not Asian then Iām sorry but I wonāt have any sexual interest in you.
I donāt mind if you are great in sex and I also donāt mind if you have a giant cock, in fact, I donāt like giant cocks at all and no, this is not one of the reasons why I just like Asian cause not all Asians have small cocks.
Finally, I just want to say two things: one, if you took time to read all this, thank you, and two, if you are not an Asian guy, please, respect my tastes as I will respect yours, donāt try to change me cause the only thing you will achieve is making me upset.
11 years ago
If that's what you prefer, that's what you prefer, and people should just respect other peoples preferences. One doesn't have to like it, or agree, but if one doesn't they can just pass on, no?
No one should have to justify here because of his needs and desires. Be like you wanna be and be happy =) Much love from Germansky